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s to another year of that mom parts two and one here and here posted by the schmoes at 4 10 pm 7 comments 1 15 2013 the birth of maggie jane it s been three weeks since you came three weeks full of yawns and cuddles and shuffling around the house half blissed out half delirious any coherent thoughts that form rise and then burst like bubbles just before i can get them out of my mouth sleep deprivation is in full swing it s the reason i washed stella s cinderella dress with our towels and now we all look like we ve been glitter bombed after we dry off and the reason i walk around and forget where i m going and why and how i managed to misplace no less than ten things before noon today but girl you have been so worth it your silly faces are sweeter than sleep and somehow the memory of your birth has remained unscathed in my postpartum fog brain it was a day i hope i will never forget as long as i live my eyes shot open around 5 30am i felt different in my body somehow like something had shifted like something was starting and then i felt that first contraction it was unmistakable a feeling that i had forgotten about but remembered as soon as i felt it again i laid so still heart pumping fast instantly energized thinking please let this be it please let this be it not only was i so excited to meet you but you were getting so heavy and strong and i was ready to get you out of my belly that is a gross understatement i think i could write a book on submitting to the lord s will and timing after surviving those last few weeks of pregnancy they were not very fun not very fun ha understatement i watched the sky go from black to orange behind the blinds i let an hour pass and six or seven good contractions before i sat up and woke your daddy saying praise the lord i m finally in labor we spent the next hour in bed giggling like little school girls all wrapped up in blankets guessing how long this was going to take and if you were going to look like me or him and if you d be a girl or a boy like we were all convinced of right now as i type this you are laying on a pillow in my lap wearing pajamas that say mommy s little man if that tells you how convinced i was sorry about that and about the pajamas everything else is dirty and hey you can t read yet when stella woke up we went downstairs and made waffles with strawberries and whipped cream a favorite around here we didn t want her to know that today was the day anxiety makes her wet her pants and get clingy which wasn t hard to conceal because i wasn t in very much pain the contractions were starting to get closer together though so i snuck upstairs to make some phone calls first i called diane the midwife whose excitement made me feel giddy all over again she said to call her back when they were coming every 3 4 minutes and lasting at least 45 seconds then i called aunt erin who had offered to come and pick stella up when i went into labor she said she d be there around 10 to take her on a little play date with all of the cousins then i called ne and papa to tell them the good news ne was sick with the flu and showed up a little bit later sporting a surgical mask she said she wouldn t miss it for the world and i felt so much safer having her here papa was really nervous about us having you at home instead of at the hospital but he came over too to show us support and to help your dad give me a priesthood blessing your dad was cool as a cucumber and gave us a very spirit filled blessing of comfort and protection i felt so much peace not an ounce of fear which was an answer to my many many repeated prayers once erin and stella were gone we got to work washing the sheets and getting the bed ready first our good sheets then a waterproof cover then the cheap sheets we cleaned up the dishes and got in the shower whenever a contraction would come i would yell start and your daddy would time it using an app on his phone they were about a minute long now and coming every three minutes i got out of the shower and called diane again she said she d leave right away and i remember thinking i hope she takes her time because even though the contractions were long and frequent they didn t hurt as much as i d remembered diane showed up around 12 30 with shannon her nurse and michaela the midwife in training they got to work setting up equipment checking heart rates blood pressure temperature and checking my progress 7cm at that point everyone including me seemed surprised that i was that far along and still feeling so good when i was 7cm in labor with stella i was huffing and puffing like the big bad wolf this was going so much more smoothly already it was a cold windy afternoon and your dad made a fire downstairs for us to lounge around while we ate lunch my water hadn t broken yet so i was kneeling on some folded up towels just in case i had my back to the fire and ne was holding hot washcloths dipped in lavender oil on my lower back which felt like heaven we all talked and ate and told stories and laughed i was starting to feel things intensifying so we decided to move the party upstairs the sun was coming through the back windows of the bedroom casting large rectangular patches of light onto the floor i picked a sunny spot near the window and dug my toes into the warm carpet i held onto the side of the crib and swayed my hips back and forth during each contraction trying to relax myself completely first my forehead and jaw then my neck and shoulders then my chest and arms and finally my lower belly and hips i could feel myself tensing up in response to the pain but as i consciously released my muscles i felt the most incredible surges of endorphins swimming through my body it became so intoxicating i found myself wanting more contractions because i knew they d be followed by another wave of endorphins i watched the sunlight through my eyelids and swayed back and forth and smiled i couldn t tell you how long i stayed like that but at some point diane asked if i wanted to be checked again i did and climbed onto the bed she said i was 10cm and 100 effaced my water still hadn t broken but she asked if i wanted to try to push you out i said sure i guess this was new for me the last time i went through this my body pushed the baby out all on its own the only way i can describe it is a reverse vomit where it felt like all of my muscles pushed downward violently at the same time and i couldn t have stopped them if i tried but this time i was laying on my back and when a contraction came i would push as hard as i could i could feel you coming down as i did but as soon as the contraction was over i could feel you get sucked back up into my belly i kept at it for a while and started to get really tired i decided to have diane break my water so we could get this show on the road she did and immediately i felt that crazy urge to reverse vomit i flipped over onto my hands and knees and holding your daddy s hands really tight i let my body take over and when i say take over i mean take over the sounds that came out of my mouth were akin to a wild jungle animal maybe like a lion roaring as he rips into a gazelle or something it was completely involuntary and hilarious and if i wasn t otherwise occupied i think i would have stopped to have a good fat laugh every contraction made my body squeeze you out a little further like a tube of toothpaste after a few pushes i heard diane say one more and your baby will be here i waited what seemed like an hour for the next contraction to come and felt you slide right out that feeling it is the mother of all sweet relief i wanted to collapse into the pillows and cry for joy but before i could they passed you like a little football right up through my legs and i was staring down at your tiny face while you cried and cried and cried your daddy pressed his forehead against mine and said it s a girl and i said no way and we laughed and cried and laughed some more you were here maggie jane posted by the schmoes at 11 00 pm 11 comments 1 01 2013 adios 2012 happy new year to all of you from us video by nathan posted by the schmoes at 9 35 am 1 comment 9 06 2012 tiny dancer in a crazed effort to turn her into the woman i wish i was i signed stella up for ballet classes and although she undeniably prefers dragons cowboys witches and the like to the typical little girl obsessions she loves it on tuesday mornings her smile is a little bigger and her morning chatter is dripping with extra exuberance she lets me wet and brush her hair with unusual compliance she recites her ballet rules from her car seat don t be a shy girl be a super good listener do everything my teacher says she skips her way up the stairs and greets everyone with the obnoxious salutation hi guys i look so pretty from the observer s window i watch her enthusiasm quickly turn to brow furrowing focus the moment class begins watching a two year old learning how to do ballet bears a striking resemblance to a baby animal teetering on its legs for the first time there is an element of sublime cuteness in the which you find yourself making involuntary cooing noises coupled with that almost uncontrollable urge to rush out and lend a steadying hand the child looking around puzzled at all of these adults wondering for the first time how in the world everybody got so coordinated sticking her little tongue out in fierce concentration as she searches her brain for the control switch to move a certain limb in that certain way and beaming with pride when she gets it all figured out i can t help but see myself in the bewildered face of my little girl a young mom navigating these waters of early parenthood looking around at everyone else thinking i m going to have the only kid that still wets her pants in high school relentlessly second guessing my intuition my mothering abilities my reactions to things instead of wishing it were otherwise i m trying to relish these moments of raw insecurity enjoying this slice of humble pie knowing that confidence will someday replace bewilderment the pie will eventually be eaten these feelings of complete vulnerability never last very long but today wobbly as ever posted by the schmoes at 6 16 pm 5 comments 8 27 2012 on birth and hope this morning i was dreaming of my husband in 9 minute increments compulsively hitting the snooze forcing my eyelids closed and summoning all of my brain power to bring his face back into focus these business trips of his are killing me slowly and the short weekends home are finishing me off another monday i will survive our baby is kicking hard now making my whole belly move i sat and watched it for a while before getting out of bed and marveled at the prospect of a new life at how life begins at how this little person unknown to us now will soon have us completely captivated and utterly in love without even trying and how that fact alone gives me hope in the human condition we may be slaughtering each other in syria and dragging each other down like ruthless animals in the political arena but people all around the world today are having babies and loving them hallelujah for that and for all of the other people around the world who are overflowing with love and who wish to have babies to shower it upon but can t for one reason or another hallelujah for that too that love still exists the pure and selfless kind that people freely give and never get back two precious little babies joined our family this past week and for reasons only god can explain one was allowed to live and one was called back home after just two short days it s got me thinking a lot about hope about how underneath all of the religious controversy the who s right and who s wrong the political incorrectness of it all lies the real reason religion exists to give people hope there is a tangible strength that comes with belief real feelings of comfort and an abiding peace that comes from trusting that there are reasons even if we aren t privy to them yet that there is indeed a loving father up there orchestrating this whole life experience someone who has our best interests in mind someone who gives love freely and we can feel it if we just believe many prayers going up for my cousin annie and her family as she buries her sweet little man tomorrow and many prayers of gratitude for another healthy girl born to my sister kami and her husband another monday we are so blessed posted by the schmoes at 2 12 pm 2 comments 8 20 2012 back from the dead i was well into my 20th hour of labor when i heard this voice for the first time it was my own voice but much older more confident calm and self assured the type of voice that you don t question just trust it came at a point when the escalating pain had begun to pop the seams of my concentration i could feel myself on the brink of unraveling completely it said breathe and count so i did and then it said if you can just make it to 20 you ll be fine and when i made it to 20 the pain started to dissipate and with each contraction it would pipe in ok 25 this time with the authority of a football coach and the gentleness of a mother and off i d go a counting on and on for hours until finally finally i heard the cry of a baby and buried my face in my arm and thought holy crap i just survived that i had a similar sentiment pulling into the driveway a couple of weeks ago it was late the end of a summer long road trip across the country and back me my cranky pregnant self and my hyper little two year old stuffed into the back seat of a chevy suburban for days upon days this was completely voluntary and self inflicted and let me tell you what if you would like to know the exact length of your patience rope as they say you should totally give this a try so many hours spent in that back seat thinking i would rather scratch my eyeballs out than play with these dress up doll stickers for one more second and then holding her chubby fingers between mine while she fell asleep thinking what a beautiful vibrant little soul packed into that perfect little body and waking up in a hotel room to the sound of her rummaging through the lollipop bag and i d say stella not right now and then watch the proud look melt off of her face and a loud ugly cry take its place and i d think this is exactly how i wanted to start my day and waking up in another hotel room to the sound of shoes being clapped together inches from my nose i d open one eye and say what in the world are you doing and she d say i just killing a spider or something mom it s freaky and i d roll over and laugh and think thank you god for a two year old in my life it was the ultimate exodus from the warm boring little comfort zone i had nestled myself into and this is what i m all about pushing my limits taking myself to the brink of unraveling breathing through it and emerging a stronger more confident person someday to become that older more self assured version of myself that graciously shows up 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