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gs taking longer if you tell them as soon as possible rather than telling them after an hour sorry that took longer than 45 minutes it s the heads up before the fact that people appreciate this is why phone alarms can be super useful with time blindness michirutenoh apr 7 i found the easiest solution is for me to aim to be early the time is 12 i will be there at 11 30 if i truly am there at 11 30 i always have a book and my laptop and will be able to fill the time without a problem usually what happens is that i am only 10 minutes early so this is a good buffer 1 259 331 puttingherinhistory reblogged dailymanners 2d teaboot oct 20 2022 follow hi i m so sorry i don t mean to embarass you but i think your headphones fell out of your phone it must have happened at the bus stop your phone has just been playing out loud in your hand this whole time and you didn t notice so sorry you must be so embarrassed really i wouldn t have said anything but i know i d be mortified if that happened to me and i didn t notice until i got home or something i d be so self conscious can you imagine people thinking you were being disruptive and obnoxious on purpose haha yeah no worries have a great day 62 26 573 31 699 puttingherinhistory reblogged 2d dailymanners jun 28 2025 follow i am about going to gripe about something that s been really annoying me lately first let me start with a disclaimer that i am speaking generally here of course both the u s and europe are both massive and diverse places containing hundreds of millions of people and a lot of regional differences neither the u s or europe are a monolith although a lot of people on the internet speak of both places as a monolith which i wish people would stop doing since neither are i could be wrong about this since i don t live in the u s and haven t visited everywhere in europe but between where i have visited in the u s and where i have visited lived in europe and from what i know from my friends in the u s and friends in other european countries i get the feeling that overall the u s has stricter disability access laws than a lot of places in europe do especially in regard to building codes of course there are exceptions i know new york city is abhorrently hostile in its design towards anyone elderly and or disabled although when i visited new york city it really just felt on par with a lot of major european cities with how abhorrently inaccessible it was one example of this is that recently i saw a reddit discussion where a usamerican vacationing in france was surprised at how many staircases didn t have handrails because according to this man handrails are required by law in the u s the comments were all europeans having an absolute field day with this pretty much all of the comments were some variation of i can t believe americans are too stupid and lazy to use the stairs without a handrail what s wrong with you fat lazy stupid americans that you can t even use stairs without a handrail thank god i was born in europe where i was just taught how to walk up and down the stairs on my own and don t need a handrail like a lazy fat stupid american a few people tried to gently point out that this was about accessibility for elderly and disabled people and it s not cool to laugh at building codes that are about accessibility but those commenters were usually shut down with some variation of yeah well in my european country if someone is disabled or becomes elderly we either move to a more accessible building or we modify our home to be more accessible we don t sit around whining like a bunch of americans that our building isn t already accessible which is such a cruel way to talk about accessibility why wouldn t disabled and elderly people deserve the same access to a building as anyone else are elderly and disabled people not allowed to visit friends and family anyone could get hit by a car today and after that struggle with going up and down stairs without the use of a handrail for the next several months years possibly the rest of your life it s so easy to feel smug when you can easily trot up and down the stairs without a handrail but so cruel to be unwilling to consider anyone who struggles with stairs should maybe be allowed access to the same places as you honestly when i go on vacation abroad with my elderly disabled mother it s often easier to go to the u s with her than other places in europe because the u s does tend to be more accessible in my experience and except for new york city ofc making going around to different public places with my mom generally a lot easier than somewhere like france or the netherlands out of all the things you could clown on the u s about why you gotta go for accessibility of all things it s disgustingly ableist and ageist and i have to wonder if these people actually just hate disabled people accessible design and are using the u s as an excuse to hate on disabled people and accessible design raincitygirl76 aug 6 2025 i m a canadian our disability access is probably better than much of europe although i haven t visited a lot of different european countries but it s definitely worse than the usa the usa has something called the americans with disabilites act ada and apparently it works fairly well an american in my whatsapp group went to a figure skating championship in toronto a while back and was stunned that the arena didn t have wheelchair access for spectators because an american arena would have not everything about the usa is awful not everything about canada and europe is great also i live in vancouver we didn t have a subway system until 1986 that s when the skytrain was finally built several of the skytrain stations were originally built with no elevators people with wheelchairs were expected to enter or exit the system at a different station that did have wheelchair access in 1986 the system wasn t built in 1896 or 1926 when wheelchairs were a newfangled idea it was built in 1986 british columbian rick hansen s man in motion world wheelchair tour started in 1985 in vancouver or well the skytrain was opened in 1986 let s say the plans for it were finalized by 1983 since it would ve taken a few years to build in 1983 there was already a substantial disability rights movement in canada but several skytrain stations didn t have elevators anyway presumably because it was cheaper naturally it eventually became politically unacceptable to make wheelchair users and people with strollers and people with canes or walkers and people with suitcases skip a station because they hadn t bothered to put an elevator in that station so those stations had to be retrofitted at vast expense to make them wheelchair accessible it probably would ve been cheaper to just build them accessible from the start in retrospect but we didn t have a made in canada version of the ada so it didn t happen also wheelchair accessibility does not only help wheelchair users it also helps people with babies or toddlers in strollers people using walkers crutches or canes travellers with heavy suitcases elderly people etc etc i take the skytrain several days a week and i see all those people taking the elevator instead of the stairs or escalators rick hansen wikipedia rick hansen wikipedia en m wikipedia org lastoneout nov 24 2025 you know i m really not used to being grateful to live in the us especially now but uh huh jesus fucking christ penrosesun dec 4 2025 also bluntly clowning on the usa for having comparatively good disability rights is spitting in the face of all of the disabled activists who made that happen the usa didn t just wake up with the ada one day and we sure as fuck didn t just up and decide to enact it become so many of our non disabled citizens were lazy and fat the fight for the ada was long and bitter and every single line of it is thanks to decades tireless activism work evangelical religious groups widely opposed the ada because they believed that disability and especially particularly disabling conditions such as being hiv was god s will and wanted disabled people to be reliant on religious charity most large corporations and business interest groups opposed the ada because complying with accessibility requirements might hurt their bottom line the us chamber of commerce came out swinging against it the national federation of independent business called it a disaster for small business and fear mongered about it shutting down mom pop shops and throwing hard working american out of work greyhound bus lines literally testified before congress that they were so concerned about the costs of requiring disability accommodations that they believed that passing the ada would be tantamount to denying all rural people access to any buses because apparently having to install a few fold out ramps and fold up seats would instantly bankrupt every extant bus company the bill was trapped in limbo for months it looked hopeless a lot of people thought it couldn t happen that the lobbies against disability rights and the disabled were simply too strong and in response hundreds of disabled protesters showed up in washington dc and crawled up the steps of the capitol the iconic civil rights protest you don t know american experience pbs meet the protesters who crawled their way into history and changed how all americans live pbs org how dare anyone call the usa lazy for our disability rights laws we had second graders with cerebral palsy drag themselves up 100 stone steps in order to win those rights get the word out lazy out of your fucking mouthes lanthir dec 4 2025 most of the pictures i have seen of the capitol crawl protest are in black and white which is bizarre because it happened in 1990 here s a couple pics in full colour dailymanners dec 5 2025 really good info but also there s a huge hole here shit in europe is way older some buildings are genuinely impossible to retrofit a lot of people just dont wanna bother not saying this is ok i really noticed the abhorrent accessibility in stratford upon avon but there was a distinct difference between the newly built areas and old stuff that s not a hole because i don t think the age difference is relevant to what i was talking about in the original post since this post has taken off and gained a lot of traction i get multiple notes a day pointing out the age difference between the buildings in europe vs the u s but the age difference in the buildings was never the point at least in my original post i can t control what others add on the rancidly ableist fatphobic ageist attitudes of many europeans was the point the point was that a u s american can t politely say wow it sure is different not seeing so many staircases with handrails guess you guys just have to be more careful over here haha without dozens of europeans gleefully jumping at the opportunity to say fat lazy stupid and then when it s gently pointed out that handrails are for accessibility not a fat lazy stupid thing the very same europeans will just dig their heels in and say well europeans don t need accessibility because we re not a bunch of whiny fat stupid americans we re too smart and fit to need accessibility over here without bothering to stop and think how horrifically ableist they sound while asserting that i can t control what people add on but that pervasive attitude of europeans pointing and laughing at accessibility in the u s as a fat lazy stupid thing that europeans are too smart and fit to need was all i was trying to talk about in my original post and age difference between the buildings doesn t excuse that attitude besides europe isn t a monolith so the generalization that buildings in europe are older doesn t apply to all of europe in iceland most of our buildings are the same age or younger than most buildings in the u s before wwii our population was less than a third of what it is today and most of that population was poor sheep farmers living in flimsy wooden farmhouses out in the countryside that often aren t still standing today so like the u s most of our buildings are quite new and despite this our accessibility is often quite bad because it s never really been a priority jackironsides apr 4 the reason most of the photos people have seen of that protest are in black and white despite its recency is because they would have been taken for printed newspapers you get a better photo with better contrast if you re printing in black and white if you take the photo with black and white film than you do if you turn a colour photo into black and white after the fact end lesson from my photography for writers and journalists teacher 123 6 917 7 425 puttingherinhistory reblogged 3d puttingherinhistory sep 22 2023 follow i will never ever understand why anyone would want to make another human being upset on purpose i never have and never will understand the appeal of getting a rise out of another human being i will never understand why some people find joy or amusement over another human being s suffering and distress and the fact that this behavior is so widely acceptable and tolerated really is the root of so so many problems sexual assault and abuse wouldn t be so rampant if this behavior wasn t so socially acceptable you can t change my mind today s he s just trying to get a rise out of you because he thinks it s fun to make you upset but it s not a big deal and it s completely harmless that he likes to make you upset for fun is tomorrow s rapist and or abuser dailymanners mar 20 and then it like somehow switches to you being in the wrong for being upset or something like you re just making a fuss about nothing like damn how dare i get upset when someone is making me upset on purpose how come when i try and do anything about it suddenly everyone s preaching about being the bigger person or whatever and just letting them get away with it i ve never understood this and the most insidious part of it is how this dynamic the person being tormented is in trouble for getting upset while the tormentee doesn t face any consequences at all seems to be most common in children or more specifically how adult caregivers manage these situations with children what a horrible message to send to children no wonder victim blaming is so prevalent in our society inthereellife apr 7 the other thing i hear is if person has a problem they can say something for themselves or this attitude of stepping in when you see disrespectful behavior is disrespectful to the person being targeted because you re acting like they need rescuing and that feels like an excuse honestly it feels like an excuse to let the tormenter get away with it while still putting the onus on the targeted person to stand up for themselves while also judging them if they do and also it s harder for the person being targeted to stand up for themselves not just for those reason but because they re being targeted they have to put all this effort into handling themselves and their reaction that ma...