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concept awesome skip to content concept awesome menu home contact coming out in ten vignettes this post has been cross posted to the asexual agenda this post was originally posted on tumblr content notes discussion of bad coming out experiences including being outed and harassment 1 the first time someone comes out to me i m 16 we re talking about i honestly don t remember he says i think i might be bisexual and i have a moment of pure elation followed by one of pure panic i m not alone but also unless i say something he ll think he s alone i don t want to say anything because i ve never told anyone before in the end my desire to be a good friend wins out i think i might be bisexual too i say i m not but i don t know that yet continue reading coming out in ten vignettes queenieofaces academia coming out queer ace queer futurity leave a comment october 12 2018 december 15 2018 4 minutes asexuality as a hard limit or the cat is dead this post has been cross posted to the asexual agenda this post was originally posted on tumblr content warnings discussion of abuse with a few examples given including one having to do with food restriction and boundary violation discussion of anti sex averse sentiment mention of sexual violence animal death in the context of a metaphor in the past few months i ve seen a lot of posts in ace communities stating that asexuality has nothing to do with whether you want or like sex this isn t a new assertion but it is one that often makes me uncomfortable for reasons that are hard to explain however recently talia wrote a post using schrödinger s cat as a metaphor for how we should approach aces attitudes toward sex and i finally figured out how to verbalize my discomfort the assertion that asexuality has nothing to do with whether you want or like sex is uncomfortable to me because i specifically identify as asexual because i don t want sex asexuality for me is a hard limit continue reading asexuality as a hard limit or the cat is dead queenieofaces language and definitions sex aversion sexual violence leave a comment september 15 2018 december 15 2018 12 minutes in which queenie finally stops stalling and buys a suit so my friend d is getting married next month and i m in her bridal party when she first asked me to be in her bridal party the first thing she said was you obviously don t have to wear a dress so i ve known for a while that i needed to get a suit but i ve been procrastinating on it because a i wanted a men s suit b clothes shopping generally makes me pretty anxious and even more so if i have to actually speak to people which suit shopping unfortunately does necessitate and c i have the supremely unlucky combo of very wide hips being a teeny tiny person women s xs shirts are often too big for me which makes finding clothes a little bit a nightmare anyway i asked a couple of trans friends in japan since i figured that stores that are friendly to trans folks are more likely to be friendly to gender non conforming folks in general and did some poking around the internet and the recommendation pretty much across the board was to go to aoyama 洋服の青山 so today i went to aoyama and got a suit continue reading in which queenie finally stops stalling and buys a suit queenieofaces personal leave a comment june 17 2018 december 15 2018 2 minutes obligatory blog post vi obligation goes to college a very tiny update to say that concept awesome is officially 6 years old holy cow i ve been at this for a while some notable things i ve written this year on being unrequited to build an unimaginable future or queenie is way too jazzed about queer futurity when did you know teeny tiny ace validation linkspam thanks for sticking around for 6 years folks here s to a good year seven queenieofaces linkspam the state of the blog leave a comment may 13 2018 december 15 2018 1 minute tokyo pride obligatory snap of my pride outfit this year i left all my pride gear in the states so i had to make do bowtie from subtle stitchery button from rainbow reel tokyo and flag from stonewall japan tokyo pride was fun i didn t get to see as much of it as i wanted or march in the parade because of an injury but i did get to hang out with ace spec japan queenieofaces activism in actuality personal leave a comment may 6 2018 december 15 2018 1 minute アセクシュアルオフ会 aceadmiral said how was the convo it was good i did surprisingly okay despite being a non native speaker and not necessarily knowing a lot of specialized vocabulary there were a lot of folks who had realized that they were ace fairly recently and a lot of people for whom this was only their first or second meetup so most of the conversation was pretty 101 but someone asked about the future so i got to be too jazzed about queer futurity in japanese and we talked about the differences between being ace in the us and in japan and there were 80 people in that room which is probably the most aces i ve ever been a single place with queenieofaces activism in actuality personal uncategorized leave a comment may 6 2018 december 15 2018 1 minute アセクシュアルオフ会 i went to an asexual オフ会 more or less a meetup hosted by にじいろ学校 today queerascat and i were at the table devoted to discussing 海外でのアセクシュアルの事情について the state of asexuality overseas it was a ton of fun アセクシュアルオフ会の皆さん お疲れ様です ３時間日本語でアセクシュアルについて話し合うのは言語的に難しかったですけど 非常に楽しかったです これからもよろしくお願いします queenieofaces activism in actuality japan personal leave a comment may 5 2018 december 15 2018 1 minute re queer futurity over emotional robot said i m still reading this post but queenie you re not handing out some dollar store keychain flashlights your body of writing is an industrial strengh spotlight queenie how could you almost make me cry at work about a gum commercial this is honestly one of the sweetest things someone has ever said about my writing but since i am wildly awkward at accepting compliments i present you instead with this meme queenieofaces queer futurity leave a comment may 1 2018 december 15 2018 1 minute to build an unimaginable future or queenie is way too jazzed about queer futurity this post has been cross posted to the asexual agenda it was originally posted on tumblr this post was written for the april 2018 carnival of aces on all the birds but us in typical queenie fashion i m getting this in at the last possible second but if you can type at supersonic speeds consider writing a submission as well content warnings spoilers for a movie that came out in 1939 some pessimistic talk about the future and trauma in spring of 2014 i was assigned a portion of lee edelman s no future for a class i hated it i hated it so much in fact that i vagueblogged about how much i hated it i hated it so much that i decided that i was going to prove lee edelman wrong with every part of my existence like many things that i start as semi jokes it very quickly became not so much a joke as a way for me to conceptualize why what i was doing mattered yeah this is it this is the post where i finally talk about queer futurity continue reading to build an unimaginable future or queenie is way too jazzed about queer futurity queenieofaces carnival of aces submissions queer ace queer futurity leave a comment april 30 2018 december 15 2018 8 minutes some acefic recs you can blame aceadmiral for every part of this a couple of notes on these because it s physically impossible for me to not give commentary continue reading some acefic recs queenieofaces asexuality in fiction 1 comment november 24 2017 december 15 2018 4 minutes posts navigation older posts create a free website or blog at wordpress com subscribe subscribed concept awesome sign me up already have a wordpress com account log in now privacy concept awesome subscribe subscribed sign up log in report this content view site in reader manage subscriptions collapse this bar loading comments write a comment email required name required website design a site like this with wordpress com get started