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september 28 2016 edajvor leave a comment ok eda here we go your challenge write 1 000 words per day for 30 days starting now this is my nanoprep friends i want to finish the manuscript i m writing before challenging myself to write a brand new one faster and publicly i m about half way through i have a good idea of what s going to happen and how it s going to end and i want to take a good long break once i m done before i go back and start editing the timing in that sense is perfect that means that i won t actually be doing much in the way of preparing for national novel writing month i will not be filling in character sheets or outlining or doing world building exercises as of right now i have no idea what my nanowrimo story will be i ve got a notebook full of ideas i ll start there in 30 days when my current wip is finished ambitious yes doable probably not gonna try it anyway yeah my beeswax is over here september 27 2016 september 27 2016 edajvor leave a comment today i went to a playgroup and it was not awful a neighboring town s library holds a 45 minute playgroup every week and since my search for affordable day care has gone horribly so so horribly i m checking out free options for kid interaction instead i should explain daycare would be helpful for work reasons but more than that i want to socialize my shy kid turns out part time day care is more than i would make working extra hours i could have a fleet of cars for the price of part time day care i could have a much bigger house i could spend a weekend a month in las vegas for the amount they want me to pay for part time day care so playgroups here we come we went on an adventure today our first trip to the library our first playgroup our first time spent with multiple children of the same age as my little guy very exciting for mommy the kid not so much i m thinking it might take more than one visit for him to acclimate the reason i ve avoided playgroups until now and i really am starting to sound like i have some major beef with them but honestly it was because of scary mommy i ve read so much anti other mom bologna so many the five awful moms you ll meet at playgroup type articles so very many hover moms are ruining everything rants that i got stuck in an introvert fear bubble and assumed the very worst it really wasn t that bad there were hover moms and sit back watch moms and grandmas and a grandpa there were kids who cried kids who stomped around kids who spun and fell down kids who tried to take all the toys kids who attached themselves firmly to their mommy and refused to let go until the instruments came out that would be my kid and totally chill participating kids it was normal totally normal this is how kids are this is how the people who care for them are it s really not that big a deal yeah one kid hopped on the back of the chair my kid was sitting on and tried to push him off his mom came over and grabbed him and apologized there was a kid wandering around yelling adorably at people we all thought it was cute and didn t care there was a 2 year old the size of a 5 year old who ran around at the back of the room it was fine there was a kid who screamed at 10 minute intervals whatever maybe some of the caretakers were cranky maybe there were glares and glances and judgment but i didn t notice i just focused on my kid and the group leader and thought it was lovely maybe that s the secret right there mind your own beeswax and everything will be fine we re going again next week i might be the more excited of the two of us i refuse to feed my child unless he gets me facebook likes september 25 2016 edajvor leave a comment i am so silly here i was complaining about all of those uber negative scary mommy shamer articles not even realizing that the articles getting the most interactions were the super douchey ones lesson learned wait let me rephrase three things to do if you want more nasty comments on your articles if you want all the attention you have to be a turdface if you want readers you have to use clickbait titles if you want to feel superior you have to put down all the people i think i need to stop reading scary mommy ya ll it just drags me down the day my kid stood still september 20 2016 edajvor leave a comment this morning my toddler headbutted me in the cheek bone hard my husband s response was he didn t mean it listen if he meant it then there s something wrong with my kid if my husband meant to do the things we end up fighting about then i married the wrong guy if most people meant to act like buttholes and hurt and lie and cut others off in traffic even though i clearly had the right of way then there s something horribly wrong with all of humanity and i m calling alien keanu reeves to come clean up nanobot style i watched the day the earth stood still the other day saying i didn t mean it is the worst way to way to respond in situations like this second only to i did mean it i hope you suffer ha it s a pointless non apology that doesn t offer sympathy or take responsibility he didn t mean it like i honestly believe my kid is trying to break my face and that s why i responded with ow damnit that hurts i guess the good moms respond with i love you too sweet snowflake do whatever you want to mommy and i won t complain because motherhood is pain and womanhood is pain and i am an alien robot mom who doesn t understand the other side of humanity until i watch someone cry in a cemetery that s how keanu does it change is nature s way of saying stop screwing this up september 18 2016 edajvor leave a comment as a writer i think this is beautiful as a mother i am horrified horrified and disgusted you have a fucking village you savages i ve got a village of 5 people and 4 of them work full time but we still manage to take care of my kid the old ways are bullshit that s why we keep inventing new ways those who are unable to believe in the old ways go south where life loses this rawness in the tin house archives writer emma cline publishes flash fiction perseids set in tasiilaq greenland via perseids discover i m the best around september 18 2016 edajvor 1 comment one of the things i try to impress upon the kids i work with in my after school program is that we can be proud of our achievements without being a braggart that it is possible to celebrate ourselves without putting anyone else down i mean of course there are people who will be hurt regardless which is why i hate scary mommy shame articles promoting the idea that if you can t have it be it do it no one else should either there will always be those people who can t let anyone else have anything nice but most people i ve found are able to celebrate our wins with us as long as we re not a total turd about it point being humility doesn t have to be don t look at me don t appreciate me i m nothing it can be this is what i can do did well and i am proud of that and we can all clap and say well done sir well done ma am and then move on with our lives this is all just to say that i won fridare on twitter this week and i m proud of that but let s not make a big deal huh i m trying to be humble here fridare how embarrassing to repeatedly misspell embarassassing amwriting haiku eda vor edajvor september 16 2016 i m not trying to bully scary mommy because there are a lot of good articles on there the ones that keep popping up on my facebook feed and maybe i just need more positive friends who share less hateful crap are the rah rah you think you re bettah than me type and i am so sick of them flash fiction for free september 16 2016 september 16 2016 edajvor leave a comment short on time low on money desperate for a fiction fix well i have a solution for you new for free book friday download a flash of effect inside the world of the homecoming effect in four short short stories for freeeeeeeee 9 16 9 20 from amazon com writing the homecoming effect was a long and painful process and when i d lose steam or get lost i found that writing a character sketch or a short story that fit between scenes would get me back on track basically it s fan fiction of my own work if that s possible which sure why not regardless it s a quick read and a nice little peek at the novel if you haven t read it or a reminder of the good times if you have regularly priced at 99 it s available for free for the next 5 days grab your copy now read it whenever and then if you could be a dear throw a star review at me so amazon will take me seriously it s a book eat book world out there and mama needs some love scent related september 13 2016 edajvor leave a comment today s 2bittues theme on twitter is scent and i have to laugh because well i don t write every scene in order you see and my first draft stage is one of exploration and discovery not so much organization and outline what i m saying is that i use a searchable marker word so i can easily find where i left off i choose a word i m not likely to use in the story and for my current wip my marker word is fart so the very first word i see when i open my wip today to search for something scent related for 2bittues is fart and today i prove i have the wit of a 12 year old smug mommy shame writers september 11 2016 september 11 2016 edajvor 2 comments i think i should state for the record that this has nothing to do with any sort of bitterness over not having any of my submissions accepted because i m not bitter you can t be a writer and hold grudges like that or you ll go nutballs i m much too busy to go nutballs you see so no this isn t about bitterness scary mommy is getting harder and harder to read for me in general because the opinions my god the opinions i can t handle the i m never doing this again or moms who do this are crazy articles and there s just so many of them i ve been a mom for less than 2 years so i am hardly an expert but i gotta tell ya the road to sanity for this parent is all about flexibility adaptability and an understanding of the bigger picture this is how it works i have a parenting theory based on a value so i m going to do this wow this failed spectacularly i m gonna have to do something different i ll try that no that didn t work either ok how about this other thing this other thing seems to be going well but i feel bad that this and that didn t work am i a bad parent no because forcing this or that on my child when it clearly doesn t work for him would be bad parenting i have to understand that my job as a parent is to get my child safely through childhood instilling good values as best i can until he becomes an adult and can choose his own values and that s all there is to it i m not going to shame myself or let myself be shamed for failure to follow through on something that s not working something i don t believe in something someone else is pushing on me but i feel iffy about or some bullcrap that some freaking mommy blogger with a phd in skimming parenting magazine articles and then forming a silly opinion that she thinks applies to every other human is touting as gospel truth no thank you i m not saying i won t read magazines or blogs or pinterest or even scary mommy sometimes because i ve gotten some really good ideas from them but just because it s working for one parent or even several doesn t mean that it s for me and that s ok unless you re writing one of the overwhelmingly prevalent articles for scary mommy where you bitch about all the people making bento boxes for their kid s lunches because who has time for that crap well the parents making those boxes are using the time they have to do something they enjoy to make their kids happy does that mean you have to do it too or you re a bad parent no i m sure some of those box makers are smug better than youers but some of them just enjoy food art what about those stupid crafty parents making home made halloween costumes how dare you use your skills and hobbies to benefit your child because it makes both you and your child happy how dare you then post your creations to social media where you can show your friends and family something you ve made that you re proud of how do you think that makes me feel not having the same skills nor the time nor the patience to do the same for my child i m gonna write a scary mommy article about that shaming you because if i feel bad that i can t do what you do you should feel bad about it too moms dads guardians of children guardians of the galaxy you all need to relax there are as many ways of showing your kids you love them as there are children in the world all you have to do is find the thing that you know how to do or that you d like to learn how to do and figure out how to use that to show your child you love them and it doesn t have to be showy or impressive and you don t have to post it on pinterest or facebook to make it count just love your kid the way you can just love your kid me and my son pretty much haha just kidding parenting is wicked hard posts navigation older 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