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pekkhum on tumblr explore communities change palette sign up log in pekkhum pekkhum i have traveled here from october 1985 to ask you to use she her pronouns for me yes i m trans thank you single mom to my 18yo trans daughter plus my system children overseas still trying to figure out how to navigate this myself mom advice available free of charge ask me anything follow posts pekkhum my eldest and i finally played some shadow of the erdtree and well here we made this 1 pekkhum reblogged crazy pages trailertrashgrog follow hey midterms are here and it s time for my usual spiel anti election sentiments don t serve anyone except the people already in power regardless of political party primaries are actually incredibly important in this way trump is literally trying to bribe people to vote republican because they re worried about losing control of the house or senate he s never actually gonna give people 5k but the offer is enough of a sign this election will impact that but more than that as i say every time you need to focus on municipal or local races down the ballot judges sheriffs district attorneys they re all going to be up for election just like senators and representatives research your options vote smart when primary season next rolls around throw your support behind progressive candidates as hard as you can your municipal county and district level elections will decide if flock cameras and data centers flood your neighborhood they ll decide if you end up with a constitutional sheriff or not they ll put judges on the bench that will decide how the law is enforced in your community we had a primary here come down to three votes and it robbed a corrupt political family of the most powerful legislative seat at the state level at the state level and lower every vote literally does count find out when early voting starts get a sample ballot and look at your candidates make a plan do it even if you think it s pointless give people rides to the polls if you can help your neighbors if they need it it s the absolute minimum you can do if you care about even the slightest of shifts in the political landscape we re all trapped in hyphenatedmess about half the states have their secretary of state election this year pay attention to the candidates because secretary of state runs elections and will be your defense against trump trying to take over on a federal level having someone who s in trump s pocket would be extremely dangerous even if you think elections are bullshit i m pretty sure that you can recognize that trump running his own 2028 election would be very bad start working to prevent it now 72 8 300 7 061 pekkhum reblogged crazy pages asynca follow amazon dominates global book sales at the moment 86 of the top 100 books in amazon s romance category are ai generated you know in case you re wondering how human authors are doing atm asynca as a human author busting her guts to sell books including one published in may this year this is soul destroying to read genai is destroying publishing in so many ways including people s trust in books actually written by human authors readers are also more reluctant now to try new authors because of this 3 98 189 pekkhum reblogged owlhousefangirl203 k1ntsug1 r0b0t g1rl follow parents are so fucking entitled k1ntsug1 r0b0t g1rl parents will throw a fucking tantrum about how you have to respect their views while having disrespected you your entire life for no reason other than believing they had the right to control you k1ntsug1 r0b0t g1rl we need youth liberation right fucking now 13 3 069 4 441 pekkhum reblogged owlhousefangirl203 quasi normalcy follow in retrospect the assumption that gen z would be digital natives who just intrinsically understand computers without needing to teach them was absolutely bone dead stupid but i ve got to tell you it really didn t seem like a good idea at the time either 67 3 403 9 555 pekkhum reblogged xenasaur storyweavingspider follow what the fuck do you mean converse did a fucking ad spot of the kkk lynching a black boy tw on reblog implied lynching kkk racial violence storyweavingspider it s like not even subtle it s just sitting there and converse out here apologizing lol the first time i saw this it was full screen and high brightness and i missed it holy shit it really is just right there what the fuck 59 2 222 2 471 pekkhum reblogged crazy pages libraryleopard follow are you ever just constantly struck by how women are not allowed to have body hair in film or tv homoqueerjewhobbit there s another post going around that pointed out that in ads for women s razors the legs they shave are already shaved and it hit me like a ton of bricks 63 11 649 16 040 pekkhum reblogged owlhousefangirl203 tlirsgender follow the way people talk about polyamory with like a million disclaimers about how it s ethical and consensual is so funny monogamy is okay as long as you didn t kidnap them tlirsgender yeah my partner and i have been trying out ethical monogamy where i don t keep them chained to my radiator or anything 4 8 696 14 028 pekkhum reblogged mlembug orangeskiss follow they should invent an online ftm space that doesnt have this weird childish victim complex rivalry with transgender women orangeskiss this post has gotten a lot of attention and unsurprisingly its bringing in guys who are misinterpreting what i ve said i m going to try and explain in a bit more specific detail i m not a political scientist nor am i particularly well spoken so cut me some slack why are you barging into trans men s spaces to bully them i m a trans man i m not anywhere i m not already welcome why are trans women allowed to have their own specific term for their oppression but trans men aren t in greater society men are viewed as the default while women are viewed as the other women are subjugated under a patriarchal society this is the foundational concept of feminism that women deserve equal treatment as men society also views cis as the default and trans as the other trans women s experience differs from trans men in that they experience intersecting oppression both as trans people and as women the term transmisogyny was coined to describe exactly this trans men experience gender based oppression on the basis of being trans the term to describe the oppression of trans men is transphobia transphobia toward trans men if you want to really be specific there is no way to create a word for that without directly implying cis men also face gender based oppression i can t believe you d say trans men aren t oppressed this is not what i said like i said i m a trans man i grew up ostracized as a teenager for expressing gender in a way that wasn t normal i ve had family members tell me to my face that they d be happy if republican politicians stripped away my right to hormones and surgery i ve been denied jobs after telling hiring managers i am trans i understand this intimately i ve dealt with it my entire life this is a semantics issue guys are ascribing trans men s oppression to the term transmisandry and then when people say transmisandry doesn t exist that gets interpreted as trans men do not face oppression rather than the actual intended point of misandry does not exist because men are not oppressed on the basis of being men therefore trans men s oppression is based on being trans not as men trans men experience misogyny since they re afab shouldn t they be allowed to use the term transmisogyny to describe that trans men should be included in things like abortion rights and discussions of menstruation we agree on that i ll try to draw a parallel a common form of gay male homophobia is to say things like anal sex is unnatural men aren t supposed to have sex with each other because they both have penises but some trans women have penises and have anal sex should straight trans women be use the term homophobia to describe disdain towards the type of sex they have the answer to that is sort of misogyny homophobia transphobia intersexism and so on all exist in this big ugly interconnected ball they all stem from the same idea there is an ideal standard that all men and women should adhere to any deviation from this norm should be met with social stigma and violence this is why the mainstream terf movement is closely tied pro lifers and right wing pundits when you define womanhood with a set of strict natal rules you also attract the type of asshole who is against women s liberation against queer liberation against intersex visibility anyways another semantics issue transmisogyny does not just means transphobia misogyny it is specific to trans womanhood which is why trans men should avoid using the term to describe their experiences but cis men do experience gender based oppression what about gender non conforming men see my above point regarding misogyny homophobia transphobia and intersexism all being connected if a man is experiencing oppression its likely tied to one of these you sound like a terf op i am saying trans women experience misogyny because they are in the social class of women this is the opposite of what terfs believe we should kill op with hammers because he uses reddit yeah this ones fair actually storyweavingspider peer review 526 6 175 8 585 pekkhum reblogged kalamity jayne soup mother follow you do not have a sex to change you don t need to defend the sort everyone into labour categories based on their junk as babies and mutilate them if you find exceptions to your supposedly immutable biological rule system soup mother or to put it a bit more clearly sex is a legal category not a biological one you don t have a sex you re assigned one it s arbitrary and will be defined in whatever way any given person wants for their own political ends i think some people get so used to fighting for scraps in a legal system that they forget it s a term being imposed upon us not something that will set us free if we embrace it with the right rhetoric 34 1 642 2 829 pekkhum reblogged toc the elder follow okay well i can t afford to eat for a few days i could really do with some help please pay rachel jones using paypal me go to paypal me rachelj1994 and type in the amount since it s paypal it s easy and secure don t have a paypal account no worries paypal me i m pretty desperate here haven t been able to afford my meds and really need some food in me as soon as possible any donations are appreciated but please please please share i really need help thank you 226 47 pekkhum reblogged toc the elder follow so the police violently assaulted me while i was suicidal kidnapped me restrained me insisted they had to make sure i wasn t hiding anything so made me undress in front of several male officers made me remove my underwear so they could see if i was stuffing my bra forced me to give them my deadname forced me to take off my make up with soap before my mugshot and then one came in and sat down and watched me urinate while i cried and begged him to leave and tried to cover myself with a blanket he then let me leave i don t know if this counts as v coding but what the fuck 3 1 pekkhum reblogged traaansfem yandere angela follow holdtohealyourpartner tumblr name a woman challenge impossible monstrousgourmandizingcats why is the last one talking like women aren t real and woman a euphemism for gay man from murderballadeer 5 46 768 56 422 pekkhum reblogged crazy pages padawan historian follow no caption needed my neuroglia this is overwhelmingly my feeling about every single 9 11 news article i ve seen this week it s like people dying at work killed by terrorism is something we should never forget but people dying at work killed by covid because the people were nurses or short order cooks or retail workers is something we should get over already we got a whole new federal agency and the patriot act after 9 11 but we can t even get guaranteed free shots or free tests after covid because it s no longer an emergency sonofdysonsphere the us intelligence agencies knew there would be an attack they knew it involved airplanes they knew the threat was credible and heightened security at airports would intercept the threat the powers that be did not want to disrupt the efficiency of capital those people died for the same reason people died during covid rostekhorn don t forget that pilots unions had been asking for years for new cockpit doors with heavy locks that could reliably cut the cockpit off from the rest of the plane terrorist airplane hijacking was already a thirty year old industry by the time of 9 11 but the airline companies repeatedly refused to install them because it would cost money then after 9 11 they suddenly found the money somehow 274 44 395 62 483 pekkhum reblogged traaansfem ace disgrace on the case follow it s kinda scary seeing a year old post about trans women and seeing all of the blogs that have been deleted ace disgrace on the case like an entire post with like 6 girls and only one of them still has a blog a year later 317 515 pekkhum reblogged auxryn secondquarrel follow so venezuela has become a usamerican colony like that happened and everything carried on like normal secondquarrel like i know venezuela is going through a huge humanitarian crisis right now and their political regime is low in the list of priorities when tallinmg about it obviously it s just it shocked me to read trump congratulating his secretary of energy on how well he s running what used to be a sovereign country until a few months back you know ralfmaximus he wants to do that to canada cuba and greenland too and is simply shocked that it hasn t happened yet dandeliont3aandsageleaves hey so it s worse then that does anybody remember when back in january trump kidnapped the venezuelan president well the american government proceeded to place someone else in charge and is directing them via text message they are telling him who to appoint into office and allowing us businesses into the country they are not looking to instate democratic elections at this time is venezuela a colony now a sovereign state modern empires rule in ambiguity occupation is a hassle large countries have many new ways to control small ones nytimes com isuggestrevolution i have a suggestion isuggesteatingtherich me too hittingpeoplewithmycar official me three 9 644 9 907 pekkhum reblogged auxryn insomniac arrest follow free the nipple but what if someone gets turned on people get turned on over like feet and beautiful summer days we cannot live defensively 496 46 357 94 567 you are using an unsupported browser and things might not work as intended please make sure you re using the latest version of chrome firefox safari or edge