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i lack nothing stark they them theirs next home message author recs tags beta work archive theme five thousand loaves of bread dear autistics who white low support needs not need 24 7 support can work independently can pay taxes language privileged intellectual cognitive privileged who can fit in societal definition of useful productive yes even if hard when fight back against eugenics ableism you need to fight alongside fight with n fight for autistics who racialized poc from places of world where there critically lack autism knowledge n support visibly autistic higher support needs need 24 7 care can t work independently or even work at all can t pay taxes nonverbal nonspeaking minimally verbal without functional communication or cannot communicate via language at all even aac w intellectual disability or cognitive disabilities who cannot fit into society definition of useful n productive no matter how hard we try because we always are always will be primary target because we most vulnerable most marginalized within our our community which you belong in because once they finish us off you won t be spared 23642 1 day ago on 18 may 2026 via seananmcguire maxpawb it s scary to be transgender in the world right now but if you re transgender i love you and we have to stick together and keep fighting and keep living and keep loving 93935 2 days ago on 17 may 2026 via soursorrel bonyfish perhaps the greatest photo i ve taken of my cat radish 1602 3 days ago on 16 may 2026 via the ballad of serenity frightfullytreeish reblog to slowblink at your mutuals 118737 5 days ago on 13 may 2026 via soursorrel sweatermuppet i hate that inactivity decays things just stay the same until i get back 25224 6 days ago on 12 may 2026 via soursorrel livebloggingmydescentintomadness djklmnx source photo transcription how to have a hard conversation 1 remember showing up imperfectly is better than not showing up at all avoiding the hard conversations ensures comfort confronting them invites growth which do you value more 2 define key terms being discussed in the hard conversation if your partner isn t texting you enough what does enough mean to you how do they define it if it s regarding you performance at work how does you boss define productivity often our conflicts are fueled by miscommunication more than anything else 3 replace judgment with curiosity curiosity turns an argument into a conversation instead of rushing to make your point urge for more clarification replace rebuttals with i want to fully understand can you explain that to me a bit more 4 allow room for silence even if it s uncomfortable silence to process is better than speaking just to speak this also gives the other person the opportunity to fully finish their thought 5 if you re feeling yourself getting defensive ask yourself what is this bringing up for me what is my ego fear telling me right now is it true sometimes we project our own hurt into a conversation punishing the person that isn t even the real source of our frustration 6 when it s your turn to respond acknowledge the points you agree with just as much as the ones you disagree with find the important similarities between your perspectives when possible perhaps you want the same things but have different ways of going about it 7 rephrase what the person said to make sure you fully understood something like what i m hearing is ______ then allow the other person to confirm or correct any misconceptions 8 know when you need to check out of a hard conversation if the person you re talking to is not making an effort to hear you or making you feel small step away a simple i m not feeling heard right now i need to step away or revisit this conversation another time can suffice 9 remember sometimes the hard conversation needs to start with yourself what are you feeling what are your opinions on the matter at hand how are you biased what are your blindspots how do you want to be a better person to others to yourself end photo transcription 66750 1 week ago on 11 may 2026 via anneapocalypse marypsue arthistoryfeed detail of a fruit bearing tree from the great palace mosaics culture early byzantine date c 6th century ad justinian i era medium floor mosaic featuring limestone terracotta and glass tesserae collection great palace mosaic museum istanbul turkey photo licensed by me i dunno man do you ever get emotional about how much art you get to see when this was new the only people who would ever see it were the people who walked past for most of human history this has been true you can only see great art if you go to where it lives if you are lucky there will be great art where you live and beauty will be your neighbor but even if so that s only one kind one small collection of one single branch in the endless waving rhizomatic tree of artistic development you will see the kind of art that is made in your region and perhaps sometimes a traveler will bring in something wild and strange with unexpected colors and lines and such an alien composition and it will take your breath away not merely with its beauty but with its unassailable foreignness but now now we live in an age of marvels i have seen these curling byzantine vines i have seen the upturned roofs of chinese pagodas i have seen the searing brilliant color of andean weaving i have seen so much more of the world than i could ever walk to on my own two feet beauty is everywhere everywhere and i am everywhere too transported there by that beauty it s enough to make a man weep via aethersea 2268 1 week ago on 10 may 2026 via amuseoffyre it s almost midnight so if there are better words idk them but like those tags are part of why im a librarian all books ive read all books ive handed to others all books ive seen in passing while shelving or cataloging or mending they re all so much more of the world than id ever see if i had to pay or even if i stuck to my sff comfort zone and every time i get to share info a book an article a search strategy etc someone else gets to see a bit more of the massive tree of beauty and life and the world and i fucking love that sealedbeastnue what time is it you ask i pull out my 2 7 metric ton granite sundial and immediately crush both of your feet i loudly announce it is cloudy 256399 1 week ago on 10 may 2026 via the ballad of serenity classique forgottenbones alt 35377 1 week ago on 09 may 2026 via soursorrel patchespaints i am obsessed with how my cats look in webcam night vision 24x36 white muslin whole cloth free motion quilting with pieced border black jaquard textile paint thinned with aloe vera gel 2298 1 week ago on 09 may 2026 via copperbadge quilted