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owadays all girls get raped yes he bragged to the victim s friend about raping her her boyfriend also joined in what if he hadn t shown the victim s friend and got away with it does this sound like the kind of guy that would post his exploits on redtube would the users of redtube be able to even identify it as rape how many would just keep masturbating how many rapes are posted as amateur porn these are questions we need to be asking 3 comments posted in uncategorized august 22 2011 link roundup by no sugarcoating until i get some new content up i d recommend you all check out these wonderful posts on other feminist blogs i think you will find them very useful in furthering your own understanding of feminism and combating some common defenses red herrings of hardcore porn if you don t like it don t watch it even if i somehow manage to avoid ever seeing porn it is expected that i dress like a porn star wax like a porn star perform in bed like a porn star and fully embrace all of my partner s porn fueled fantasies i am told that if i don t perform to his demands i will be cheated on dumped abused and it will all be my fault i am told that if i refuse to date men who who use porn i will be alone or at best am a controlling bitch and will probably be lied to anyways men explain why they like porn so we don t have to i can t imagine anything more unerotic that porn approved by sour faced feminists what makes porn exciting is the transgressive nature of the acts portrayed the abuse and degradation that women seem to be happy to endure for money we watch porn to live out the fantasies that we cannot actualise does it degrade women of course but not much more than conventional work does transactional models of sexuality are anti sex sex is pleasurable and you can t really argue that nature doesn t actively encourage hedonism even if it is tempered by empathy ergo women have an interest in sex in their own right because done right it feels good there is no reason for men to try to bribe women into sex and in fact a bribe implies that consent is not genuine but you re erasing feminist porn let s get some perspective here huh when someone spends 99 of their time defending 0000001 of an industry while avoiding confronting the 99 9999999 of the industry that has real effects on women s lives that person looks a bit delusional defensive dishonest let it go dude admit that you know porn is bad for women and you use it participate in it or profit from it anyway you aren t fooling anyone here and i doubt that you re even fooling yourself p s i added a few new links check them out anti porn tumblr lots of powerful quotes collected here brave lucky buried alive 2 comments posted in uncategorized august 6 2011 1 in 3 women watch porn by no sugarcoating this is a statistic i see tossed around quite often citing nielsen data while i can t find the actual data that posits that 1 in 3 porn viewers are women all searches seem to point to violet blue in the first three months of 2007 according to nielsen netratings approximately one in three visitors to adult entertainment web sites was female during the same period nearly 13 million american women were checking out porn online at least once each month i m going to assume that she didn t just pull these numbers out of thin air so why do they sound so unbelievable even james deen was shocked i m not old and ugly for the percentage of women interested in porn i m a guy who they would talk to in a bar he says percentage of women like it s a teaspoon of water in the ocean of smut and it occurs to me that he doesn t know how popular he is i tell him that the latest data from nielsen shows that what that s awesome i had no idea it was so high what does this mean do 1 in 3 women really like porn what other explanation could there be the real problem with this data is the conclusions being drawn from it technically i would be one of those women that view porn more than once a month and i hate porn i can honestly say that i still haven t met a woman out in the real world who likes porn i do know a lot of women who have accessed porn at one point or another however some of them look for advice on how to please a man and many more are tracking their partner s online porn use most women at some point of time in their lives will look at porn out of sheer curiosity that s how it started for me keeping this in mind 1 in 3 is not so hard to believe anymore 1 in 3 have viewed porn that doesn t mean they liked it though additionally what adult entertainment websites were covered in this study would playboy com count as a porn site how did they determine the sex of the viewer such as in a multi person household did they record differences in average viewer sex by content 4 comments posted in uncategorized august 6 2011 that s not feminism part 2 by no sugarcoating in the previous post i showed you a pretty appalling comment hookset left in reply to a woman who was trafficked for 13 years here s a recap here s the deal though not one man would ever support human trafficking we oppose more than anything else this article is completely slanted towards women s equality groups trying to bash men as a whole we all know the problems in this industry and we know that the biggest is it s not legalized and kept on the black market for foul play like you ve unfortunately experienced they don t get the solution is to legalize and control it and want to do nothing but keep it illegal they are offering no solution at all other than saying men should change their way which is complete garbage men would protect and make this industry safer than it s ever been if it wasn t for the hard liners using your plight as the propaganda to gain equality go through posts below and you will many other workers who are here by choice and are not exploited one bit trust me you ll get more sympathy from me than these crass ladies below and who wrote this article first i m going to detail the problems in this comment piece by piece he says not one man would ever support human trafficking and yet it is men who force women into sex slavery and men who rape those women because they can t tell the difference between a happy hooker and a trafficking victim or more likely they can tell the difference and don t care it is abundantly clear that hookset is delusional and he also seems to have a narcissist complex common to many punters as you will see later on he hilariously goes on to say the article is biased towards women s equality groups as if that s something to be ashamed of and proceeds to explain to her about how the biggest problem is criminalization which seems to be a bona fide fact in hookset s universe note how he says radical feminists are using her plight which he put in quotation marks because he takes her experiences very seriously he dismisses her perspective and instructs her to instead peruse the comments of more pleasant sex workers this is yet another example of men using the positive women to silence those women who dare express anything negative and is something sex positives need to acknowledge as a problem are you allies to women put your money where your mouth is not one sex worker or sex positive feminist called hookset out for patronizing a trafficking victim not one update 8 05 11 i ve been working on this piece for a while but unfortunately the original comments of the article have since been deleted so i can t continue damn my procrastination if anyone knows how to retrieve a copy of the web page from a few days ago contact me there s so much more that still needs to be covered 1 comment posted in uncategorized july 25 2011 anti porn feminist survey by no sugarcoating an interesting question was posed on the f word k asks i m wondering though what do feminists want out of the porn critique i realise that feminism is not a wholly cohesive unit with a single direction but still what s an approximate or rough kinda outcome you would like to see this got me thinking there are differences of opinion even in the anti porn movement what are the lowest common denominators that unite us these would probably be most representative of the views of the majority of women women unfamiliar with feminism additionally is anything less than total liberation unacceptable or is there a bare minimum that you would be willing to compromise for so i made a short survey to help answer these questions 1 what constitutes pornography 2 what is your ideal outcome of anti porn feminism how would porn change would only softcore playboy etc porn be acceptable or would there be any porn at all 3 do you distinguish porn from erotica if so what constitutes erotica and would this still exist 4 how far are you willing to compromise at least for the time being to get rid of the worst elements of porn or do you think compromise is unacceptable where do you draw the line 3 comments posted in uncategorized july 19 2011 that s not feminism part 1 by no sugarcoating i stumbled upon a new article at newsweek about prostitution the article is written from an abolitionist perspective but there are no mindblowing revelations to be had for anyone well versed in this kind of debate what prompted this post is not the article itself but the comments as usual they re a treasure trove of examples of why sex positive feminists ideas are so unfortunately not feminist this is awful squeezing dubious facts into bad conclusions you ought to be ashamed for conclusion which emerges from malice and contempt bear those ills and spread worse moral degradation than lonely people seeking company ever could don t you know anything about youself newsweek should be ashamed to publish this unbelievable ameican garbage robert macrae well gee it sounds so innocent when you put it like that what about this guy robert the window did not open and the room was very warm and amanda got an attitude about how much i was sweating i wanted to drive my c down her throat until she gagged on it but she insisted on doing it her way certainly not the experience i had been anticipating as i have met with some very charming and accommodating czech and slovakian ladies who have gagged and slurped on my c just a poor lonely fellow i have been working on these issues for almost twenty years i believe ms farley s alleged findings about johns are nothing but manipulated data newsweek made things worse by the dismissive way they treated people such as tracy quan and melissa ditmore i have been communicating with these two bright and courageous women for many years they are credible sources of information farley is not the fact that ms quan can recall a bad experience with a john creates no support for farley s generalizations someone who does another person harm needs to be held accountable in hawaii we had defacto legalization of prostitution from 1932 to 1944 with regulated brothels in the chinatown area military personal lined up every morning to receive sexual services a large portion of all the men who served and died in the pacific during the war may have been customers are we supposed to believe that they were men who wanted to degrade and humiliate women in 1942 prostitutes went on strike against the repressive regulations the police department had established for the brothels after three weeks and with pressure from the military authorities the police acquiesced to most of the worker demands and the strike was settled do slaves go on strike the fact that some women may experience slave like conditions in prostitution is no more an argument for the suppression of that industry than suppressing the cotton industry would have been to end slavery in the antebellum south in every other industry where abuse occurs the fight has been for labor rights it is this fight being waged by quan ditmore and thousands of sex workers internationally that has been treated with dismissal by the newsweek story tracy ryan because being a soldier means you can t be a misogynist this argument is pathetic and basically amounts to if you re against prostitution you re unpatriotic and surprise the male commentators arguing in favor of prostitution chime in with stories of their fathers prostitution escapades while at war hookset contributes this almost adorable passage well can definately say my dad did the same thing while in vietnam i m sure large percentages have done the same thing to find comfort during the greatest horrors of their lives our govenment knew about these things they knew it was good for the men the same government that refuses to let it be legal here in the states ironic yes what s even more even more shameful is that women s right advocacy groups would rather keep it illegal with no way to stop the problem there solution is men should just stop doing what there doing why because if they accept legality then women are now doing a profession they feel degrades all women and doesn t meet there agenda s instead they fight to keep it illegal one man below said something amazing by proposing labor unions which would absolutely improve things and stamp out the problems with trafficking they refuse to believe that an honest man like me exists and that i would do everyting in my power to stop trafficking if i ever saw it and had no legal percussions by reporting it thank god for our vets to bad some groups don t show them the proper respect sounds like such a nice guy right if this is representative of the average john i might have to change mind on some things wait everything in this article is exactly what i saw and experienced during my 13 yrs of being forced into prostitution by a pimp of course at the time i perceived him to be my boyfriend father of my children i am shocked that the writer of this article was able to dig up these truths what man would be willing to admit these things about themselves i am very happy that they are speaking until we can understand what drives these men to buy sex will we ever be able to find a solution for human trafficking i ve always thought more effort needs to be put on the buyer to understand what goes through their mind and what drives them to think the way they do hell they have a pill for depression why not a pill to make men act morally right ok maybe too much to ask for kudos to the writer of this article i appreciate greatly that you wrote this story and are taking the time to dig up the truth it s not ok to buy another human being stand up for what s moral and right wendy barnes here s the deal though not one man would ever support human trafficking we oppose more than anything else this article is completely slanted towards women s equality groups trying to bash men as a whole we all know the problems in this industry and we know that the biggest is it s not legalized and kept on the black market for foul play like you ve unfortunately experienced they don t get the solution is to legalize and control it and want to do nothing but keep it illegal they are offe...