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i really wasn t interested in them and its true straight women do have lots of pressure from men who are interested to get them to agree to date them or become their partner and lesbians generally just don t behave like this so next time you say no to a woman who is interested in you just be glad you only have to say it once posted in uncategorized tagged dyke lesbian lesbians sexual attraction leave a comment grooming posted on august 15 2012 by happylesbian there is a wide level of standards of grooming amongst women for me going out means a shower quick blow dry of my hair and changing into clothes i like for other going out means a long time spent waxing applying make up and painting your nails both straight and lesbian women take both approaches however it is true to say that lesbians are less likely to spend lots of time in grooming and far less likely to expect their partners and friends to do so that suits me i am basically lazy about this kind of stuff long before i was into feminism i would spend a pretty minimal amount of time getting ready to go out clean and presentable has always been enough in my book so next time either you or a friend spends 20 minutes getting ready to go out for the evening be glad as a lesbian that it is easier to choose to do this posted in uncategorized tagged dyke grooming lesbian leave a comment careers and earnings posted on august 7 2012 by happylesbian it may surprise you to know that lesbians in general earn more than straight women yes it has been researched check it here http www freakonomics com 2010 12 17 the truth about gay and lesbian income and this goes for all lesbians no matter how poor or well off your family background of course it doesn t mean that all lesbians are rich but the chances are that you will be earning more than the straight girls you went to school with nobody knows why this is the case but there are different theories about it these include that teenage girls growing up knowing they were lesbian are less likely to fantasise about having a partner who will be the main breadwinner and look after them they know they will have to earn their own living and so this encourages young lesbians to work harder at school and get established in the job market another theory is that lesbians are less likely to have children until very recently lesbians having children unless they had already been married to a male partner were pretty rare we all know women who take time out of the workplace to have children suffer career wise for this so the less lesbians have children the less likely they are to suffer career wise a third theory is that lesbians are more likely to prioritise their own education it is still common if straight couples don t have much money for the family to support the man to increase his level of education e g go back to college my brother and sister in law did this and i see other straight couples doing this as well of course in lesbian couples there is no man to prioritise and so amongst the lesbian couples i know it is far more common to take turns in terms of supporting each other to improve a partner s level of education and although it is not automatic an improved education does increase your chances of earning more and lastly as the research shows lesbians are more likely to choose work in traditionally male dominated careers these tend to be better paid than female dominated industries perhaps lesbians by already defying what is expected of women are more willing to defy expectations when it comes to career choices as well personally i think it is probably a combination of all these factors so remember next time you are grumbling about your wage packet the chances are that you are earning more than your straight counterparts posted in uncategorized tagged career dyke earnings lesbian 2 comments grooming part two posted on july 27 2012 by happylesbian i have a straight friend who earns more than me in a pretty well paid job she lives alone in a modest house she is buying but i couldn t understand how even though she earned much more than me she always seemed short of money of course it was none of my business so i didn t say anything but after yet another end of the month where she was struggling she asked me if i would sit down with her and help her look at a budget i agreed so we met up and sat and looked at her monthly income and what she was spending it on and suddenly her lack of money became clear she was spending an absolute fortune on grooming regularly buying make up new clothes and glossy women s magazines paying for visits to the salon for leg waxes highlights and hair cuts and buying a range of pampering expensive bathing products now i know not all straight women spend their money this way but a lot of single childless women do spend a significant proportion of their income on grooming a uk poll found that 93 of women spend on average up to 150 a month on clothes and 87 of women spend on average up to 100 a month on grooming and beauty products and i am sure the average expenditure will be much higher for women who do not have children read more http www confused com press releases save money by having a woman in your life ixzz21pjthm3j and although a small number of lesbians also do this it is a small number most childfree lesbians instead spend any extra money on going out and having a good time and that is because most lesbians don t care if their girlfriend waxes her legs or buys expensive clothes most lesbians are happy if their girlfriend showers regularly and wears clean clothes sure we might admire a nice shirt or blouse but our expectations in terms of grooming are usually way lower than the average straight man has of his female partner so next time you are bemoaning your lack of money be glad that your girlfriend is unlikely to expect you to spend your hard earned cash on lots of grooming posted in uncategorized tagged childless grooming lesbian lesbians sexism sexual attraction leave a comment lack of contraception posted on july 15 2012 by happylesbian this is an obvious one lesbians obviously can t make each other pregnant and so there is no need for contraception so no need to mess about with condoms or to take hormones regularly that may have unpleasant side effects and no fear if you have had an accident and are waiting for the pregnancy test to tell you whether you are pregnant or not of course without the risk of an unwanted pregnancy goes the problems of deciding what to do if this happens deciding whether you want an abortion or to continue with the pregnancy many post menopausal straight woman say they enjoy having sex without the fear of an unwanted pregnancy as lesbians all of our sex is like that so next time you are having great lesbian sex just remember how much greater it is that you don t have to worry about an unwanted pregnancy enjoy posted in uncategorized tagged contraception great sex lesbian leave a comment looking young posted on june 24 2012 by happylesbian i am a feminist and of course i know that it is fine to look your age there is no need to look younger than you really are but in general i think lesbian women do look younger than straight women why this is i don t know but i think it is really noticeable i look around at my lesbian friends in their 40 s and 50 s and most of them still look reasonably young okay nobody is going to mistake them for a 20 year old but they don t look old either amongst straight women some still look relatively young but some look so old is this because they are worn down with looking after men and kids while generally lesbians are able to concentrate more on themselves i don t know but it is something that amongst lesbian friends we all have noticed and commented on so women ditch those age defying creams and become a lesbian instead posted in uncategorized tagged age defying lesbian youth leave a comment no pressure to have kids posted on june 24 2012 by happylesbian now kids can be great funny sweet and great to be with but one of the things i hear straight women complain about is the pressure they get put under to have kids as soon as they marry or settle down with a man relatives start asking when are you going to have children or worse i would love to have grandchildren some who have decided not to have kids complain about the constant pressure to change their minds as a lesbian you just don t get this now i am aware this come from homophobia i e most people don t think you should have kids anyway but if you don t want children this lack of pressure is great it means you can get on with your life living it the way you want to with freedom from this constant pressure so while my brother in law gets asked constantly by his parents when is he going to get married and oh by the way he had better hurry up as he is running out of time to have kids my girlfriend hasn t had this once in fact they don t interfere at all its as if they don t have any blueprint in their head of what a lesbian relationship should be like and so they have nothing to compare and contrast with which is great so if you are childless and want to remain so be glad that you don t get pressure to have kids and don t get asked to constantly justify why you don t want kids posted in uncategorized tagged childless children kids lesbian leave a comment everyday sexism posted on june 17 2012 by happylesbian now we all have experience of everyday sexism at work that man who always talks down to you or the sexist jokes you overhear when queueing for a newspaper but as lesbians when we go home and close the door we can escape from all that with our female partners we don t have to deal with the sexism that it is impossible for women who sleep with men to escape from now of course that doesn t mean all lesbians are lovely kind and caring but it does mean that it is one less issue to deal with in what is usually your closest relationship straight women on the otherhand if they are in a relationship have no choice but to deal with the inevitable sexism from their partner on a daily basis if their male partner is not nice the sexism may be extreme but even if a straight women has chosen a nice man to partner there will be some low level sexism that she may not be aware of as i have already mentioned in a previous post straight women on average do much more housework than their male partners that is down to either overt or subtle low level sexism many men do the diy rather than their female partner if spending an evening socialising with a straight couple it is usually very noticeable that the man will generally talk more than the woman and that it is the woman who will have taken the time to actually organise the arrangements for us to meet up and this low level sexism is usually invisible to the woman in the relationship or viewed by her as a failing of her individual partner it is only when you are not spending much time with men that suddenly much of this low level sexism becomes obvious of course sometimes from the outside of a relationship you don t really see what is happening straight away i am reminded of one friend who is married to a nice man he is respectful listens to her and supports her career it was by chance though that i discovered that she takes a taxi to and from the supermarket every week to get the weekly shop because she can t drive while he a car driver sits at home because he hates food shopping and they both think this is okay so i love how when i get home from work i can close the door and leave all that low level sexist rubbish behind posted in uncategorized tagged lesbian nice men sexism leave a comment friends and socialising posted on june 15 2012 by happylesbian when i was young the straight women i knew had as many friends and socialised as much as the lesbians i know did but as we have got older it has become very noticeable that the straight women i know do very little socialising with friends now i know some lesbians come out and socialise find the woman of their dreams then drop out of sight unless they and their partner split up when they suddenly reappear again but a lot of lesbians continue to socialise very regularly and go out with friends unsurprisingly lesbians with young children do seem to socialise a lot less but this increases again as their children get older so it is a temporary phenomenon the straight friends i have still have friends but only socialise infrequently i really really value my friends and love meeting up with them and going out i am 45 but still go out about 3 4 times a week with friends and this is very common amongst the lesbians i know that don t have young children some of my straight friends have said they are jealous of my active social life so why is this i can t find any research into it but i suspect it is because straight women are very much sold the myth that their male partners should be everything to them their partner should be their lover their best friend and be able to meet all their needs of course this is unrealistic no one person can meet all your needs most of us need a range of people to support us make us laugh and spend time with but if you believe the myth i suspect it will encourage you to neglect existing friends and not prioritise time for a social life and if you are a lesbian without much of a social life then get out there and meet other lesbians there are lots of lovely lesbians out there just waiting to be your friend posted in uncategorized tagged friends friendship lesbian lesbians leave a comment being fat and attractive posted on june 14 2012 by happylesbian of course everyone has certain types of women or men they are attracted to you may be really into boyish cute women or voluptous women with messy hair but if you are straight and fat in general there are less men that will fancy you generally straight men tend to fancy slimmer women it is different amongst lesbians yes there are some lesbians who are not attracted to any fat woman but lots and lots of lesbians whether they are thin or fat themselves are attracted to fat and thin women i have been surprised amongst friends most of whom are thin how often supernanny s name comes up when we talk about famous women we fancy she doesn t do it for me i am afraid far too mock stern but being fat does not present any kind of barrier to most lesbian s lusts i m not sure why lesbians are far more likely to see fat women as sexually attractive than straight guys but they are so if you are a fat lesbian be secure in the knowledge that there are plenty of other lesbians who fancy you and would like to shag you given the chance posted in uncategorized tagged fat fat acceptance lesbian sexual attraction supernanny 1 comment older posts archives september 2012 august 2012 july 2012 june 2012 blogroll betty bandit lesbian caucus stonewall itsgreatbeingalesbian create a free website or blog at wordpress com 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