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ong was i dressing shabbily did i look like an abla nari drenched in poverty something wrong with the face hey i assumed i had super stunning skin these baffling questions were stealthily sneaking and ruining my peace of mind it was giving me a constant bickering headache yet i ran jumped hopped walked and crawled but moved without a pause and pushed my reading room as much as i could i gave it all i had with a slight shady guilt of investing my daughter s share of my time in it they were siblings after all the smaller one being more demanding but when the nature s law of balance is put into application i m still on the triumphant edge i earn well and of course money matters irrespective of your non monetary goals and intentions though as mentioned earlier i earned more than mere money a successful venture boosted my self esteem confidence and above all my vision of life expanded to a different level it was looking beyond clothing jewellery cars and other social parameters like the dawning of the devil wears prada moment where everything seemed just so superficial when women greet one another it is a complete scan from your branded bag to your belt to that tiny metal hanging on the rear your stilettos all that i stopped noticing and instead started understanding the intangible abstract the hidden side as in when you ask a rich person to contribute a little higher amount of money in some kitty or organisation he or she might call it expensive and politely decline while the mediocrely moneyed would readily pay out of shyness or to amplify their communal image right ethics go a longer way than sly over smartness if you wish to stand up for what you think is right you have to be ready to face the criticism reading in between the lines is more important than brawny words for a meaningful conversation the biggest recognition of your achievements is the admiration or jealousy you see in people s eyes your so called current best friends might not be as happy for your accomplishments but your ex best friends and school friends might still be secretly proud of you there exists this huge clan of indian housewives who look up to working women in admiration irrespective of whether they are actually making money or not humble beginnings always feel like being in the middle of nowhere a lot of middle class women live in extreme cash crunch and deal with immense financial crisis for everyday necessities forget fulfilling little wishes yet they never talk about it always take your own decisions so that your regrets are also your own never ever seek advice from people who are not involved in the same business themselves your best teachers are your wrongly taken decisions trial and error takes time but it s still the oldest working strategy the only challenge here is being observant of the mistakes and working in that specific direction what we see in other people is a reflection of ourselves our discernment has precisely more to do with us and very less to do with anybody else the shallow show off clan pretend the biggest magistrates of the society if you really want the society to better work on yourself as you yourself are the only unit of the society that you can possibly change according to your principle belief i shall share an example here even after hailing from an extremely patriarchal marwari family i am happy with an only daughter i would have been equally happy with an only son the child s gender doesn t matter to me i crossed that social barrier log kya kahenge still matters a lot of middle class graduate housewives who are in requirement of money even till date abstain from working to live up to the societal norms my mother tells me every day that i did it without any financial requirement thanks to her but do we really need a financial requirement for working people who have achieved more than you will never judge you most of the people who looked down upon me in terms of finances because i chose teaching i should not be saying this are seriously honestly poorer than me in terms of financial net worth and i honestly never clarified their doubts because it seemed unimportant at that point of time i really hope that the teaching profession was a little more respected in india though i myself earn a bomb i solemnly wish that other teachers are paid tad better i know many who aren t some of them work tremendously hard learn to use the word no effectively turning down children because of full batches and lack of time was quite disheartening but i learnt to say no not compromising on my personal time and more essentially the quality of my sessions but there are times when we get opportunities that do not make up for the opportunity cost for our time invested but is a roller coaster learning experience if there is a persistent instinct to go for it then go grab it s hidden treasure just excavate till your curiosity is satiated get over he said this and she said that no one said anything getting over the small fights is more important than it appears my focus should be just me self love prioritising myself and delivering qualitative work became indispensable in any classroom the person who learns the most is the teacher this i read somewhere and found it true when we say that someone else s opinion of us does not matter to us we are lying to ourselves it matters we are humans we feel every bit we ignore rude comments but it comes back to us when there is no one around and we least expect it so just write it out okay in the end i got a confession to make all that constant judgment with gluttons gorging on sadistic pleasure which seemingly didn t matter in the beginning started weighing me down during the pandemic when things were silent the mind grew loud so for the first time i showed off on social media something i would have never done today that my unplanned second born the little reading room has many students all over the globe some of them would be authors hopefully and of course a 1000 encouraging likes the bickering astuteness or the assessing reactions of people when they hear of my work hurts a little less love neha jhunjhunwala posted by neha jhunjhunwala september 11 2021 posted in uncategorized tags childpsychology childwelfare communitywellbeing education justwriting letsdoit lifeisshort livelife lovethypeople mylifemychoice onlineeducation onlinemontessori onlinepreschool patriot thoughts leave a comment on rising above log kya kahenge mind your own business the coconut oil froze it is mid january and the temperature is around 20 c at six in the evening i look for warm water in the flask the tap and the pantry find none so i head down to my first floor kitchen take some tap water in a vessel and heat it on the four burner cooking stove my cook yadavji is preparing a south indian platter for dinner the coconut oil froze frozen oil while cooking he generally listens to either old hindi songs or news on his smart phone our choice of music as well as news do not match so i m usually not interested in whatever he is listening to a trip to the first floor kitchen is just a greeting to yadavji perform the required job and return to your floor kind of thing for me today while i placed the vessel on the fire i heard the news anchor shout pakistan and vaccines so i stopped and asked yadavji what do you and your family members discuss at your place he looked confused so i explained in your household when you have normal discussions who are they about your family and your problems or my family and our problems he thought for a minute and answered we talk about ourselves why should we discuss you that s exactly my point each one of us have our own troubles to worry about why are the indian news channels so interested in pakistan oh they are just saying that pakistan still hasn t ordered vaccines no one is ready to sell them any they got the information from pakistan itself how does that matter to us rotten news this is controlled news bigotry states if you can t look good derive sadistic pleasures by making others look worse we ourselves have 1 35 billion to vaccinate inspite of a colossal amount in the pm cares fund all may not get free vaccination the key to success is minding our own business only when we are focussed on ourselves and concerned about our own problems we come up with effective solutions and prosper here we are in 2021 a country with an extremely large skilled and unskilled work force capable enough to make our mark yet failing to make ends meet as we defy the norms of self love copyright neha jhunjhunwala unauthorized use and or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site s author and or owner is strictly prohibited excerpts and links may be used provided that full and clear credit is given to neha jhunjhunwala https thoughtsjustcurious wordpress com with appropriate and specific direction to the original content posted by neha jhunjhunwala january 17 2021 posted in uncategorized tags indiannews news selflove india amwriting thoughts thoughtsjustcurious leave a comment on mind your own business quarantine incognito secret goals achieved i very clearly remember as if it were yesterday hiding behind the pale yellow striped wooden door of my aunt s balcony holding a small silver scissor that is still there at my mum s place trying to snip my own fringes being a hairdresser was a secret childhood obsession i was always caught well mostly seems mum was always on a look out she would forbid me from cutting the doll s hair as it would never grow back never grow back to me they were living also i could hurt myself or someone else the adventurous i would sneak into the loneliest corners of our house and trim anyone s hair i could lay my hands on my doll s baby sister s cousin s anyone just anyone whom i could convince perhaps that marked the beginning of developing the remarkable marketing skills that i now possess that s nina s new hair style my luckiest day was when my little cousin asked me to style and blow dry her hair for a family wedding yes i have witnessed a day like that a flamingo feather in my early teenage cap that day i would have even shared my top secret lock diaries and musical instruments only if she had asked like a perfect vanity princess i was forever ready to advice on hair and skin care to anyone who would want to listen after the haircut while the world craved a son having a daughter appeared a miraculous boon to me secret wishes do come true because santa does exist i ve been rather nice i guess while in quarantine my daughter s doll like hair grew longer and longer she would have happily turned into rapunzel but the bundles of strands curled on the sides that was the exactly the time i clicked a back picture and persuaded my seven year old to get a nice hair cut from mommy the seven year olds now a days are a different breed difficult to deceive and unequivocally outstanding at bargaining she pressed at bartering her hair for mine but there was no way i could have agreed to that so the next method i opted for was instilling fear the fear of split ends and rough edges to a vanity princess is like a tyrannosaurus on a chase for human kid meat the deal was sealed with her oldest barbie doll nina getting a new hair style thus completing the circle of life copyright neha jhunjhunwala unauthorized use and or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site s author and or owner is strictly prohibited excerpts and links may be used provided that full and clear credit is given to neha jhunjhunwala https thoughtsjustcurious wordpress com with appropriate and specific direction to the original content posted by neha jhunjhunwala april 19 2020 april 27 2020 posted in uncategorized tags barbie beforeafter beyou beyourself bondsforlife childpsychology children childwelfare dinolove dolls dreams eatpraylove fairies hairstyling justwriting life lifeisshort littlegirls livelife lockdown love loveforall lovethypeople makeloveyourreligion noconditionsapply nogrudges quarantinefun quarantinegames santalove selflove thoughts thoughtsjustcurious unconditionallove unicorns 6 comments on quarantine incognito secret goals achieved happily quarantined the lockdown the environment the efforts this entire january i had been rigorously reading about covid 19 on facebook twitter and wikipedia at first it seemed like a new epidemic that was identified in wuhan china a far off place that even a travel freak like myself would not ever be interested in visiting a city locked down thousands quarantined a deadly outbreak with no antidote didn t effect my life it was like the news on t v that we listen to every day browsing through the different news channels ponder over on the toilet seat forming an opinion discussing with peers as if it were the most important thing on earth and finally do nothing about it while most of my thoughts were occupied with the anti caa nrc protests revocation of article 370 35 a and the atrocities of fascism a part of me wandered around the vigorously spreading virus the world now being better connected than ever both virtually and conventionally does have exceptional and enormous advantages like the omnipresent cosmic duality of masculine and feminine sweating summers and shivering winters the north facing shade and the south facing brightness even connectivity has a notorious corrupt edge while its digital edge kills with fake news vendetta politics and communal hatred the conventional one has engulfed more than half the planet with panic and fear of the newly discovered highly contagious fatal covid 19 on 22nd march 20 the country observed a self imposed curfew from 7 a m to 9 p m implored by the prime minister of india the purpose being to break the canny chain of transmission of the pale and crafty covid 19 virus with the number of corona infected citizens rapidly increasing to almost 300 and 4 already dead social distancing remained the only weapon we could win back the planet the problem with my countrymen more than poverty illiteracy and population is an acute lack of understanding and self discipline in this complementary interconnected and interdependent community there wasn t a soul that wasn t aware of social distancing especially after the p m spoke about it in his 8 p m announcement yes in india we have these 8 p m announcements by modiji in which he addresses the nation owing to his paramount popularity every indian whether living abroad or in the remotest rural village in india gets glued to the television set that is why i can assure you that every tom dick and harry in the country is aware of the pandemic and it s devastating ways on 24th march 2020 at 8 p m there was another apt much required yet sudden announcement of a nationwide lockdown of 21 days to contain the spread of covid 19 though the move is much appreciated i m fearful achieving the sort of distancing that 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