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quenby writes queer creative writing about queer progressive horny things quenbycreatives on twitter skip to content quenby writes queer creative writing about queer progressive horny things quenbycreatives on twitter menu expanded collapsed home contact featured redirect i m no l onger blogging at this address to check out my new posts head over to my new website posted by quenbywrites august 1 2020 posted in reflections tags blogging leave a comment on redirect trans joy bikini cw partial nudity discussion of fatphobia transphobia trans joy is a blog series celebrating the positive side of trans experiences in an attempt to bring some balance to contemporary trans discourses this week i m talking about my first bikini continue reading trans joy bikini posted by quenbywrites july 28 2020 posted in gender lgbt reflections trans joy tags body positivity gender gender euphoria lgbt queer reflections trans trans tuesdays 1 comment on trans joy bikini twinkle twinkle little twink i wrote a very nsfw rhyme dedicated to my handsome boyfriend ️ continue reading twinkle twinkle little twink posted by quenbywrites july 25 2020 posted in erotica lgbt poetry tags erotica lgbt love poetry queer 1 comment on twinkle twinkle little twink trans joy lingerie cw discussion of kink trans joy is a blog series celebrating the positive side of trans experiences in an attempt to bring some balance to contemporary trans discourses this week i m talking about lingerie continue reading trans joy lingerie posted by quenbywrites july 21 2020 july 21 2020 posted in bdsm gender lgbt reflections trans joy tags bdsm beauty kink lgbt lingerie queer reflections trans 2 comments on trans joy lingerie pea slut cw food this week s sinful sunday photo and haiku are based on a god awful pun and no i m not even a little bit sorry continue reading pea slut posted by quenbywrites july 18 2020 posted in comedy erotica food poetry tags comedy erotica food haiku poetry sinful sunday 3 comments on pea slut coming out and what comes next for those of you who don t know today 14th july is international non binary day it also marks 2 years since i came out as non binary on social media i think it s fair to say that since then i ve been pretty open about being trans i already produced a video for today in collaboration with non binary leeds talking about passing and trans hypervisibility but for this blog i wanted to share something more personal lets talk about coming out i first came out to my parents as bisexual almost 7 years ago i knew i wouldn t be chucked out of the house but i was still scared the result was not the immediate acceptance and support i hoped for the acceptance was hesitant and my relationship with them grew strained a little over 2 years ago i came out to my parents again this time as non binary and again things got a little strained i should be clear that i recognise that many queer people are far less lucky than me i m not writing this to seek pity often coming out is ironically treated in binary terms you come out and either you are supported or you face bigotry but that s not where the story ends hannah gadsby talks about how the stories we tell can shape our memories and in turn our memories shape the way we view the world so lets tell this story right i came out and it wasn t perfect i came out and my parents found it hard i came out and i was still loved all of these things are true what comes next matters too because in the moment i came out my parents were unprepared they didn t understand or know the affirmation i needed to hear from them because they are human and therefore imperfect but they are also able to change and guided by their love for me they have changed over the years they ve become more accepting of my queerness and better educated about it and they aren t perfect sometimes they still get my pronouns wrong or use my old name there s still more for them to learn and unlearn about my transness simple stories are compelling but they limit what we see i want to make space for complexity because my parents cannot be reduced to a single moment of surprise i accept their imperfect acceptance of my queerness and trust that the love they hold for me will guide them to a better understanding coming out stories are important but the immediate response isn t the only thing that matters let s make space for complex imperfect human stories and where there is love and a willingness to learn let s make space for us to grow p s i ve talked a lot about making space to improve understanding and accept imperfection this was right for me because my family were and still are willing to learn and grow their love for me wins out over any doubts or hesitancy they might hold if that s not the case for anyone reading this then it is not your duty to compromise who you are giving space only works if they re prepared to learn and if they aren t then sometimes it is best to break contact posted by quenbywrites july 14 2020 july 14 2020 posted in gender lgbt reflections uncategorized tags bisexual coming out gender lgbt non binary queer reflections trans trans tuesdays leave a comment on coming out and what comes next vulnerable cw nudity this week for sinful sunday i m sharing a picture which makes me feel a little vulnerable i was relaxing in the bath and took a few pictures initially i posed with my wineglass over my cock it was nicely composed cute and just the right amount of elegance mixed in with the filth it was a good photo but it wasn t honest i have a complex relationship with my dick both because of intermittent dysphoria around it and the body shaming which is frequently aimed at small cocks but i don t want to let that anxiety control me i don t want the internalised body image issues to win posting this was a little bit scary it felt exposing in ways nudity normally doesn t for me but if it s not challenging if it s not honest then what s the point of sharing it sinful sunday is run by the wonderful molly moore click the link for more sins posted by quenbywrites july 11 2020 posted in art erotica gender reflections self acceptance tags art body image erotica nudity reflections self acceptance sinful sunday 6 comments on vulnerable the stares return cw transphobia street harassment in the last couple of weeks the uk has started to unwind lockdown a fucking stupid idea but that s not the point of this post i live near the city centre so food shopping involves going through town and on top of the anxiety from so many people not wearing masks i ve got another problem the stares are back for 2 months nobody yelled at me while walking down the street nobody pointed and laughed at me for what i was wearing and i was less afraid of getting attacked and now with the reckless drive to return to normal street harassment is coming back along with clothes shopping and pubs it hit me harder than i expected facing a hundred stares after 2 months without continuous desensitisation posted by quenbywrites july 7 2020 posted in gender lgbt reflections tags lgbt queer reflections street harassment trans trans tuesdays transphobia 1 comment on the stares return trans in comedy cw discussion of transphobia and sexual assault for my trans tuesday post this week i talked to some of my fellow comedians to talk about being trans in the comedy industry this article brings together several peoples experiences within the comedy industry and have an honest discussion about what its like it s worth noting that i ve only spoken to trans people who are still working in the industry its possible that other trans people have left the industry because they ve had worse experiences than us with thanks to red redmond jonny collins harry anne bentley darcie silver and ben hodge y all should check them out and give them work the overall impression is that while there are some people in the industry who are actively shitty about trans people they are relatively few and far between red summed this up as it can be hard to be a trans person in our society but the comedy scene is no worse than most places ben and darcie did talk about how audiences have doubted their identities due to a level of passing privilege and jonny mentioned that they ve been misgendered by mcs and other acts while working but in general the picture painted by these interviews is at worst one of ignorance and mistakes rather than hatred and persecution more issues started coming up when the conversations moved on to talk about material most of the people i spoke with talked about getting pigeonholed as a trans comedian darcie in particular spoke about the expectations placed on her to speak about being trans as part of the comedy i know that when i perform i feel the need to address my genderqueerness so it doesn t loom unsaid over my set and when you do talk about transness on stage it can restrict a career red pointed to the lack of diversity in the bbc and other big platforms suggesting a glass ceiling restricting how high trans people are allowed to rise in this industry and to succeed on more mainstream bills you have to prepare for a less supportive audience and you might end up having to explain your identity before you can joke about it perhaps the biggest issue though is the transphobic jokes we have to put up with it can be exhausting and degrading to have to listen to jokes which punch down at trans people in the words of jonny prioritizing your own sense of humour over the feelings and safety of others is a huge red flag when it comes to accountability in comedy these jokes are of course shaped by the culture we draw from harry anne argues that it feeds through from sitcoms which have treated transness as a punchline for decades to comedians like ricky gervais to club comics drawing on it as a lazy punchline without thinking about how it affects real people ben also pointed out that it s very different when trans people make jokes about our experiences saying that i m talking from my life experience and about the things i go through on a daily basis and in some ways it s a bit of a coping mechanism whereas when cis people make these jokes it tends to laugh at us as something inferior and of course this ties into the exhaustively and exhaustingly debated question of free speech vs inclusivity in comedy i don t really want to dive into this debate right now because oh my god it s fucking endless if you re interested i ve written about it before here and here looking forward i asked what we d like to see change for trans people in the industry darcie and red are optimistic as red puts it we ve already won the culture war most people accept us for who we are what we re seeing is transphobes getting increasingly desperate ben and others pointed to the prevalence of transphobic jokes as a sign that we still have work to do harry and red also spoke about a need for more opportunities for trans people and more diversity in general for more prestigious work while jonny argues that people need to put more work in to make events inclusive as they put it it s all well and good me saying book more trans people but the fact is you have to make your gig somewhere that a trans person would want to be first in the light of recent discussions around sexual assault in the comedy industry red also suggested that we should use more inclusive language to empower survivors of all genders to speak out about their experiences i also asked each of them what advice they would give to an aspiring trans comedian please join us we d love to have more representation the industry is hard work and between hecklers and industry bitchiness it can be painful you need to be reasonably tough to survive research the gigs you apply for and find queer friendly nights that s a good place to get started to start with you probably won t be confident being yourself on stage but your act will be so much stronger when you can be honest this industry can be brutal and demoralising at times find friends to support one another through the bullshit i don t think for this community is actively transphobic most people in industry don t have an issue with trans people on a personal level there is still work to be done to make it a more inclusive and welcoming place for trans people but that s true for society as a whole the bigger issue is the content which is performed by comedians the same people who are polite and tolerant of us in the green room all too often go on stage to make jokes which dehumanise us and use trans people for a cheap punchline i have so many trans friends who don t watch comedy because it s painful to see your identity humiliated onstage like this part of what s driving this is the use free speech as an excuse to make bigoted jokes the other side of it is that there are trends in comedy as there are in anything else the recent popularity of transphobic jokes in mainstream comedy filters down through the industry and normalises these harmful messages and perhaps part of the solution is to introduce more diversity at the top of the industry posted by quenbywrites june 30 2020 june 30 2020 posted in comedy gender lgbt reflections tags comedy lgbt reflections trans trans tuesdays transphobia 1 comment on trans in comedy queering attraction cw discussion of bodies for my final pride month post i ve written some poetry about beauty standards and queering attraction fuck sleek hourglass silhouettes or a flawless face i want squishy bellies and stretch marks big boobs small boobs one of each thick thighs and epic ass rough hands rubbing scarred skin body hair and pimpled skin crooked teeth in a warm smile scruffy hair chaotic curls undercuts and bare scalps small dicks girl dicks fat pussies and boyholes i want to kiss back and calves and feet and show i adore your every single inch i want the bits we re told to hate and people who fuck with those ideals so say fuck you to beauty standards and lets queer attraction ne rainbow apart is a queer blogging meme run throughout june by the wonderful mxnillin click on the picture to see other posts ️ posted by quenbywrites june 29 2020 posted in feminism gender lgbt reflections self acceptance tags beauty body image fat feminism lgbt poetry queer reflections self acceptance 1 comment on queering attraction posts pagination 1 2 3 16 older posts quenby writes blog at wordpress com subscribe subscribed quenby writes join 197 other subscribers sign me up already have a wordpress com account log in now privacy quenby writes subscribe subscribed sign up log in report this content view site in reader manage subscriptions collapse this bar loading comments write a comment email required name required website design a site like this with wordpress com get started