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friend and keep in mind that vanilla folks are not as clueless about kink as we tend to imagine them to be nor as judgmental about it as we tend to fear that they are epilogue of course all of the above are nothing but my own impressions which may well be inaccurate or just plain wrong or only applicable to the munches that i happen to have attended while munches in your area might be different please consider the above as nothing but observations from someone who is not an authority on the subject and do not use them as a substitute for your own judgment meta about this writing this text is an improved version of a text that i wrote many years ago for the greek kinkster community it has been further informed after i attended a few munches in the netherlands the first version in greek was posted in october of 2010 here greekbdsmcommunity com okeanos σχετικά με τις συναντήσεις registration required a second version of the greek text was posted here on fetlife some years ago fetlife com okeanos on munches in greek suggestions for improving any aspect of this text ranging from my use of english to the accuracy of the statements that i make are not just welcome but highly appreciated criticism either constructive or not so constructive is welcome too i have no idea whether someone has already written a text like this i did not do any research before writing it if you know of a text on the same subject please post a link to it if you would like to post a copy of this text somewhere else go ahead and do so a link back would be appreciated but if that would prevent you from copying it then go ahead and copy it without a link back leave a comment posted in english fetlife posts on sadism posted by kyrios okeanos on 2018 10 20 link to original content https fetlife com users 624588 posts 5278268 i am pretty sure there exist many different types of sadism so i cannot speak on behalf of sadists in general i can only speak about the sadist in me who is a rather moderate type of sadist one who is probably not sadistic enough to satisfy the cravings of the more demanding masochists out there i explain all of my expressions of dominance and deviant sexual behavior in general as catering to the primordial beast which lies at the core of many men the alpha ape male from the point of view of genetics humans and apes are very close too close for comfort one could say see https en wikipedia org wiki chimpanzee_genome_pro so there is a lot to learn from them take the modern educated sophisticated refined human being and deconstruct them to their most basic constituents and what you have is a blob of skin flesh and bones that wants nothing but to eat and fuck so as to stay alive and procreate apes have complex social hierarchies where exercise of control primarily in the form of social status but also often in the form of raw physical violence plays a vital role in the distribution of food and mating rights the alpha male asserts his dominance to secure food and sex others from the betas to the omegas engage in acts of submission towards their superiors in the pecking order with the exact same goal to secure food and sex so everything is inextricably associated with control for primates in the state of nature control is the name of the game of course we modern refined humans do not care so much for control in our everyday lives but when it comes to sex which is undeniably a celebration of a certain basic instinct some of us have discovered that by involving more basic instincts in the act we can double the pleasure so we like to mix sex with control we call it bondage they call us perverts sadism to me is a heightened expression of control there is nothing that says i have control over you better than i inflict pain upon you and you take it like the good little bitch that you are you see i may order you to do things and you might obey and in doing so i may feel like i have control but this is a bit too analytical it is only my highest levels of consciousness that feel like i am in control that s because any use of language is inescapably too cerebral on the other hand pain is basic when i hurt you and you are still submitting to me then my inner core knows i am in control that s also why if i hurt you and you start screaming and kicking i am unlikely to find that erotic or in any way pleasant i wrote this after coming across this post masochistic girl oct 26 2017 how does sadism in itself work https fetlife com users 2337698 posts 4719777 leave a comment posted in english fetlife posts on politics posted by kyrios okeanos on 2015 08 26 originally posted here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 3190591 i am a freedom of speech extremist meaning that i believe that it should be fine to even shout fire in a crowded theater this is something i can back up with arguments ask me actually the question was asked and i answered and i posted the answer here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 1839335 politically i am a leftist at heart but it is complicated i do believe in taxing the rich but i also believe that the opportunity to become rich should be available to those who are up to it just not by means of stepping on other people s corpses i believe in welfare and social services but i also believe in privatization and reduced government just not minimal government meaning not all the fucking way as neoliberals would have it so it is quite complicated one thing though is very plain and simple if you identify yourself as a conservative then take my word for it you suck we need a better world and we need it now and in order to achieve this things must not stay the same things must change leave a comment posted in english fetlife on countries posted by kyrios okeanos on 2015 08 26 originally posted here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 3190585 i love greece at about the mildest degree to which someone can love their own country what this means is that i do indeed love greece but i am quick to voice my opposition to patriotism and the illusions of grandeur that it usually stems from your place of birth is purely a matter of chance and it is pointless to be proud of a chance event yes the nature here in greece is beautiful but what role did you play in this the suggestion that your place of birth could conceivably matter in who you are inevitably calls upon the concept of race so patriotism is inextricably racism would all racists please go fuck yourselves thank you the only kind of thing worth being proud of is accomplishments of which modern greeks have very little to show on the contrary modern greeks are internationally either laughed at despised or pitied usually with good reasons in each case so to be proud of being greek today indicates a rather severe disconnect from reality i am also sick and tired of greeks boasting about accomplishments of some largely different set of people who inhabited this land thousands of years ago and i find it ludicrous that the average modern greek who identifies themselves as christian dares to call upon the ancient civilization whenever it suits them given that it was christianity which in fact wiped out almost every trace of the ancient civilization with extreme prejudice get a grip on reality people i got my education in the usa this has undeniably had some impact on my character and my worldviews but you have no idea what that impact was and your assumptions are more likely than not all wrong i enjoy defending the usa when dealing with people who hate the usa as much as i enjoy trashing the usa when dealing with people who love the usa because they usually hate or love the usa for all the wrong reasons while of course i hate it or love it for all the right ones one thing i can tell you is that if usaians vote bernie just once i might be willing to forgive them for having voted bush thrice leave a comment posted in english fetlife on luminous beings posted by kyrios okeanos on 2015 08 26 originally posted here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 3190583 i have very little patience for spiritual mumbo jumbo if you believe in anything supernatural such as astrology fairies miracles prophets saviors gods etc then there is a distinct possibility that you might hear me telling you in no uncertain terms to go get a brain if you also happen to be under the impression that my tax money ought to be subsidizing your delusion then you should consider yourself lucky that insults are the worst that i can deliver to you via tcp ip leave a comment posted in english fetlife on writing posted by kyrios okeanos on 2015 08 26 originally posted here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 3190581 i am a vehement opponent of the practice of writing greek using latin letters it is known as greeklish and i must be allergic to it it goes without saying that if you are into greeklish then i would rather not see anything from you in my inbox but it goes even a bit further than that if i see you writing like this in public there is a possibility that i might join the conversation only to ungrudgingly bestow my scorn upon you yes you have every right to write in whatever way you please and i have every right to mock you no the insults that you received were not unprovoked you see your way of writing was an insult to me first my sentiments are similar towards all those who cannot write a sentence without a spelling mistake and will not use a spelling checker their wretched chatter constitutes pollution of the interwebz and instead of using computers they ought to be milking goats leave a comment posted in english fetlife on fetishism posted by kyrios okeanos on 2015 08 26 originally posted here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 3190578 i believe that it is in the best interest of the fetish community to embrace all sexual orientations and all kinds of perversions this means that the right approach for individuals at least in a social context is tolerance towards everything the fact that your kink is not my kink does not in any way imply that your kink is superior to my kink being into any kind of kink and at the same time disapproving of some other kink is inherently pharisaic claims that there is no true such and such or that the only true such and such is so and so are generally indicative of severe narrow mindedness even worse than that voicing them in a social context is bad for the community as a whole to make it even more plain in case someone failed to understand the reason why we do bdsm is because we are perverts and that s what floats our boat it is not because of some stuck up notion such as male superiority or female superiority attempts to justify one s kink as anything but a perversion by associating it with some supposedly natural tendency are patently stupid from square one because they are tantamount to suggesting that all other kinks are unnatural i find bdsm to be an essential spice of life and i hear it calling my name but i am also perfectly capable of living a more or less normal life enjoying mostly vanilla sex i don t have the time nor the interest to live the so called 24 7 bdsm lifestyle because i also happen to have other interests in life and frankly i do not find it fulfilling enough to be consumed with an activity which a only caters to the senses and b is largely non social of course i am not judging anyone here i am just stating my preferences if the 24 7 lifestyle appeals to you that s wonderful and praiseworthy but as a 24 7 partner i would probably come across as rather uninvolved and bore you silly how would you like being chained to the kitchen sink and being _literally_ forgotten there i find a considerable part of the iconography of bdsm highly stimulating in contrast to vanilla iconography which leaves me indifferent or makes me yawn however i must also say that i find a great deal of the bdsm iconography to be of bad taste and an alarmingly high percentage of it actually makes me want to puke of the three words that constitute the safe sane and consensual motto i think the one understood the least is the sane part again i am not passing judgment here whatever floats your boat as long as you are not harming anyone but i hope you won t mind if i just look the other way okay 1 comment posted in english fetlife on elitism posted by kyrios okeanos on 2015 08 26 originally posted here https fetlife com users 624588 posts 3190573 i am an elitist and not a single day goes by without the whole world giving me plenty of good reasons for continuing to be this way please do not confuse elitist with snob one is an outlook the other is an attitude my attitude is anything but snob as an example of why i am an elitist let me remind you of the recent referendum which was asking the people of ireland whether homosexuals should have the right to marry luckily the outcome of the vote was an overwhelming yes but in a more backwards country like greece or even in a previous decade in ireland the outcome would not have been a yes so my problem with the referendum is this why should the majority ever be asked whether a minority should enjoy a human right humanity is still at such a stage of infancy that the majorities of most countries if asked and out of pure whim would not make the fair and decent decision regarding the human rights of minorities therefore the human rights of minorities need to be looked after by decent human beings in positions of power not by holding public polls it is kind of an awkward moment when you realize that this is elitism i do not enjoy being an elitist i just arrive at it as an inescapable conclusion leave a comment posted in english fetlife post navigation older posts see about page search αναζήτηση search for κατηγορίες bdsmhellas gr 8 collarchat com 1 comments 101 correspondence 1 english 57 facebook 6 fetlife 10 funny 1 german 1 greek 176 greekbdsm com 26 greekbdsmcommunity com 170 music 53 pictures 8 poetry 3 posts 18 videos 2 archives αρχείο archives αρχείο select 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