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r understand everything the moment it happens and it may be tough but reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past you ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place person state of mind or situation so smile let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday and you will be 18 stop holding grudges don t live your life with hate in your heart you will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate forgiveness is not saying what you did to me is okay it is saying i m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever forgiveness is the answer let go find peace liberate yourself and remember forgiveness is not just for other people it s for you too if you must forgive yourself move on and try to do better next time 19 stop letting others bring you down to their level refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs 20 stop wasting time explaining yourself to others your friends don t need it and your enemies won t believe it anyway just do what you know in your heart is right 21 stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break the time to take a deep breath is when you don t have time for it if you keep doing what you re doing you ll keep getting what you re getting sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly 22 stop overlooking the beauty of small moments enjoy the little things because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things the best portion of your life will be the small nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you 23 stop trying to make things perfect the real world doesn t reward perfectionists it rewards people who get things done read getting things done 24 stop following the path of least resistance life is not easy especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile don t take the easy way out do something extraordinary 25 stop acting like everything is fine if it isn t it s okay to fall apart for a little while you don t always have to pretend to be strong and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well you shouldn t be concerned with what other people are thinking either cry if you need to it s healthy to shed your tears the sooner you do the sooner you will be able to smile again 26 stop blaming others for your troubles the extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life when you blame others for what you re going through you deny responsibility you give others power over that part of your life 27 stop trying to be everything to everyone doing so is impossible and trying will only burn you out but making one person smile can change the world maybe not the whole world but their world so narrow your focus 28 stop worrying so much worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens it will strip today of its joy one way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question will this matter in one year s time three years five years if not then it s not worth worrying about 29 stop focusing on what you don t want to happen focus on what you do want to happen positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story if you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today and you pay close attention you ll often find that you re right 30 stop being ungrateful no matter how good or bad you have it wake up each day thankful for your life someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs instead of thinking about what you re missing try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing so which ones are your fav mine are no 12 and 29 hit me right on my nose much love edi thoughts by edi at 4 19 pm 4 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels notes friday april 13 2012 understand and managing behavior i owe my friends the update of this talk i went some of us couldn t make it but dont worry and dont feel so bad there will be other sessions next time so let s hope we can meet up during next sessions ok that s puan intan red blouse and dr hasnah the talk is a monthly event organized by makmal autisme ukm and this month on saturday 7th april they invited puan intan miranti from andi initiative to give a talk on behavior management we my husband and i and the kids had planned to head back to rembau on that very day to visit my parents in law since they provide child care for parents attending this talk what a convienience me and my husband grabbed the chance to attend it we had and have been attending various training and theraphy sessions by hospitals and government bodies but never this kind of seminars where parents are also involved and it was such an eye opener to us i enjoyed every second of it even rasa sayang nak gi toilet nasib baik intan asked whether we need a break or not haha she said she can go straight till 12 30 i believed her she has such energy but luckily i got my much needed break to the loo without missing anything p first thing she mentioned she is very attached to what she s doing coz there is an emotional component to it that makes sense so much i straight away relates it to my cupcakes business how i always have hard times rejecting orders how people who ordered from me have developed some kind of relationships to me because i so love what i m doing i tak boleh buat sambil lewa mmg rasa tak puas hati sampailah customer puas hati i still remember ade sorang tu yg tarik muka masam sebab i lupe dia nak pick up cpcks dia ptg and i went somewhere else masa tu she called and terusla i rushing balik sedih teringat sampai sekarang sbb dia dtg ambik dgn muka masam i dok apologize dia pun buat dunno jek well we can t please everyone well here are some points i noted down from the talk i ll share these with u 1 we are surrounded by supportive people most of us do our husband parents friends and even strangers who share the same situation eg fb group autisme malaysia pls join the group if u havent there are so many things u can learn from others 2 please remember that most of the times our kids are well behaved 3 behavior is voluntary 4 too often behaviors are attributed to autism up to a point we always blame autism for everything remember normal kids have tantrums too normal kids are hyper too 5 pay attention to what our kids are trying to say by engaging in this behavior my problem is faaeq hits me when i raise my voice or when other kids try to play with him he ll push the kid we re still trying to handle this not successful yet 6 kids are so smart they use escape behavior to get away with what they dont like dont want to do the escape behavior can be very tricky e g hugging kissing you showing affection then kita cair and gave in haha i think this is cute faaeq will kiss us if he wants anything then we ll give in and didnt prompt him to say what he wants hmmmm 7 for handling tantrums there are 2 stategies no 1 reactive strategies what u do immediately when your child is having a tantrum eg mengamuk time out no 2 preventive strategies what u do before the situation to prevent tantrum or meltdown eg promise him if he behaves at the bank he ll get to go to his fav toys shop this might work for older kids eg bring his fav toy activity book papers if he likes to color when in shoppping mall take out one by one to make him busy with faaeq we train him to understand ok finish so he knows it s time to go home or quit what he s doing he will get upset la kadang2 tp x teruk sgt dah sampai guling2 atas lantai dia akan start pukul2 kita sikit2 la konon marah his teacher at nasom says the hitting might be because of his sensory issues he does not intentionally do it to hit tapi x tau lah lagi masih lagi try nak buang habit x elok dia nie 8 give them enough physical activies so they can channel out their energy there are many kinds of methods and approach eg higashi method ni kat autism classroom ukm other kids are busy playing legos and puzzles faaeq sibuk main kat luar thank you cikgu yg jaga faaeq x sempat ty nama really apprecite it i might miss out some points but hopefully one or two will at least give u some ideas of what to google for your further read there are so much information on the net we ll have to know what to read to save us time coz we really dont have all the time in the world as we wish here s some ideas my mom shared on my fb wall i think it s great more things to do instead of turning on the tv source take care ya and have a great weekend edi thoughts by edi at 9 51 am 5 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels autism friday april 6 2012 a good week i can see my feet hello how are ya all doing it s been pretty hectic for me this week coz faaeq starts his school days at nasom national autistic society of malaysia and we have to adjust our schedule and get used to our new routine have to start our days as early as 6am this is not so early for some pople i know but we usually wake up much later hehe for me i have to prepare food for faaeq to bring they dont provide food there wake him up bathe him etc etc with my husband s help it s managable so far so good the biggest challenge i think is to get imran on time coz the centre opens sharp at 7 30am i usually reach there at 7 15 but hv to wait for a while then rush to send imran to his school pulak his school starts at 8am and for this week we usually will arrive 3 5 mins late hmmm the tarffic is quite heavy along the way it s not that far setia alam seksyen 7 shah alam but i hate the trafffic i wish my car comes with a kepak button so this is how the place looks like many office lots are still empty coz the place is new i think it s easy parking and clean environment the classroom is an open space where one teacher will attend to only 3 students it is more like individual attention and the teacher will do activities in accordance to what the child is capabale of doing for this week i think they are still asssessing faaeq to what extend he can do and what things they want to teach him first from what his teacher told me he can understand and follow simple intructions and what he doesnt know he ll learn after 2 3 attempts guided by the teacher that s great he is a bright child i can see that he understands quite easily when i teach him but he lost focus too soon so hopefully his focus will improve over time by training and proper guides by his teachers here and he needs to be toilet trained they will start doing that there i have tried to toilet train him and fail everytime so it s really good if they start him at school and i follow the same method at home yesterday his teacher asked me to get him a set of color pencils and bind plain a4 papers for him to use just for conteng2 and coloring i think i got excited and even made a front cover for his papers hahaha i hope the teachers wont laugh maknyer pulak yg excited i want him to recognize his book so i printed his photos on a paper i bought a looooongggg time ago i have to many colored papers and kertas yg comel2 mcm budak sekolah cant resist buying them at bookstores lepas tu simpan je x tau nak buat ape haha and look at this sleepyhead abang imran has been really great cooperating with our new routine all in all it s really a great week for our family today the 5th day at school i send off faaeq after he gave me kisses on my cheeks and nose he was smiling and walked straight into the class alhamdulillah edi note tomorrow i ll be attending a talk by puan intan miranti andi institute at ukm bangi i ll just paste dr hasnah toran s info from fb if you want to know more it s walk in and pay at the entrace talk and the topic is not actually for parents with autistic kids je any parents struggling to understand and handle their kid s behavior will surely learn a thing or two thoughts by edi at 10 28 am 1 comment email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels autism wednesday april 4 2012 rice milk this is going to be a quick note on rice milk for friends who emailed and texted me asking about rice milk i m giving faaeq here are the photos of how the product looks like so far i ve seen 2 types i bought the one on the left so natural at cold storage and the other one aussie dream is from jusco organic session both cost about rm14 cant remember which is which but one is rm13 90 and the other is rm12 90 kalau x silap since faaeq seems to like the taste it actually tastes a bit like soya drink but very less sweet and plain so we decided to buy in bulk after all one box just lasts about 2 3 days je habis jusco only stocks 2 3 packs on their shelf i cant be going to jusco every week just to get these if you buy in bulk the price for each 1 liter pack is about rm11 i bought mine with radiant code sdn bhd a wholeseller of organic food in subang jaya tq kak cuya u can go to their website and call their number specify u want to buy rice milk and ask them what is the minimum purchase at first when i called they told me they dont sell to individuals they only sell to companies and ask me to buy from jusco i said kawan saya ada beli dgn u hari tu bla bla bla and last2 dia jual je i bought november last year and the minimum box i have to buy were 4 boxes each box contains 12 1 litre packs so total rm500 cant remember the exact price but they carry only aussie dream pure harvest brand the so natural contains more calcium and other nutrinets so if u can i think so natural is a better option if your kid is a picky eater faaeq eats almost everything so i m not so worried about him nutrient wise just saying hope this helps thoughts by edi at 11 13 am 4 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels autism notes older posts home subscribe to posts atom not taking orders for the meantime sorry contact me edina2404 gmail 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