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asks but actively encouraged to submit there is no dni or dnf for this blog white people are allowed to follow and interact but keep in mind that whenever i post i will not be centering you rules for submitting keep posts focused on both black and aro experiences no one or the other no exclusively asexual asks this an aro focused blog black aroace asks though is accepted mentions of sex is allowed just nothin too detailed but you know that alr no hateful asks or asks that try to ragebait no discourse can be serious or unserious can have more specific asks like black demiro culture is black aroallo culture is blasé blasé blasé what s with the rabbit usagi my pookie the goat my favorite chiikawa character 3333 aromantic aroace aroallo black culture black community black aromantic aave typer aro week arospec intro post 2 21 99 blkaroculture reblogged rusababy may 10 debthedemi may 9 follow a review of pink stripe from a black aroace lesbian s perspective an indirect celebration that i survived my ap macroeconomics exam today open substack com mx rusababy everyone s just complaining about the pink stripe someone finally offered a solution and of course it s us blkaroculture may 10 i made this cause the crit on the pink stripe is needed just without the vitriol toward black people that white people can t seem to live without ig context new ace flag just dropped and people are freakin the fuck out lo and behold people are also bein microaggressive and weaponizin actual good critique to make her seem aggressive and rude aro related loveless related asexual aroace loveless aro 11 37 blkaroculture reblogged black fandom culture is apr 28 nostalgicmermaaiid apr 23 follow black indie animated projects that you should check out i thought i d share the ones i ve seen and link the channels in light of recent events beating myself up for not having done this sooner tbh wheels and roses roller derby magical girls the three tomes a vampire love story dizzycat slice of life adventures of 2 cat siblings crocodile dance a thriller combining myth and afrofuturism furious and fat cat comedy about 2 childhood friends who reunite as roommates the ebony witch disney don bluth inspired fantasy series i don t want to be a magical girl yall probably know this one but i m putting it here anyway please reblog with any that i missed 21 4 815 6 155 blkaroculture reblogged aroace people are lgtbq apr 23 mossy aro mar 30 follow also and this might be a controversial take but if you are someone who actively avoids engaging with the aro ace community refuses identification with aro ace labels and insists that aro ace frameworks of understanding are something that does not apply to your life in a useful way it is maybe not your place to come online and insist that actually your opinion on aro ace community issues should be heard with just as much validity as everyone else s and this isn t identity policing but at a certain point you have to acknowledge and accept that perhaps qualifying yourself on the grounds of being technically asexual isn t actually enough to give you a deep understanding of community issues or experiences that do not pertain to your own anecdotal ones and its incredibly arrogant 67 209 blkaroculture apr 21 i have good news and i have bad news contrary to what ppl usually do i ll start with the bad news first the bad news is that black aro culture will no longer be accepting tumblr submissions i use tumblr on the website through my phone and it d waaaay too easy to forget abt it s existence i also feel like as a black socialist i feel like despite the beautiful black community that s here i can t stand white aro tumblr at times and with it being so white it s hard to feel like i actually have a culture i can really interact with the good news is that this is not the end of black aro culture because join the black aros group discord server check out the black aros group community on discord hang out with 5 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat discord black aro culture is moving to discord yep that s right our little community will be here and much closer together you can still post tumblr like anon submissions through the confessions bot in the black aro culture is channel the only requirements is that you are 16 years old or older black or mixed with black and aromantic arospec i intend the server also to be aroallo friendly the best i can i will probably still interact with other posts and post the last remaining submissions in my inbox but after that that s it i hope y all understand and are excited for this change as i am let s build more community together 3 black aromantic aro aromantic black community black is beautiful not black aro culture aroallo aroace 4 9 43 blkaroculture reblogged apr 4 arospec acespec apr 4 follow hey you yeah you there is about a billion ways to love or not love you can do that you can do that and still be a person you dont have to love the way your parents friends teachers classmates coworkers bosses peers do you dont have to love at all you re still you and that s beautiful aromantic aro loveless black aro not black aro culture 1 84 184 blkaroculture reblogged apr 3 rusababy apr 3 follow queerplatonic or alterous a black aroace lesbian s pov i actually am quite fond of talking about unpopular shit open substack com two essays in one week holy shit my fingers is wore out i m not entirely sure if this is an actual issue idgaf if it isn t but i think this really put a lot of my personal thoughts into idk hope you like it aro aromantic aroace lesbian aroace lesbian qpr alterous queerplatonicism queerplatonic 4 20 blkaroculture reblogged repulsed confessions apr 2 objectophiliac feb 20 follow romance isn t as well defined or even consensual as people make it out to be you can very much be coerced or forced into a romantic relationship or even be in a romantic relationship without your knowledge unconsensual romance is also used as a tool of correction by many aromantics are often forced into romantic relationships in an attempt to fix them lesbians are often forced into romantic relationships with men in an attempt to fix them trans people are often forced into romantic relationships in an attempt to fix them usually by trying to make them return to cisheterosexuality not to mention how men will force women especially trans women into romantic relationships simply because they feel entitled to them and white people will do the exact same thing with racialised people i have met so many people who were coerced manipulated forced or threatened into a romantic relationship yet nobody batted an eye because if you re in a romantic relationship it must be mutual and consensual romance is uniquely good and beneficial to everyone right how can good thing ️ be bad i don t even think those can be called romantic relationships due to them being unconsensual akin to how unconsensual sex is an oxymoron that s called rape but there s no word to describe that yet and they re unfortunately considered genuine romantic relationships nonetheless we need to start making room for discussions about romantic violence is that a term well it is now although most people recognize that violence can occur within romantic relationships many fail to recognize that romance can be the violence itself 644 1 469 blkaroculture reblogged apr 2 sternenschaukler jun 28 2025 follow why is it that every time the repulsed aspecs are having a conversation there is always someone who feels the need to cut in and helpfully point out that there is a spectrum i mean yeah obviously we re all aspecs here we already know so why do you feel the need to mention actually not all of us are like that some of us can still conform to society s expectations in that way not everything is about you you don t need to butt in to point out hey this conversation isn t about me but i exist so stop erasing me our community members already know you exist so you re really only mentioning that to some allo s benefit and it always sounds annoying and invalidating with a hint of don t worry dear allo aphobes in case you ve stumbled into our safe space and are reading this some of us are still normal ish in that way 6 80 305 blkaroculture reblogged apr 2 tinstol mar 31 follow asexuals and aromantic should be allowed to discuss how society is hyper focused on sex and romance to people s detriment without being accused of being homophobic tinstol apr 1 please read the damn room rusababy apr 2 the need to constantly tone police and course correct aspec people when we literally just speaking is a form of aphobia no one can convince me otherwise aspec people do it to they own too you can t even say attribute not liking nor wanting sex and or romance without someone mentioning the spectrum to explain your own damn sexuality nigga this my side of the spectrum gtfo aromantic aroallo aroace aro rb 43 1 344 3 768 blkaroculture mar 31 anonymous asked black aro culture is deadass wanting to talk to allos like they talk to us are you sure you want a partner and kids how will you have peace and quiet don t you want peace and quiet everyone wants peace and quiet then it s offensive when we do it towards them black aro culture is aro aromantic black aromantic black culture black community 2 25 blkaroculture reblogged mar 31 arowitharrows mar 12 follow coming out as aromantic and or asexual to people is so exhausting because 10 years later they ll be like oh yeah i never actually understood what that really means and it ll either be a situation where a you ve had multiple conversations about it over the years but your explanations didn t align with their pre existing belief about asexuality and aromanticism so they just flat out didn t take in a word you said or b they never mentioned it again after you told them never asked a single question and never did any research on their own about the topic i don t even know which one i find worse probably the silence they always forget and it s so hurtful very few people genuinely remember aromantic asexual not black aro culture rb 3 239 695 blkaroculture reblogged mar 31 rusababy jul 14 2025 follow qprs are absolutely not accepted and very rarely understood nor are they taken seriously both on and offline whenever i ve mentioned the term i ve always had to brace for impact because i ve had literally debates over whether or not they even existed most people can t even believe you can have intimacy outside of romantic interactions i ve felt consistently inadequate because of internalized amatonormativity and overall lack of representation for qp love and intimacy and only had romance and sex to base my feelings off which made me deeply uncomfortable it s been deeply difficult to try and relate to other lesbians as an aroace lesbian because i feel like sometimes i m in a completely different world really it should be easier for me to know my boundaries but i don t live in a vacuum i m still affected by all sorts of discrimination and oppression and have still a lot of ideas internalized about how i as a human being should behave intimately i sometimes feel like i m intruding on aro conversations especially romance repulsed conversations because so many folks just treat it as romance lite and i never feel like i m seen as truly aromantic asexual and also lesbian i hate that people see my love as romantic it really really fucking hurts and it hurts even more to feel like a fake or an intruder in the aro community for doing it this may be the ocd talking but i feel like i have to hide a lot of myself because it either makes no sense to alloroses or it s too intimate for aros and please don t tell me i m valid treat me like i am instead rusababy jul 14 2025 i really hate when people try to frame their repulsion for qprs as romance repulsion like really it s possible to be repulsed by qprs please just say you re repulsed by qprs acknowledge it s different it feels so bad seeing others paint it as just a romance cause it s not what it is nor does it reflect accurately of who i am like i m literally romance repulsed and love and want qprs that s not an oxymoron if you dislike something please be specific in what you dislike makes it easier for all of us blkaroculture mar 31 this goes for sensual attraction physical touch too though people are a bit better with not equating it to sex immediately people still use it as the definer for romance like a qpr is not just relationship without the kissing my nigga kissing is alllll i think about not a huge fan of liberal aspec activism i think it s time we deconstruct amatonormativity now thangya aro aromantic romance repulsed qpr queerplatonic love of the senses tertiary sense tertiary attraction not black aro culture black aro 4 91 234 blkaroculture reblogged mar 31 dopeladystranger mar 4 follow genuine question this is not meant to be offensive but i have been wondering something what does it mean to be aroace and gay or aroace and lesbian or aroace and straight from how i understand it the latter words suggest romantic or s3xual attraction which contradicts being aroace am i misunderstanding this can someone please explain aroaceenjolras mar 4 it means they have a gendered orientation that is not romantic or sexual that is significant enough to the way they form relationships that they want to label it when i m feeling fem i describe myself as a sapphic aroace which means that i am interested in forming close relationships with women and those close relationships are intimately tied to the way i express and experience womanhood as a multigender aroace person when i m feeling more masc i have similar feelings about men i ve described it as you don t understand i don t think insert gender are hot i think they re interesting to understand orientation outside of hegemonic sexromance you need to understand gender outside of hegemonic sexromance what does it mean to be a woman if you re not trying to attract a sexualromantic partner what does it mean to be a man under those same circumstances what is gender presentation when it s not a courtship ritual what does it mean to crave the company of people who are embodying self contained gender in ways that are compatible with yours friendship and hegemonic sexromance are not an on off switch there are many more shades of care to explore rusababy mar 31 yes yes im a nonbinary aroace lesbian and i feel queerplatonic and sensual attraction aesthetic too just not exclusive exclusively towards women and nb people i m very connected to my sensuality in terms of the philosophy and working to deepen that connection and so i d describe both my attraction love as well as gender as being soft and gentle all around my idea of neutrality androgyny is someone who s vaguely elegant deliberate in their beauty and when wanting to attract i want to come off that way in efforts to comfort and fulfill them intimately 2 22 48 blkaroculture mar 28 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