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world of redheadedness skip to main skip to sidebar welcome to the world of redheadedness followers powered by blogger saturday 10 december 2011 the aftermath of needsititis i did it i bought couches correction i bought a couch and 2 chairs they are neither chocolate brown nor leather however they are sage green and microsuede which i find as a colour slightly more calming and as a material a whole lot more cuddly they more than likely will not survive more than 3 years but i have accepted this and moved on from it like a good little furniture purchaser i sprayed the couch and chairs down with that fabric protector stuff two nights in a row desperately hoping it will keep the jam fingers at bay and here is a peek annnnnnnd mucho bettero than shudder so the bubonic plague couches have not yet been destroyed i am not sure when we will be burning them or if we even will be but i can assure you that if we do there will be photos i will be acquiring a few new peices here and there to add to the country ness of the room as it just is not quite country enough for me yet its a coming posted by redheadedness at 10 14 3 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest text a holic vs autocorrect good morning steve jobs way up there in the sky i d first like to thank you for like the most bestest greaterest invention ev er the iphone without it i surely would not have made it this far in life and taht last line was completely serious i have a nasty bad habit of random texting it s chronic it s hilarious it s occasionally not met with the same enthusiasm by the receiving party raspberries to them i say if you are reading this and you have received more than one single text message from myself you will know exactly what it is i am talking about actual conversation me i hate mondays unnamed friend but it s saturday me fully aware but tomorrow is sunday and the following day is monday i was just thinking about how much i hate mondays unnamed friend have you ever been tested actual conversation 2 me epic fail putting the open chocolate bar between my legs while i drive multiple unnamed friends lol me attention this is the captain speaking we ve run out of coke and me mateys are quite parched unnamed male friend what the hell are you talking about who is the captain what does parched mean where are you me do you consider yourself pretty cuz you better be with that brain so anyway as the queen of random i take pride in my ability to completely confuse the common man with my moment to moment randomness it catches people off guard and the wonderful thing about texting is that you cannot actually hear the person so texts are completely devoid of human emotion or tone excellent the same two texts could be read completely different ways such as this one me they arrested her mom mom why would they arrest her mom i thought it was her that did it me they arrested her mom mom oooooh ok moms are great texters here s a hilarious little screenshot of an actual conversation with my mom to tell you the truth i felt really bad but to tell you another truth i laughed out loud when i realized what had transpired im evil like that oh and then there is the autocorrect function i really don t know where i would be today without autocorrect it has supplied me with endless amounts of entertainment and honestly that s good stuff does anyone else have such wicked bad texting issues i really don t think its possible that there is another me or worse than me floating around out there although i would love to meet said person so in conclusion i thank all of you receivers of randomness for not just going ahead and blocking my number and putting up with all of my pointless texts and updates through out the day and thank you auto correct for endless laughs and thank you iphone for confusing the crap out of me thank you steve jobs posted by redheadedness at 08 51 0 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest thursday 1 december 2011 bad case of needsititis so i woke up this morning thinking to myself that i really need new furniture my living room furniture is ghastly and im quite sure that if i didn t lysol it every day we would all be infected with the bubonic plague it s old it s dirty it s had it s day over and over and over again it has cuddled babies toddlers and 5 year olds as well as adults who just really wanted to fall asleep watching that darn movie it s seen more than it s fair share of spills and smears and im quite sure that if i was to explore beyond the visible reaches of the upholstery i would see years and years of accumulated goldfish crackers chocolate chips and the occasional butt end of a peanut butter and jam sandwich it pains me it really does that i infact need to say goodbye to the old couches of yesteryear and say hello to bonded leather it s wipeable it s fashionable and it s chocolate brown it s happiness in a sofa plain and simple it has taken me a looooooong time to finally get off my wallet and make the move but i think it will be a good one i might actually stay home once in a while but this brings me to my new issue new couches hooray but how about that 1992 tube tv that i am going to be watching from said couches is it time to part with that as well can i wait a few months how about till boxing day probably not i have a bad case of needsititis which is an acute onset swelling of the needsit portion of the brain it can feel like it is a chronic issue however if you push through the pain the swelling eventually subsides and you become ok with your life the way it is materialistically speaking so while in all of this it sounds as though i have major entitlement issues don t we all i really just needed yes needed new furniture i could go through the list of justifications starting with 1 i have icky sticky 2 year olds two of them 2 leather wipes easy 3 leather looks pretty 4 they re chocolate brown 5 i got a smokin deal on them 6 my life has been so chaotic that i believe i do deserve a comfy place to rest and my boat bed just ain t the place 7 i m a big girl and i am in control i will update with photos before and afters of the living room before and afters of the couches and during the burning er cremation of bubonic plague couches posted by redheadedness at 22 19 3 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest wednesday 23 november 2011 true colours a wise man once told a friend of mine if someone shows you their true colours don t second guess them take them for what they are holy hell has that changed my outlook this week in a huge way i ve always been the one to say that s not really them or they re so sweet 75 of the time the other 25 i can deal with after this past week i think it s safe to say i will not be colour blind anymore j i saw some pretty awful true colors from quite a few people and i am happy to say i have deleted their information from my iphone so there is no going back because we all know that i live by my iphone and it doesn t matter if i wrote it down somewhere if it s not in my iphone it does not exist take that as far as i go im going to work on owning my true colours and letting them shine i have neglected myself over these past few years and i am making a pre new year resolution to love myself oh and i got new boots let the colours shine on posted by redheadedness at 10 49 0 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest monday 7 november 2011 acceptance if there is one value i hope to instill in my children more than any other it would be acceptance without acceptance of any amount i think the world would be a whole lot scarier i m not blind to the fact that there is a severe lacking in the acceptance department by humanity as a whole but i believe that at a fundamental level acceptance is a learned skill it is not one that you are born with but rather taught to you at an early age and formed and molded throughout your years like many other things if acceptance is not a cornerstone in your parenting your children will not have the self image and self respect required to make the life journey without getting all technical mumbo jumbo on you i will try to explain my point of view if a child is not taught that it is ok to be different from others they will not only bully other children but will have internal thoughs of disrespect towards themselves for example if billy s different because he s bigger than the rest of the kids then i must be different because i m one of the smaller this seems to me to be one of the more crucial errors we as parents make children are not deaf they hear us talking amongst other parents about these types of things they hear our views and adopt them as our own this is what i like to call parenting fail and i m no angel let it be known with this in mind think of how well they hear and see us as parents talking to or about each other we all to often forget through our adaptation to spoken language that as a species our initial language was body language we don t always realize that what we say with our bodies speaks volumes more than what we say with our tongue do as i say and not as i do is garbage our children are much more basic than we are they are still learning and developing their language and are basically programmed to read our body language before they re able to fully understand our spoken language if we teach our children to accept love we must teach them what an acceptable measure of love is we must teach them that love is a gift that is given much like trust love can easily be broken and without proper care and attention love will not heal properly accepting broken love is not acceptable does this make sense our kids know when we are hurting they see it in our faces in the way we carry our bodies as well as in the tone of our voice we are unknowingly teaching our children it is acceptable to feel the way we feel we are teachers they are students and we are teaching them to accept our acceptance of something unacceptable i know it may sound as though i am putting my jaded attitude towards love and marriage onto my children but it was gonna happen anyway atleast in this way it is a gentle approach posted by redheadedness at 18 42 0 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest a continuation after my blog post yesterday i thought of a few things i really felt i needed to add my cup wasn t always empty alot of credit is owed to ben for filling my cup alot of the time but it was a slow decline in volume and eventually i realised that my glass was empty about 80 of the time and i m sure i was to blame for his being empty too second the outpouring of comments from my friend s and family in regards to this post actually filled my cup up yesterday so i must say thank you posted by redheadedness at 16 10 0 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest sunday 6 november 2011 the bottom of my wine glass i ve done some soul searching over the past few months and have learned a few new things about myself and about others it seems as though so many of us are searching for the same thing someone to love and be loved by someone to cherish and be cherished by someone to serve and be served by and someone to be there in the thick of it all it doesn t seem like it should be so hard does it they are very simple values they seem attainable you see the young couples with the smiles and soft words between them and you see the happiness in the eyes of the seniors who have been with their love for 65 years or more my beliefs and values have changed with the rolling tides of my life battered and beaten by angry storms my heart has ached and felt the excruciating crushing pain of loss glowing with pride and joy my heart has pounded with excitement and love i knew so early on in my relationship with ben that we would get married and have a family i knew with all my heart that he was the man for me i knew we would be the ones who would make it through the brutal storms i knew it i knew i knew it until one day i became confused and not in a brown shoes or black shoes sorta way in a deep contorted dark and twisty kind of way the kind of confusion that makes you start to question your own sanity your own clarity and your own worth do i love him enough to stay do i hate him enough to go at first it was easy to stuff the questions back down into that dark and twisty place and close the door and lock it and throw away the key but like edgar allan poe s tell tale heart i couldn t ignore them they pulsed and surged and throbbed in my mind and as much as it hurt to think about them i finally stopped denying myself that oppurtunity it didn t take long before my heart took over and decided for me i had to leave the choice i made did not make me a bad person i see many other couples struggling to survive but out of fear of judgement and rumors they stay they stay in pain and in anguish which only grows heavier and heavier every day the pain is visible on their faces and the anguish evident in their eyes i chose what i chose based on my own beliefs and values i believe i am worth more and deserve more and i value my own self image and self worth far too much to allow it to disintegrate the more you deny yourself the chances to be happy the more hurt you feel you hope and pray and tell yourself it will all work out and that you re just going through a rough patch which understandably is very common and true with many relationships there are always ups and downs however if the ups don t cancel out the downs you end up with a negative balance at the end of it and i m pretty sure we re all on the same page as far as negative bad positive good or so i hope anyhow marriage should be a give and take relationship you give you take yes it is true that you should give more than you take because otherwise it would be selfish however if one person is consistently giving of themselves and not getting enough in return they will feel as if they are slowly emptying picture a cup for example ok ok a wine glass i will fill my wine glass with wine i then take that wine and pour half into my husbands cup i pour some in my children s cups relax its a metaphor oh and some in my mother and father s and stepmother s cup and my sister and brother s cup oh and friends pour some in the work cup as well because no matter what i do i can t get away from that one at the end of the day i have little more than a sip of wine left in my cup which unless it is replaced will not be enough to stretch to do it all again the following day and in your marriage the one person who should help fill that cup is your husband or your wife unfortunately i was leaning more on my family and friend s to fill my cup than i was on my husbad my cup was nearly perpetually empty no one likes an empty cup everyone hates an empty wineglass so i have decided while staring throu...