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d bumblebitch69 im cringe and you cant stop me antizionist jew zionists apologists fuck off antisemites also fuck off i am a trans woman butchness is not the exclusive territory of cafab trans people uncensored blog for my uncensored tranny opinions basically only on here when im bored at work i talk a lot abt intracommunity shit bc im constantly watching people get hurt by it clean up yr mess and ill stop calling you messy i keep trans kids in my neighborhood fed and housed what are you doing to materially better the lives of trans ppl near you and no posting doesn t count by interacting with my posts you accept that i may be blunt or rude in response to you but if i cross a line into cruelty without realizing it please call me on it 99 chance ill just block you if yr saying stupid shit tho buzz buzz bitch new tag for original posts since i yap on here sometimes now 16 bumblebitch69 anonymous asked cafab is a term for intersex people who went through intersex genital mutilation at birth btw i saw you using it and it didn t seem like you were using it correctly gen info i have very brainfog rn so i cant articulate stuff correctly and comprehend properly do sorry if i sawwrong this is a common misconception i am intersex and was around in trans intersex communities when this term was being developed 15 years ago it was co created by both trans and intersex people to articulate overlapping experiences of coercion around gendered bodily autonomy and nw you articulated yourself fine bumblebitch69 reblogged cabinetmonger parkchanwoohoo follow 366 600 bumblebitch69 reblogged anarchistmemedistro follow transcyberism this is what the phrase social murder referred to before self centered white tumblr users started misusing it to refer to getting their blogs deleted btw murder perpetrated via policy decisions usually recorded as natural causes erased and made invisible 115 10 310 26 442 bumblebitch69 reblogged cock holliday follow anonymous asked didn t leslie feinberg stay quiet about the violent exclusion of trans women from michfest cock holliday answered youtube leslie feinberg transgender warrior day 21 of the pride 30 project for pride month 2018 medium feinberg and hir partner lesbian poet minnie bruce pratt also participated in camp trans an annual demonstration held to protest the michigan womyn s music festival s exclusionary womyn born womyn policy trans filmmakers tell history of camp trans p it s important to remember the moments and people who defined the transgender movement over the years show these filmmakers p advocate com transgender warrriors making history from joan of arc to dennis rodman part 4 chapter 14 sisterhood make it real t ransgender history mentioned throughout how terf violence inspired camp trans su_cwtop in the middle of a cool august night in 1991 nancy burkholder was thrown out of the michigan womyn s music festival mwmf becau transadvocate did one of the biggest leaders in the trans response to michfests transphobia stay quiet are we utterly incapable of even taking a gander at a wikipedia article about the things the person we wanna make up bullshit about made like their entire life mission no they literally just hate butches w any gender complexity it s so gross 55 93 bumblebitch69 reblogged sydmarch creekfiend follow there are a number of folktale woman creatures like selkies who exist to make the inherently coercive nature of heterosexual marriage explicit and to externalize male anxiety about how if your wife had actual autonomy she very well might disappear and you might never fucking hear from her again which is a fascinating category of woman creature imo creekfiend someone said it s also a cautionary tale about mistreating your wife and i think that s spot on especially for other related types of stories e g the crane wife like i think these stories are very much husband anxiety stories the woman creatures are black boxes whose interior experience it is impossible to know and who have strange and often seemingly arbitrary rules that you must follow or else they will disappear idk like that s why i think that any empowering to women ness qualities of these stories is incidental i think they re externalized anxiety about coercive societal heterosexuality and the inability to truly know one s wife in such circumstances 9 11 862 19 084 bumblebitch69 reblogged cock holliday follow anonymous asked you rightly pointing out that the current wave of popular radical transfeminism is a form of separationism was a massive eye opener i felt uncomfortable with a lot of the discussion around transfeminism specifically the emphasis on seeing trans men as oppressors viewing oppression as a virtue and posititioning themselves as the most opposed and thus the most virtuous and insistence on dividing people into people who face the oppression and oppressors and insisting that trans women are only safe around other trans women it took a while to pinpoint it because it s often kinda subtle and for a while i thought it might just be me being transmisognyistic without realising but you calling it a separationist movement made everything click into place because yeah it really is on that note do you have any good transfeminist resources for beginners i know people in here uphold whipping girl as the ultimate text on transfeminism but i m sceptical about it since it s almost 20 years old and also the way mostly radical transfeminists treat it as infallible and above critique as well as it apparently being very white us centric cock holliday answered yeah it s been so damaging that the problem with terfs and radfems not being fully unpacked has lead to utilizing their broken framework if a terf is just someone who hates trans women then you never really understand why they exist in the first place and anyone arguing with a trans women can easily be labeled a terf even if she herself is a trans woman ultimately radfeminism is both more insidious than most people think and also deeply misunderstood when we fail to understand them they are just a nebulous evil type of woman who hates trans women when really they are people who have been victimized by misogyny to often really horrific extremes and rather than see their oppression as a systemic problem it s easier for them to find a specific class as the issue namely men and for some men is anyone who was assigned male at birth regardless of identity and for others men is a class you can opt into but implies an evil about you for choosing to be the oppressor both are wrong and i have been intentional in framing this type of trans discourse as trans radfeminism because that s what it is it is trying to identify a class as the real enemy rather than see many classes of people fighting and being brutalized by a common system it creates in group mentality where only those like you are safe and anyone different than you is a potential threat reactionary groups correctly recognize problems but wrongly attribute the source and this can range from groups like radfems or like zionists or like straight up nazis because reactionary separatism relies on upholding fascist systems the power you are granted to smite your supposed enemies is given to you by the oppressive system not in opposition to it while i would call it transmisogyny theory i wouldn t call most of serano s work transfeminist at least certainly not whipping girl some of her later work is closer which a lot of trans radfems love to pretend doesn t exist despite only ever invoking serano s name and not any other theorist i ve not read the newer editions of whipping girl the latest came out in 2024 but she has some decent commentary on both her substack and medium i think she writes from the perspective of a very specific type of white trans woman and her work is treated as universal but it is narrow that s not necessarily bad but pretending it isn t narrow is a problem especially when she does sometimes speak on other trans people with a looooot of incorrect assumptions some work of hers i find helpful are these on male socialization and the trans masc versus trans fem discourse a gender critical and terf primer though i will say what i like about her work is said better by other theorists she is a decent read for a trans woman experience but imo not a great read for a transfeminist theory i think whether you like the piece or not you cannot begin to call yourself a transfeminist without having read the transfeminist manifesto by emi koyama it s not long trans radfems hate this piece which is interesting because emi is the one who popularized the term transfeminist emi wrote from the perspective of a trans woman who was also intersex and binarist and intersexist and exorsexist trans people really did not like that she blurred a lot of lines she got accused of pretending to be a trans woman because of the complicated nature of her intersex experience she was and still is inclusive of trans men in her theory and she got a lot of shit for being a woman of color who took issue with the racism of trans spaces that were supposedly feminist which she wrote about here and here my personal favorite trans author dealing with transfeminist concepts and also just gender liberation on both a broader and more personal scale is kate bornstein two of her books that i adore are gender outlaw on men women and the rest of us original next gen re release gender outlaw s the next generation also by s bear bergman and my new gender workbook other works i recommend most anything by riki wilchins the person who coined genderqueer including genderqueer voices from beyond the sexual binary edited by joan nestle clare howell and riki wilchins kind of a bad scan but i m having trouble finding a good digital link the physical book was gifted to me de essentializing anarchist feminism lessons from the transfeminist movement by j rogue transgender warriors making history from joan of arc to dennis rodman by leslie feinberg the transunitist manifesto by luke b an orientalist history of transmisogyny by julianna neuhouser a critique of a short history of transmisogyny by jules gil peterson transfeminist international by marquis bey who has particularly good essays jules joanne gleeson elle o rourke trish salah and mckenzie wark clare had most of my favorite essays in the book and i wish desperately that she wrote more for some heftier reading there is the book transfeminist perspectives in and beyond transgender and gender studie s but it tells you what all the articles inside are so if something speaks to you you can look up particular readings i think it is important to read narrow things by trans women narrow things by trans men narrow things by cis women even understanding narrow things by cis men and then look at all of them and see overlap and identify patterns some cis men who wrote on the complicated nature of men and masculinity transitioned to women and some cis women who wrote about being women transitioned to men i think both their findings and the context of their gender creates plots on the map that reveal a lot about the experiences of gender i find most of my best readings from nonbinary people who are by the nature of their own experiences often very inclusive of opposite trans people and i think a lot more nonbinary and intersex writers have a better grasp of transfeminism because of their blurred experiences but a lot of my founding ideas about transfeminism not necessarily the word but the concept came from this interview with leslie feinberg and kate bornstein lots of good stuff here to check out esp interested in the one on orientalism thats a dynamic i ve v much observed but don t have the knowledge to unpack 18 39 bumblebitch69 are u really experiencing pressure to identify with a more transgressive gender identity or did u just see nonbinary ppl talking abt our identities and experiences and decide it must be about you buzz buzz bitch 2 bumblebitch69 reblogged cock holliday follow i think where emi koyama gets crucified by a lot of trans people for saying that gendered socialization is a real thing is that the way terfs use socialized as doesn t actually mean encouraged by society to shift to be they mean it as an inherent thing like the opposite of what socialization is socialization requires coercion malicious or not it is the attempted reinforcement of certain behaviors failing to meet these metrics results in punishment and all of it is possible to unlearn it s like how someone unconsciously being racist takes the pointing out of such behavior as like a condemnation of their soul an assumption that racism is an inherent assignment as a racist person and not an unlearnable behavior you ve been coerced by your upbringing to normalize neither gender assignment is bad but your upbringing based off of your assumed relationship to gender is going to have an effect on you it may not be comparable to cis people of your assignment who conform to the expectations but it probably overlaps a lot with others who struggle for one reason or another i don t think it s helpful to ignore how being raised with the encouragement to take up space is going to create some hurdles in similar and different ways to how being raised to make yourself meek and small will in one area i think being seen as failing to be superior is going to have different effects to being seen as inherently inferior but in another way that s also not a universal constant there are privileges white cis women hold over black cis men so basing the entire premise of privilege on gender alone assigned let alone identified with is insufficient but all of this can be unlearned not everyone has the same localized upbringing despite living in the same society a cis boy raised by feminists may have a much better outlook on gender than a cis girl raised to view other women as her enemies we can conceptualize what it does to a closeted person to hear transphobia all around them but then try to ignore what an assignment of girlhood does to someone because then we have to pretend it s all roses for people assigned male which isn t true but was is true is there are some things you just do not have to worry about due to one forced categorization or another that s not a reflection of you morally but it doesn t mean those struggling must keep quiet there are countless areas that white men do not have to worry but black men do gay men do gender alone is not enough to determine everything about what people can and cannot do but socialization doesn t not have an impact white boys can wear hoodies while black boys are pleaded with by their mothers not to keep their hoods up it s just something one group has to worry about that another doesn t and the thing is that you do not overcome perceptions overnight and certainly not through a shift in identity alone it is deeply ingrained and is a constant process you do not get blasted with these messages for 20 years and then suddenly...