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r so i guess the difference is not quite as jarring when you don t know what you miss to such a degree as someone who s now living far away from all of their family and friends save for like 2 friends my partner included and with my experience with my queerplatonic partner before that i can offer the following technology is your friend keep in contact don t worry too much about bothering other people do not disturb can be activated for a reason but also don t worry if you don t get answers right away you will eventually keep in contact whenever you feel like it make up rituals plan calls on a regular basis at least that is what we did with my partner and i we called once a week for hours on end on sundays sometimes we couldn t and skipping once in a while is fine as long as the overall habit is there it can help a lot visit each other from time to time if you can or at least plan things to look forward to which can be either a visit or synchronized plans remotely what s important is that you have something you ll do together that you re looking forward to for instance whenever one of my visits to my partner or vice versa ended we immediately were planning the next one even if it would be like a year later it helped a lot personally trust that they love you even if you don t hear from them for a long time from time to time i know it s not fool proof and really you don t have any proof that a person that s far away cares about you but if you don t offer trust on your own end you can t hope for trust back either so i guess that starts there i can t say for sure if these will help you all i can say is they ve helped me so yeah i hope i wish you guys the best and hope you ll be ok regardless long distance long distance relationship ldr anon akhts answers asks 37 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink haemey asked i feel like we need to bring back once more the definitions of the different bits about sex romance for some people sexual romantic orientation who you are aren t attracted to in general usually based on gender sexual romantic attraction who you are aren t attracted to whether you are attracted to someone or not individually not experiencing this or only a little is what makes you ace aro aroace sex drive how much you want need sex physically simplified definition libido how much you want need sex psychologically simplified definition either of these sex drive libido can be high or low regardless of orientation or individual attraction they re also often used interchangeably sex positivity moral ideological stance on sex sex positive sex is a good thing do what you want sex neutral no stance sex negative sex is a bad thing and to be avoided closely associated with purity culture note that this has nothing to do with one s own personal relationship to sex i assume romance positivity negativity exists too but i ve never seen anyone talk about it sex romance favourability one s own relationship to physical stance on sex sex romance favourable likes it may have it sex romance indifferent doesn t really care either way may engage with it though for example for partner s sake sex romance averse does not like it will likely not engage with it sex romance repulsed finds it gross will avoid it these may apply differently to any one person depending on context look up aegosexual romantic for example positivity and favourability are unrelated to and independent from orientation and attraction all of these are normal and healthy with the arguable exception of sex negativity which can cause real life harm through purity culture and sex positivity when it goes into the extreme of making sex into a mandatory thing that everyone should want and not to be pathologised in fact i personally would argue that not being able to accept that people feel differently about it than you do is something you should talk about with a therapist but what do i know just you know you re equating being aro ace to being romance sex repulsed being aro ace is normal being romance sex repulsed is not go to therapy that sure is a thing you can say on the internet huh sorry you had to deal with that thank you very much for this yep that s pretty much it heck never considered the idea that sex positivity could become its own bigotry if pushed to such such an extreme before this post and i doubt most sex positive persons would turn it into that but it s something to think about for sure thanks for the kind words as well haemey sex stances political positions sex ed sexual orientation romantic orientation akhts answers asks 82 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink k8tieisjusthere asked yo don t follow you but i just checked that exchange that last ask was talking about eeeyikes yeah just ignore them they clearly have some bad opinions about what aromanticism asexuality is they seem to think it s a choice loud incorrect buzzer and also not understand how representation and public perception makes minority groups feel genuinely don t understand how that could be unless maybe they aren t part of any minority group so they can t fan them the concept the idea of a straight white english only speaking guy participating in ace discourse is too funny to me that can t be it right i digress anyway tldr they re not worth your time honestly if they really can be convinced of the truth through enough sources and back and forth someone else can do it yes yes and yes honestly you re right it s the kind of perception that d probably take years to change and multiple people if it changes at all k8tieisjusthere thanks for that as well asexual ace aphobia akhts answers asks 35 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink mothmans queer cousin asked hey reading the exchange on your recent comic is breaking my brain and i wanted to say all of that was crazy to say and you aren t alone the way aro and ace people are treated in fandoms suck and i appreciate your comics talking about it thank you for this it does become a lot when let people do their own thing and respect queer representation and what said representation does for the people that share these queer identities seem to be able to coexist perfectly for most queer orientations and identities but suddenly when it s aros or aces we re killjoys for wanting to be acknowledged when the lack of acknowledgement is precisely one of most prevalent issues we face i dunno it s like those things should be able to coexist that s all i m saying and when we say it it automatically gets treated like we re telling allos shippers whatehaveyou stop everything you re doing right now like dude no making room for all queer identities isn t taking shit from anyone the idea is to add to the diversity of course if people aren t interested in adding to the diversity that s their decisions but we re not the ones taking something away in this case iiiiit s a lot thank you for the kind words though it s the kind of thing that reminds me that as much of a shitshow as it is it is somehow still better than it used to be because at least some people are actually acknowledging it for what it is and that gives me hope for the future mothmans queer cousin asexual aromantic aspec fandom akhts answers asks 48 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink octolingmabel asked i m watching the conversation on your latest comic unfold from the sidelines and wanted to let you know that i m totally in support of you i don t understand why aspecs sharing our experiences is always met with pushback i just want to live my romo repulsed life in peace if nothing else i hope this ask brings some comfort in the face of someone being aphobic in your notes it does thank you if i had to guess i think it s like fragility in the face of the possible discomfort of hurting a whole group of people when you didn t originally mean to because you didn t even consider the fact that they exist it s probably easier to double down by thinking i m not harming anyone ever because i m not trying to harm anyone granted not trying to harm anyone is commandable as it is doubling down does end up falling into more active harming category though i dunno i never really understood the mindset of that would not hurt me personally so i ve decided you can t be hurt either and how people think that s how it works but yeah i should ease off i m always and forever grateful for people that make me feel less alone here tho whether we share orientations or otherwise aromantic aphobia octolingmabel very cute pfp by the way hehe akhts answers asks 45 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink anonymous asked you should probably just block them i don t think it will get through their skull 3 yeah it won t i know i should at the very least stop reacting not like it s really useful in any way but at the same time isn t it great examplification of what do you mean aros and aces face queerphobia too feel free to use it in the future or whatever i dunno shit s ugly i m tired i should stop flooding my own feed and others it s flooded with shit enough as it is anon thanks akhts answers asks 31 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink metalgearsolid3pussy eater metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers it s not hurting anyone until it is y know obligatory not all people and not all situations yadda yadda yadda but also i don t feel like watering this one down into oblivion you know what i mean not to be rude but how other people conceptualize of discuss write fictional characters makes me feel like i don t deserve to exist is a wild things to say go to therapy dingdingdingdingding it s the classic go to therapy line that happens in these situations that i was talking about like a long time ago already could make a bingo out of this it s like clockwork i don t know who to be mad at anymore is pretty indicitive that the problem is actually not other people s behavior can i level with you can we speak honestly here being aro ace is normal being sex romance repulsed is not it s fine if you don t want to date people or fuck and you don t want to think about your blorbos doing that but the degree to which it seems to upset you that other people do is unusual to put it lightly the fact you feel betrayed when a community you are a part of discuss characters in a channel you choose to abstain from is probably not healthy go to therapy or you can continue to let other people going about their lives in an also completely normal and acceptable way upset you to the point of tears on the regular dude did you really say let people live their lives and being sex romance repulsed is not normal in the same message did you seriously call a wholeass chunk of a sexual and romantic orientation that people are born with not normal does that basically mean some people deserve to live their lives as they are but not us is that what it is aight then you re equivicating no desire interest in sex with being actively repulsed by it and calling me aphobic for pointing out that the latter is clearly causing you a considerable amount of distress when it really doesn t need to seriously if other people doing their own thing is affecting you so deeply that you interpret it as you not deserving to exist that is a sign of dysfunction but i am actively repulsed by it and so are a fair amount of asexuals not all but a fair amount and society constantly acts like we don t exist or aren t normal like you do like others deserve to exist but we don t and then fictional representation a place where most other queer people have been able to find solace because at least someone out there represented the way they exist in an unequivocal and positive light gets actively ignored at best and erased at worst by people because it s not interesting i guess or whatever the reason may be it s affecting us because in this case of people doing their own thing their own thing is pretending people like us don t exist you can lalala it s not having real life effects all you want and it would be more convenient if i let society s efforts silence me into expressing that this is harmful to me as a queer person but other queers throughout the history of queer rights haven t let themselves be silenced try as society might and i won t either sorry why did i write sorry that was stupid conversely you could also just let me do my own thing of expressing that and go on with your day without telling me to go to therapy for it it s a two way street by that logic ain t it i would prefer you exist in a way that doesn t cause you a considerable amount of distress when it really needn t which basically means you d prefer i d be fixed thanks for the accidental conversion therapy suggestion i guess that ain t happening tho if i can help it at least society ain t changing either for sure but having a little bit of visibility for what our experience feels like is better than nothing and i d rather suffer than lobotomize or silence myself into something i m not metalgearsolid3pussy eater i m not becoming convenient for you that ain t how it works society sure as hell has not been convenient for me in safe space or otherwise tw aphobia like seriously tho you don t approach a homosexual person and say i would prefer you wouldn t get upset about homosexual erasure so you don t do that with any queer person either is it really that hard 2 997 notes jul 31st 2026 open in app facebook tweet mail permalink metalgearsolid3pussy eater metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers metalgearsolid3pussy eater bloggingboutburgers it s not hurting anyone until it is y know obligatory not all people and not all situations yadda yadda yadda but also i don t feel like watering this one down into oblivion you know what i mean not to be rude but how other people conceptualize of discuss write fictional characters makes me feel like i don t deserve to exist is a wild things to say go to therapy dingdingdingdingding it s the classic go to therapy line that happens in these situations that i was talking about like a long time ago already could make a bingo out of this it s like clockwork i don t know who to be mad at anymore is pretty indicitive that the problem is actually not other people s behavior can i level with you can we speak honestly here being aro ace is normal being sex romance repulsed is not it s fine if you don t want to date people or fuck and you don t want to think about your blorbos doing that but the degree to which it seems to upset you that other people do is unusual to put it lightly the fact you feel betrayed when a community you are a part of discuss characters in a channel you choose to abstain from is probably not healthy go to therapy or you can 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