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the polyamorous misanthrope wielding the stick of grandmotherly kindness skip to content the polyamorous misanthrope wielding the stick of grandmotherly kindness menu ask the goddess of java f a q submit a guest column what the heck is all this about menu ask the misanthrope should we break up posted on october 8 2023 october 8 2023 by goddessofjava i m single but i find myself loving a man who is poly he told me on our first conversation that he was poly and i still chose to continue to see him now i love him we have sex and he said it s okay if i have sex with other people but i can t do read more reminder you don t have to do it posted on november 12 2021 november 9 2021 by goddessofjava a friend asked me to repost this i ve been watching on several polyamory boards to see people trying to make themselves okay with being in polyamorous relationships i ve seen descriptions of people feeling like their hearts are being ripped out i ve seen descriptions of people wanting to curl into a ball and cry while their read more yeah i ask this all the time posted on november 2 2020 november 2 2020 by goddessofjava my us readers you know what s on the line if you re on the fence about whether or not to go vote please i m begging you show up vote if you re worried about being harassed at the polls copy down the relevant number for your state but please please vote read more use what you know as a force for good posted on april 7 2020 april 7 2020 by goddessofjava i want everyone who has been practicing polyamory for more than a couple of years to give their lives some thought y all ve been doing safer sex right you all know how disease vectors work if your partner is exposed to an std then you and everyone you re involved with is also exposed right you understand read more ask the misanthrope age gap posted on march 11 2020 march 11 2020 by goddessofjava i find myself struggling with an age gap the gap between my husband of 11yrs together for 20 and myself is not insubstantial he s almost more a contemporary of my parents than my peers though not quite but the gap between him and his girlfriend of 2 years is enough for healthy biological grandparenthood and read more i hate the way my metamour treats my partner posted on january 23 2020 january 23 2020 by goddessofjava what do you do when you hate the way a partner s partner treats them this is a tough one on the one hand you love your partner and of course you want everyone to treat your partner well right on the other hand your partner is a grown ass adult and needs to make their own read more captain awkward writes a great one posted on january 19 2020 january 19 2020 by goddessofjava captain awkward just wrote an amazing article that really analyzes money money inequity and how to deal in partnerships the letter writer has a somewhat unusual situation but wow the analysis really fires on all cylinders it is merciful but still talks about good boundaries please go read partner with lots of expenses and little read more it s not up to you posted on july 16 2019 january 21 2020 by goddessofjava hello my husband and i have been with our partner only about three months she s 21 and lives with family her family is now making her choose whether or not to be with us or them we love her and want her to be with us but i don t feel right asking her to choose read more maybe you re an asshole posted on july 12 2019 july 12 2019 by goddessofjava once again i ve gotten a flood of letters that seem to be on a specific theme been married awhile guy announces he s polyamorous then well emotionally and or physically disappears doesn t hang out with the kids insists the wife entertains other loves because that s how polyamory is done reality check it isn t starts screwing up the read more ask be truthful verify posted on december 15 2018 july 15 2019 by goddessofjava you know how assumptions about what the other person is feeling can be a problem the prince and i have had some of the worst negative emotional escalations because we were reacting to perceived emotional states rather than actual ones i mean really bad potentially relationship ending bad we made a deal about ten years ago read more 1 2 3 4 26 next search for categories ask the misanthrope 67 boundaries 39 communication 58 guest column 14 love 27 parenting 8 poly legalities 4 polyamory 101 28 profiles in polyamory 2 rant 30 relationships 76 safer sex 5 the polyamory community 55 uncategorized 2 recent posts ask the misanthrope should we break up reminder you don t have to do it yeah i ask this all the time use what you know as a force for good ask the misanthrope age gap archives october 2023 november 2021 november 2020 april 2020 march 2020 january 2020 july 2019 december 2018 august 2018 july 2018 october 2017 may 2017 january 2017 december 2016 november 2016 october 2016 september 2016 may 2016 march 2015 january 2015 july 2014 may 2013 april 2013 march 2013 february 2013 january 2013 december 2012 november 2012 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