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practical what they do need is some impracticality expensive impracticality so i concluded that i should get her chocolates expensive chocolates every weekend around singapore you would notice school kids raising funds for the needy and disabled mostly they would grab their flag tins and sit around and chat for a bit then go shopping and so on it is but an excuse to meet up on the weekends such is charity in singapore a forced front a point system needed to graduate from college at the junction of orchard road where pedestrian traffic comes to standstill i noticed an rjc girl carrying her tin and asking for donations i did a terrible thing which was to avoid making eye contact worse still i think she saw me do it she took a couple of steps in my direction then she paused and turned away and then she came closer again why wasn t she just approaching me for a donation 15 14 13 went the traffic lights in the opposite direction 10 seconds left phew come on i edged forward into the crowd excusemesir wouldyouliketodonatetotheelderlytheyarelocatedattoapayohandsomeofthemonlyhaveonemealadayand yes i know i donated to one of your schoolmates down at shaw oh okay she starts to walk away disappointed no wait can you come back please there were so many things running through my mind foremost were her sincerity and heart for the needy it would have been so much easier for her to ignore me especially since i was avoiding her what impressed me was that despite being obviously reticent initially she plucked up her nerve did the right thing and asked and behind the nervous regurgitation of information her honesty and integrity reminded me of my younger sister in all her wide eyed earnestness holistic intentions but somehow lacking courage and yet there was i counting down in my head even with the traffic lights working hard against her she must have been under pressure but she did it and i was stirred to believe in the beauty of flawed humanity once again it would have been creepy of me to tell her what i was thinking and she might have flipped if i said i saw my younger sister in her well i don t have small change so i ll have to give you notes someone once told me that life is a join the dot journey of a collection of magical moments and this was decidedly one of them as i looked back i saw her give me a wave and wide smile i winked back at her only hoping i made her day as she did mine posted by jon lai at 3 42 pm 1 comment sunday may 03 2009 he s just not that into you her celine did it as we agreed upon she took forever though hahaha let s see if you agree with the render girl he s just not that into you posted by jon lai at 5 59 pm 1 comment tuesday march 24 2009 he s just not that into you a witty show with a star studded cast celine is supposed to reflect her thoughts on this show too but i ve taken ages to script this observe the effort it takes to write a post so don t ask me to keep updating here are 15 lessons i felt the show brought up interspersed with personal opinions because i know better 1 you can never cheat and get away with it you will end up losing both your wife and the pretty mistress i suspect the ladies would probably rejoice at this with typical serves you right you bastard panache according to scarlett johansson s character marriage to one s partner does not mean you have married the right one question is do you try to work things out or look for the one i have a friend who divorced her fiancé after sending out the wedding invites she married someone else and shocked all of us despite the tongue and finger wagging i m sure she was the subject of much envy from those suffering in their marriages so do we stick by traditional morals and live unhappily ever after 2 they say that there is no such thing as a spark it is an excuse a guy makes up to tell a girl he s not interested ironically i have used this statement rather often not withstanding it was roundabout valentine s day and found it somewhat true but you see sparks don t exist inherently you have to make them happen you need to rub two stones together create friction communicate and interact it takes two to tango and i can only presume that if both cannot be bothered to create the spark there will be no spark 3 love will find a way such a cliché but there s a reason why such clichés exist the boundaries between hollywood love and real live love are being blurred thanks to all these movies hooray now we all stand a chance 4 indifference will soon catch up with you i see a lot of myself in here i often cannot tell when i genuinely like someone or not because of the psychoanalysis that s going on concurrently i have lost the basics of feelings and emotions to a theoretical methodical approach instead i pour scorn on those who love with all their hearts simply because the recoil impact tends to be tremendous my bad 5 women are very much more affected than men jennifer aniston in tears is a moving sight not so drew barrymore and scarlett johansson i m afraid i would suppose there s nothing new to learn about this statement however it s good to remember that men are affected as well they just don t show it a tearing ben affleck would reek of pathetic self pity bad 6 men cannot say no to a woman in this case scarlett johansson women refuse to admit it but if you re decent looking and you chase after a man he s not going to say no unless he 1 is gay 2 is indifferent or 3 thinks you are drop dead fugly however don t be surprised if you are underappreciated it s best not to chase after men rather drop obvious hints and then let men do their own thing even though it may take a while 7 it is smarter for guys to just keep quiet sometimes uh if she asks you for a commitment and you say no she ll cry if you say yes you d better mean it if you say nothing at all she ll still cry but at least your conscience is clear and you ve remained uncommitted as per status quo this is the only time where silence doesn t give consent strange how we bend the rules huh this leads me to the next rather obvious point 8 if you really want to break up you should just say yes let s do it not let s try and work over this without having the intention to do so so obvious yet so hard to put into practice because 1 she s crying and pleading and it s heart wrenching 2 she still looks cute when she s crying 3 you can be sure the next few weeks will be great nice dinners less arguments and mind blowing err interaction you should also do it because it frees you and allows to look elsewhere rather than at a crying heap 9 when a girl takes a break from the relationship its bad news but when a guy takes a break from the relationship it s good news ladies don t want to end a relationship until they ve found another one so they leave men dangling by that thread strange how men never realise they are a backup plan perfectly executed by scarlett johansson in the show men do exactly the same thing however if he s really quite serious about the whole thing he ll try to get through life without her realise he can t then mysteriously reappear as a dishwasher alternatively he ll use his wife as a backup plan take an extended break from his marriage but this will lead to lesson number 1 hmmm i am admittedly undecided on this one 10 don t pressure a guy to marry you he ll do it when he s ready jennifer aniston got it right reverse psychology i can t say it s foolproof but men are sadly a little bit more stupid you just need to give them time women need to understand that commitment is a massive issue for men because 1 his market value would plummet 2 he can t babewatch in the open like he used to 3 he can t say he s single with a clear conscience 11 marriage is not sacred in hollywood it should be in reality you have to be retarded if you don t already know this 12 girls are still attracted to the bad guys i read a thesis on this topic written by a professor in america he claims it is not the badness that attracts them but 1 they see a potential for change 2 they love a challenge 3 they want what they can t have because he s constantly comparing her to jessica alba and telling her she s just not good enough i tend to believe that women love the occasional cry preceding a heartbreak gives them more ammunition to bitch about in reality they are crying because they didn t manage to change the man and this batters their ego 13 if he s just not that into you he s really not that into you and the signs will be crystal clear because men are terrible at small talk they will make polite conversation be gentlemanly and even pay for the meal however their thoughts will be distracted and they will constantly scour the room for other women if you really want to know how much a man is into you observe his eye contact throughout the date he will refrain from looking at an attractive woman to let you know how special he thinks you are here s a big hint for the men on how to appear interested don t say i don t share my secrets 14 a smooth talker isn t so smooth when he really likes someone how true this is displayed perfectly by justin long who stumbles and mumbles his way into love i d like to think i m pretty smooth with the ladies but when it comes to someone i m fond of i just can t string a sentence together and yes it frustrates the living hell out of me however i don t know many women who have had this effect on me makes them so special isn t if only they knew life s a bitch 15 internet dating works as a point of contact but you need to make it happen drew barrymore finds herself the victim of numerous cheating internet partners simply put if something is more difficult to execute the rewards are generally greater internet dating is easy peasy as shit therefore you cannot expect much exclusivity you should not fall into depression because she rejected your offer of a date through facebook sms email you should however if you asked her face to face because that would mean you re really not up to it living in a techno savvy age only makes us hunger for more human interaction so after facebook stalking each other for 2 months pick up the phone and let her hear your voice posted by jon lai at 2 11 pm no comments thursday february 05 2009 torn i ve changed i m turning into the corporate slut the stifling singapore working environment forces you to become i talk about work all the time i no longer ask others how are you rather how s work it infuriates me but increasingly i m becoming one of them sucked into the spiral of unending toil i talk about work but i hate it when others ask me about work i hate it when the first thing i come home someone asks how s work because they don t understand that s the last bloody thing i want to talk about work i don t get adequate quality sleep anymore and i don t get to hang out aimlessly in degraves sipping coffee i don t have meaningful conversations at home any longer because the subject is always centred on what projects i m working on or who i m seeing at the moment speaking of which some of you might have been led to believe i m going to be s e r i o u s in 2009 in truth that statement was made in the light of a spate of weddings it s hard to stomach a past flame married and with a kid no wait a couple of kids it s even harder to swallow the pride trust me hence that position statement was born in a fit of jealously but no no after some good albeit rueful thinking there is little that indicates anything s e r i o u s is going to happen i m not prepared to sacrifice or accommodate now that s not to slam any windows shut no i think you all know me better they say that the workplace should not become a playground for relationships i concur wholeheartedly one of my colleagues stays up late with this girl i can only imagine he fancies helping her and encouraging her all i say is i d i o t get a life you re just a tool somehow you re always able to sense who fancies you whom you can take advantage of and who doesn t and to me that power negates the need for anything serious most people tell me oh you just haven t met the one who truly love that s bullshit akin to praying 24 7 and not studying yet expecting to do well for an exam i ve met several interesting individuals and we might or might not take it from there i ll leave it as that in any case god first career second girl later no money no honey i ve changed i love being a corporate slut because it takes me to where home is it enables me blend in seamlessly with the rest of the workforce i gain great self satisfaction from swaggering around with my suitcase when my friends talk about work i don t have to say oh i m still studying and be ashamed of being a noob ish mature aged student instead i whip out a name card and hear the ooohs and aaahs i m able to afford clothes but more importantly i have an e x c u s e to buy clothes i don t get much sleep but frankly speaking who needs sleep anyway given sufficient ventilation and good music i could work till midnight everyday and claim for time off i don t speak much with my family but i still get the weekends with them if i m not at work i suppose given the current economic situations it s much better to have a job than not to have one i love it that we have prayer meetings every thursday during lunch we sing hymns have a short time of devotion and then pray they speak in tongues but i don t nevertheless it s encouraging to see god working within our practice the workplace is crammed with eye candy edible eye candy ubiquitous relationship opportunities they are all in power suits and capable of intellectual conversation a definite turn on as far as i m concerned 99 999 of them are attached i think but i ll keep my resolution to not dissolve a relationship for as long as possible i m a changed man i ll bide my time and wait for god to provide the right one i know that sooner or later she ll waltz past me and blow me a couple of kisses and we ll both be on cloud nine seeing babes all around makes work so pleasant where else in the world can you de stress within a ten metre radius i ve met several interesting individuals and we might or might not take it from there i ll leave it as that in any case god first get the girl second impress her by being a high flyer no money but at least there s potential s c h i z o p h r e n i c hmmm who shall i be today posted by jon lai at 10 59 am 5 comments saturday may 31 2008 a starbuck lesson oh shit i have to finish 3 essays by tonight aiya okay i m here to encourage you mah i really need to get a h2a average this semester so i can do honours next year don t worry sure can one lah his version of encouragement is yakking to the poor girl who just desperately wants to get her work done turns out that they re from ocf and they ve just met last night talking about chicken rice and chomp chomp doesn t really sound like encouragement to me anyway neither does talking about madonna and her expiry date from what i gather he doesn t have any exams but he s just...