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you are invited you are invited to come in and have a peep to my experiences my thoughts my world wednesday march 10 2010 back with a bang yeah you are right am back to blogging well i plan to keep my blog updated from now on and i hope i do obviously i am blogging because years down the lane i wanna know what i was doing back then its one kind of a diary for me a diary which i don t mind sharing with anyone i was driving back home when i was thinking about what to write in my blog everyday and i think my observation capacity is the highest when i drive the next incident i am going to state may contradict this line well i was in my dream world as i was driving and a kid just came in between i struck the break cord and with all my might caught up my heavy honda activa and made sure i didn t fall down there came a screeching sound which caught the attention of almost every person on the road it was embarrassing but then such incidents do happen in life to give you a wake up call at times thank god my reflex action was good enough and good heavens nothing happened to the child you can t beat my observation capacity on the road can you anyways the reason i narrated this incident here was to show that i learnt something from this i have learnt the importance of driving safely and driving well though this is something i would want to forget i ought to remember the lessons learnt from such things i am sure that many such incidents happen in our daily life and we need to pay heed to such things so that they don t happen in the future so it is all about observing things that happen in your life and learning from them eureka now i think i found an answer to my ever persisting question what do i blog everyday if i cant find a nice topic to write about i am gonna write about what i learn or observe everyday i will try and pursue my blogging everyday or at least every other day i think this is gonna motivate me to learn from incidents that happen in my life moreover it will motivate me to keep my blog updated on that so that years down the lane i will know what i did and what i learnt i believe life is all about learning every day every second every moment so learn to learn happy learning posted by jalaja bhat at 2 45 am no comments saturday january 16 2010 winning and losing why does everyone like to win and hate to lose is it because it bolsters one s ego may be why does everyone keep running behind success is it because they want to prove something to the world may be winning does give people a sense of satisfaction but if you analyse closely the sense of satisfaction is probably because they compare themselves with others success in this material world is very relative people do not consider it as absolute may be that s why most people who are successful find it difficult to retain their success we all need to view success as absolute and not relative and more importantly we should learn to accept failures as gracefully as we accept success that is true character we have to enjoy the journey of life and not pay heed to success and failure in this world which is getting more and more competitive by the day we can be happy only if we learn to see success and failure as two sides of the same coin so what matters the most is the journey not the result the experience not the outcome then there would be many reasons to smile in life does success always do good for you i have pondered about this many times and i don t think it does not always it takes a lot of effort to handle success i have known people who have lost a lot because of their inability to handle success some have lost their family some their respect in the society and some their character most of the time failure teaches you more than success someone once said any man and sail through turbulence but if you want to judge a man s character give him power and see how he handles it i would like to substitute power with success and i still believe it makes sense sometimes you win by losing something and sometimes you lose by winning something so have the right spirit and balance your victories and failures gracefully hope you enjoyed this article and forgive me if i was too preachy d ciao posted by jalaja bhat at 7 19 am no comments sunday december 27 2009 describing myself well i wonder why it is so easy to describe others than one s own self i ve been staring at this post aimlessly wondering where to start before i describe myself let me understand why it is so easy to describe others than describing myself is it only for me i don t know i am thinking as and when i am typing this post so bear with me if it gets a little too boring d yet to complete posted by jalaja bhat at 10 27 pm no comments things that matter and things that don t posted by jalaja bhat at 9 51 pm no comments thursday december 24 2009 the so what syndrome mohan kuruvilla posted by jalaja bhat at 6 27 am no comments what keeps us going in life uncertainty of life posted by jalaja bhat at 6 27 am 1 comment impermanence of life posted by jalaja bhat at 6 26 am no comments wednesday may 27 2009 nostalgia what travels faster than the fastest moving object the answer is your mind just hold on for a second and observe how fast your mind travels trust me you will surely be amazed i really admire those people who have control over their thoughts now leaving that apart what made me speak about the swiftness of mind i was just lying down lazily on my bed one evening think about how to kill time i didn t feel like spending time with my friends too strangely going out for eating shopping didn t amuse me either what did i decide to do i decided to just spend time with myself and think about my past you know what you sometimes need this kind of introspection the more you spend this kind of time the more refreshed you will feel what flashed my mind was not the small achievements of my life or the acquaintances i have had it was not my family or friends unexpectedly what occupied my empty mind was my life at rosary matric my very own school the thoughts the place the ground the assembly the teachers sister leena d souza my principal they all bring nothing but joy to me the best part of my schooling from l k g to class ix was in rosary i was such a tom boy back then in this all girls school those were truly the best days of my life i remembered about those small awards that were given to us and they way we all competed to get them awards like best behavior best dressed etc meant so much to each one of us being a house captain or leader was something to boast off i remembered how we used to fight for our marks and await the rankholders ceremony all of those things seem so trivial now and so meaningless what brings meaning to my life are these memories and not the awards the people and not situations these memories are worth everything in this world i really didn t know that life at rosary matric would bring a smile and few drops of tears of joy of course almost a decade later it just gave me a pleasant surprise enjoy every moment of your life and try to remember small things that happened in the past you never know what small things will bring you a smile decades later posted by jalaja bhat at 8 56 pm no comments saturday january 24 2009 mind as napoleon hill states what the human mind can conceive and believe the mind of a man can achieve this quote clearly states what the human mind is capable of as we all know the human mind has the capacity to learn to remember to like dislike perceive believe and above all think the human mind is so powerful that it stores anything that comes in its way be it an event lesson idea or even people for that matter humans mostly tend to get engrossed in the negative aspects that happen to them in their lives we tend to remember insults and not appreciation loss and not gain in general the bad and not the good after a period of time things that are insignificant or trivial become the major part of our memory thus replacing good and true thoughts and wishes we are all aware that it requires great effort to remember things but the fact is that it requires a lot of effort to forget as well we have to focus on positive thoughts and neglect the thoughts that lower our spirits most of the common questions that haunt people are why me why does this happen to me etc but we cannot grow if we allow our mind to be occupied with such petty issues we should fill our minds with constructive thoughts and the opinions and suggestions of people who wish for our welfare great minds discuss ideas mediocre minds discuss events small minds discuss people the best way to progress is to nurture our mind with optimism and care for people who love you people who wish for you to grow and not the opposite sometimes in life there are many unexpected incidents that we wish had not happened we only have to learn lessons from such incidents and get going rather than worrying about it such incidents are over and constant recall of such incidents makes the mind lose its eagerness to grow to learn to think and hence becomes rusted and weak your thoughts determine your actions and your actions determine your happiness so the key to success is to be positive i would like to end this article with a small poem if you think you are beaten you are if you think you dare not you don t if you want to win but if you think you cant it is almost certain you wont life s battles don t always go to the strongest or hardest man sooner or later the man who wins is the man who thinks he can be positive be happy j j posted by jalaja bhat at 10 39 pm 2 comments saturday may 10 2008 school life o k here s my blog about my school life i ve studied in two schools one is rosary matriculation n the other is in adarsh vidyalaya i ve been two totally different persons in both these schools if you ask me which school i like the most i sure wouldn t have de answer i ve liked both the schools n different ways n hated them in different ways too first about rosary matric this is the school that made me what i am today really partly yo m confusing basically i mean all de discipline n so called manners were taught to me in this school the convent education has its own s n s but all that apart i hav enjoyed my school life only in this school i was this total tom boy of my class i was a very short gal with boy cut 2 nd shortest can t beat my dear friend vaishu for being de shortest sitting in the first row n walking out of the class whenever i get the slightest chance and v used to hav few teachers who were very young they had just finished college n joined de school for teaching math vaishu n me were their pets they used to call both of us to de staff room and simply talk to us give us chocolates what not and yeah being the fatima house captain was something very very special for me i was the princi s pet seriously she used to like me so much coz i used to play tt n win prizes for rosary matriculation p but you know wat sister leena dsouza my princi is a woman whom i respect adore wat do i say she is the most respectable woman i ve ever known when a person looks at her he she automatically respects her she is a wonderful woman she is the woman who really encouraged me to play tt in spite of my exams and all once i remember i wrote my half yearly exam not sure which subject at 6 a m in the morning she had arranged a special invigilator for me to write the exam i finished my exam at 8 30 and rushed to nehru stadium for my sub junior nationals i am very grateful to her i was in rosary matriculation till my 9 th standard i had to leave de school after that for 10 th 11 th n 12 th coz they said playing tt in these crucial years of school was risky and sister leena was leaving that year so i decided its no more my place to study and went to adarsh vidyalaya for my 10 th 11 th n 12 th std now to life in adarsh life in adarsh is very special to me firstly coz i met my best buddies in life over here and secondly coz this is the school which transformed me to a responsible and a matured gal i became a very very quiet gal here had to keep up my mom s name man btw she was a teacher in adarsh i kept wondering where that tom boy jalaja disappeared i dint pretend to be quiet i really started talking less it was the talk less and think more period for me may b just like evry1 of this age i never used to attend classes here too firstly i used to miss classes coz of tt and secondly coz i was the sports secretary in 11 th and 12 th it was a great feeling to be a leader we learn a lot i started liking taking up responsibility as i said earlier this is the school which gave me my best buddies in life i knew sweta already coz she was from rosary i met poorna and divya here we four got along really well and m so glad i met them in my life the best part is that we also live in the same locality so v could hang out together more often m sure our friendship will stand the test of time ll write a separate blog about our friendship later so long posted by jalaja bhat at 2 37 am no comments older posts home subscribe to posts atom about me jalaja bhat nottingham united kingdom view my complete profile blog archive 2010 2 march 1 back with a bang january 1 2009 7 december 5 may 1 january 1 2008 16 may 1 february 3 january 12 2007 9 december 3 october 2 september 1 august 1 january 2 2006 2 april 1 march 1 picture window theme powered by blogger