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ten rightly so but it also can be a time of significant transition to understand these processes looking inward can help us to weigh options on this note william bridges s transitions making sense of life s changes rev ed 2004 may be very useful here s a brief passage people who have discounted or blocked out the inner callings from the future have cut themselves off from the very signals that really vital people use to stay on their paths of their own development it is no wonder that people who have silenced those inner signs find meaningful careers difficult to launch and to maintain or that when they encounter times of transition they are so confused and distressed overall this is a wise and helpful book for those who want to get beyond quick advice and breezy self help manuals it s especially helpful for folks who are transitioning during mid life and beyond and who are eager to think deeply about how they want to create the rest of their lives for those completing degree programs later in life it may carry extra relevance share this print opens in new window print share on facebook opens in new window facebook share on linkedin opens in new window linkedin share on x opens in new window x email a link to a friend opens in new window email like loading trump if you re bullied get over it may 17 2016 by david yamada in politics power abuse in society psychology and work workplace bullying mobbing and abuse tags politics power abuse in society psychology and work workplace bullying mobbing and abuse 11 comments donald trump continues his apparently relentless campaign to prove that he is the most empathy free presidential candidate in u s history during an interview with fox news anchor megyn kelly he shares his view that targets of bullying just have to get over it as reported by the associated press months after he savaged her on twitter and elsewhere donald trump tells fox news anchor megyn kelly that people who are bullied gotta get over it and fight back trump says he s a counterpuncher who goes after people when they go after him only 10 times harder asked if he was ever bullied the republican presidential candidate said no but he said bullying doesn t just happen to children people are bullied when they re 55 he said for the sake of my own sanity i have avoided paying too much attention to trump however i have been well aware of him going back to when i lived in new york city during the greed is good decade of the 1980s it was then that his now familiar displays of narcissism and arrogance became his personal behavioral brand correspondingly i have yet to see evidence of genuine empathy or kindness in the man in a seemingly unprecedented way for a presidential candidate trump is attracting the attention of psychologists who are publicly commenting on what makes him tick in the forthcoming issue of the atlantic psychologist dan p mcadams northwestern u probes the trump psyche and concludes who really is donald trump what s behind the actor s mask i can discern little more than narcissistic motivations and a complementary personal narrative about winning at any cost it is as if trump has invested so much of himself in developing and refining his socially dominant role that he has nothing left over to create a meaningful story for his life or for the nation it is always donald trump playing donald trump fighting to win but never knowing why okay so the race for president is not necessarily about finding a good and kind soul i get that however let s think about the stability of someone who justifies punching back 10 times harder when he feels wronged does this mean that a minor act of military aggression against the u s would in his so called judgment justify a massive retaliatory strike what would it take to provoke him into unleashing america s nuclear arsenal we are frighteningly close to being one november election away from finding out the answers share this print opens in new window print share on facebook opens in new window facebook share on linkedin opens in new window linkedin share on x opens in new window x email a link to a friend opens in new window email like loading are calls for resilience and grit an indirect form of victim shaming blaming may 16 2016 by david yamada in diversity and discrimination power abuse in society psychology and work workplace bullying mobbing and abuse workplace incivility tags diversity and discrimination power abuse in society psychology and work workplace bullying mobbing and abuse workplace incivility 10 comments in december 2015 literary critic and new york times editor parul sehgal questioned the growing chorus of calls for greater resilience and grit on the part of younger folks in a piece for the times sunday magazine she wrote resilience is fleet adaptive pragmatic and it has become an obsession among middle class parents who want to prepare their children to withstand a world that won t always go their way grit a close cousin of resilience has emerged as education s magic mantra a corrective to decades of helicopter parenting but where resilience can suggest new avenues for civic infrastructure admitting that disaster can t always be diverted and shifting the focus to survival strategies it is indistinguishable from classic american bootstrap logic when it is applied to individuals placing all the burden of success and failure on a person s character sehgal examines these calls for resilience in the context of younger folks on college campuses especially when used to counter students concerns about racial ethnic and gender inclusion many critics of these advocacy efforts are suggesting that today s students are too soft and take offense too easily sehgal however suggests that demands for resilience have become a cleverly coded way to shame those speaking out against injustices this debate is likely to become more intense psychologist angela duckworth in her popular book grit the power of passion and perseverance 2016 identifies resilience and other qualities she associates with grit as being keys to success in an interview in the times education life supplement she summons her research to argue that grit is the most significant factor in determining someone s likelihood of success my lab has found that grit beats the pants off i q sat scores physical fitness and a bazillion other measures to help us know in advance which individuals will be successful in some situations duckworth says that once someone identifies an interest or passion they should then pursue it with determination so once you ve fostered an interest then and only then can you do the kind of difficult effortful and sometimes frustrating practice that truly makes you better another thing is really maintaining a sense of hope or resilience even when there are setbacks relationship to workplace bullying mobbing and incivility i m especially interested in this topic because it is very pertinent to how we treat workers one of the most common and misdirected responses to concerns about workplace bullying and mobbing is that many of the targets are softies or weaklings who cannot deal with the normal ups and downs of a job furthermore some confuse work abuse with lesser forms of negative workplace behavior such as incivility and disrespect which may further paint targets of bullying or mobbing as lacking in requisite resilience to deal with everyday work hassles my sense of this first genuine workplace bullying and mobbing are forms of interpersonal abuse not bad manners or even heated arguments and disagreements we need to keep reinforcing the point that work abuse is not about a bad day at the office rough around the edges co workers or generally lousy management second treating others abusively is wrong and that includes workplace settings it doesn t matter if the intended target of that abuse is perceived as being strong weak or somewhere in between third abusers aren t off the hook because they happen to bully or mob folks who are more vulnerable in fact if they abuse someone because they detect a targeted individual s vulnerability that speaks disturbing volumes about their ethics morality and psychological make up fourth most of us stand to benefit by being resilient for all but the rarely blessed life will deliver its share of setbacks disappointments and sometimes hard body blows the better we can process and deal with these ups and downs the better our overall lives will be finally having a greater reserve of resilience and grit can help us to cope with the really bad stuff at work including bullying mobbing and harassment this reserve is not bottomless however as many resilient and gritty individuals have experienced just about everyone has a breaking point and there are countless instances of work abuse that have taken people past it bottom line resilience and grit are good targeted bullying mobbing and abuse are bad let s strive for less interpersonal mistreatment and more individual resilience and let s accord everyone basic dignity while taking more personal and social responsibility for our actions and the state of the world this post was revised in september 2019 and january 2022 free blog subscription for a free subscription to minding the workplace go to follow this blog at the top right of the home page and enter your e mail address share this print opens in new window print share on facebook opens in new window facebook share on linkedin opens in new window linkedin share on x opens in new window x email a link to a friend opens in new window email like loading charging tuition for credit bearing unpaid internships may 14 2016 by david yamada in career planning education and learning internships tags career planning education and learning internships 1 comment i m delighted that washington post reporter danielle douglas gabriel is shining a light on the all too common practice of colleges and universities charging full tuition for unpaid internships that earn academic credit in a front page bottom of the fold story in today s edition she reports on seton hall university new jersey students who are mounting a petition drive calling upon the university to stop charging for internship credits seton hall university senior joshua siegel is among a group of students petitioning the school in south orange n j to stop charging for internship credits it s unfortunate that the school which is not providing the service not facilitating the process not suffering any strain on its resources feels it is owed compensation for me performing a function on my own siegel said the university is responding by saying that the resources invested in overseeing supervising and monitoring internships justify that tuition charges this response echoes what others within the higher education industry are saying in defending this practice true a university expends resources in sponsoring credit earning internship programs however those resources are largely administrative with some faculty oversight that doesn t come close to demanding the time and effort devoted to traditional classroom teaching and evaluation of students i believe that charging some fee for facilitating and overseeing credit earning internships is appropriate but not close to full tuition here s one of my quotes in the washington post article this is a huge ethical issue for universities that they are sneaking under the rug said david yamada director of the new workplace institute at suffolk university law school in boston in this era of skyrocketing student debt the fact that students are probably having to borrow money to do an internship for free is appalling share this print opens in new window print share on facebook opens in new window facebook share on linkedin opens in new window linkedin share on x opens in new window x email a link to a friend opens in new window email like loading post navigation older posts email subscription enter your email address to 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