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june 2020 eda j vor eda j vor woman writer who writes about women menu skip to content read this woman s words this story is feminist af eda j writes gay ya mama bear is always ready for a fight blog got something to say search search for month june 2020 once upon a status report june 29 2020 edajvor leave a comment i could make a career out of toxic workplace stories with source material to last me to infinity but no one would want to read it because most of us can say the exact same thing do managers read those what makes people hate work their managers articles for tips and tricks in how to be horrible secrets of a hobby novelist character development june 20 2020 edajvor leave a comment today my writer friends i d like to tell you some secrets about my characters they re all me because i write them i don t understand why that s not more obvious to people who ask authors who are your characters based on duh it s me and my perceptions about the people around me all mixed up in one of those little smoothie blenders so i can work out my issues through storytelling maybe there are writers who don t think their characters are themselves but like where do the characters come from if not your own brain if they are based on someone else it s your perspective of that person i think the only thing that would make this not true is if you have a co writer or a very opinionated editor all of the villains are some version of my parents because i have issssssssues according to my newest therapist those issues are called complex trauma because of insidious emotional neglect throughout my childhood so even when i base the villain antagonist on an actual person i hate i usually hate them because they re delivering similarly messed up messages about who i am and how little worth i have intrinsically as a human regardless of my behavior every single story i ve ever written has been about me trying to work through some facet of my childhood trauma the homecoming effect issues of belonging safety knowing there s a responsible adult looking out for your well being like two opposite things mixed messages and misunderstandings about sexuality the neglect in giving children too much independence belonging and knowing there s a responsible adult looking after your well being lay her ghosts to rest being valued and understood for who you are belonging knowing there are responsible adults at your workplace looking after employees well being fully functioning i mean this whole story was about how i had postpartum depression and my entire family did absolutely nothing to help me the reason i keep writing the same themes over and over again is because i m not over any of it i have just found a therapist who finally sees me and takes me seriously sooooo guess who will probably make an appearance at some point as the mentor savior character and or the one responsible adult in the story who is taking care of things maybe i ll name her linda after the therapist in lucifer who is my absolute fav character in that show sure lucifer is flashy and fun ella is a delight and charlotte had a pretty satisfying redemption story but linda she s my gal so keep an eye out for linda the hero in some future book of mine i ll demand that rachael harris play her in the movie version what does it say when you have a favorite fantasy therapist hug a book june 14 2020 june 14 2020 edajvor 2 comments sometimes you just gotta hug the book you love and i m happy to announce that we finally can like two opposite things is now available in paperback on amazon helia desiderio nicknamed hell yeah by her friends is just a kiss virgin baby dork embarrassed by her 15 year kiss free streak and her free wheeling light partying parents who spend their weekends misbehaving in a mid 90s family campground while she lets her best friend heather take care of her but heather s got a plan that ll bring the campground kids together a friendly game of spin the bottle where anyone can kiss anyone boy or girl and anyone who has a problem with that can go jump in the lake things get complicated when the new girl arrives and hell yeah discovers that her clean cut handsome jock crush object patrick isn t all that the grungy smoker boy with the greasy hair isn t as bad as he seems and the new girl desiree has more than friendly feelings that hell yeah might just be feeling herself fyi i m making excellent progress on the sequel about eda eda j vor is hobby novelist blogger and mombot who likes a little feminism in her fiction if only to make women seem a little more like people she blogs about bias in children s media fangirling motherhood and adventures in self publishing read her my book place author interview here my read shelf my tweets recent posts how do you know you re crazy read queer anti prime day is coming does this make you uncomfortable lament for bygone youth the words nut bars wandered through my mind recent posts how do you know you re crazy july 19 2026 read 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