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fatherhood response ability scribbled insights skip to content scribbled insights menu home fatherhood response ability published on march 29 2018 march 29 2018 by nholie dear son my last letter to you was about fatherhood s two faces responsibility and opportunity to grow i told you that responsibility is about the ability to respond to what s expected of you and then you asked me how in the world are you going to meet the super high unbelievable and most of the time unreasonable expectations of people around you who claim to be your family but actually don t care for you and hannah and your incoming baby two images of fatherhood well my quick answer is a resounding no you don t have to meet their unreasonable uncaring expectations at all but that would be another topic to discuss just ignore them for now what i was talking about was god s expectations from all fathers now that you are going to be a father you need to be aware of these things because after reading this letter you will jump from theory to practice let s begin father s have many responsibilities we will not talk about all of them instead we ll focus on just four basic duties expected of a father protection you are expected to protect your family from all kinds of harm in order to do that you need to assess your environment are they safe from physical emotional mental and spiritual harm physical harm is easy is your house safe from diseases thieves physical pains and unnecessary accidents due to poor household arrangements check it out do a general cleaning if necessary emotional harm how close is your family you and hannah from people who constantly criticise condemn insult and belittle other people including you and hannah if in case you are living among them how do you prevent or at least neutralize those emotional harm that may cause your family unecesasry emotional pain figure it out but don t engage in war mental harm attitude is very crucial to success but it has two characteristics that may cause you problem first it is very contagious second it is difficult to change now if you are surrounded by people with very negative attitude how do you secure your family from being infected because remember once you and your family is infected by the negativity of those around you it would be very difficult to change and go back to your original mental state spiritual harm attitude are just outward manifestation of an inner belief if the people around you do not believe in god or do not believe that there are universal timeless principles that govern us all that may pose problems if they believe that they can control the universe and that they can control you that would be dangerous if your surrounding dont believe in the virtues i taught you virtues like honesty discipline forgiveness patience faith that may create conflict but if their belief is far different from ours don t engage in arguments that won t help at all arguments dont convince people behavior does provision again as humans we have four dimensions body mind heart spirit those four dimensions have different needs the body needs food clothing and shelter the mind needs to learn and satisfy its curiosity the heart needs love and acceptance and the opportunity to love in return the spirit needs meaning that comes from a higher being in our belief system it s god not money and the priveledge to serve other people now as a father to be you need to start thinking how are you going to provide those things directly or inderectly food clothing and a decent shelter is the easiest part but this one requires money mind comes next providing education requires financial sources too but teaching your son the right attitude doesn t require money and that s even more important than any bachelor degrees ms and phds this world can to offer many fail in the heart part have you ever heard of fathers who cant forgive their sons or daughters they failed in the heart part of providing for the family let s continue this in number three below the spiritual dimension is probably the greatest dillema in our society now very very few fathers provide spiritual guidance to their children the world has become too busy that its fathers choose to prioritize money and status above all else when i was younger i also made that mistake to you i prioritized everything else in my life and forgotten what is expected of me as a father now i m catching up i hope i can love encouragement and forgiveness all these three have already become very very rare now in our modern dog eat dog survival of the fittest matira matibay society but these three are essential if your own family cannot find these three in your own home where else can they find them nobody offers them anymore for free well of course there are few exceptions out there but when i say it s very very rare its really very very rare i seee people everyday whose parents cannot offer them love encouragements and forgiveness so these poor people demand those essentials from false friends strangers drugs and alcohol the result chaos pain regret belief foundation did you know that our first image of god comes from our first image of our earthly father yes that s why when you told me few years ago about your doubt on god s existence it almost crashed me because i knew that i failed on this part of my responsibility as a father i was not able to provide you a clear image of god first we fathers do that by setting examples by our behaviors by the choices we make second we reinforce those behaviors with words of explanation if we fail on our examples no amount of explanation will compensate so prepare yourself on how are you going to give david the best image of the invisible god another things is your overall belief system in my 13 years of working with so called leaders i observed that most of them don t have an intact belief system they don t know whether or not to believe that integrity is an imperative in leadership because of that they compromise everytime they are not consistent in their decision making and because they dont know what they believe they don t know how to respond to difficult situations the result people stop trusting them as a father one of your responsibilities is to establish that belief system in your family that is intact a belief system that cannot be esily shattered by arguments and cannot be swayed by painful experiences there are many more responsibilities waitng for you as a father we haven t talked yet about discipline and specific instructions and training and about how to treat your wife we ll get there later for now i want you to begin thinking about these four basic expectations you need to meet if you have noticed i began from the easiest protection part to the most difficult one belief foundation to make it easier for you to apply them the last two responsibilites are just an expansion of the heart and spirit issues in both the protection and provision responsibilities i pray that you find this helpful may god bless you and comfort you and give you streght as you put these teaching into specific observable actions i love you always son pa share this share on x opens in new window x share on facebook opens in new window facebook like loading categories father to be fatherhood open letters parenting to my son tags fatherhood parenting responsibility what matters most post navigation previous 31st week creatively pregnant next 3 day quote challenge day 1 8 thoughts on fatherhood response ability kranti says march 29 2018 at 21 56 you are trying to make your son more responsible by guiding him and at the same time you are sharing your experience awesome dad keep going like liked by 1 person reply nholie says march 29 2018 at 21 58 yep and i think that s part of being a grandpa to guide my son as he becomes a father thanks for the encouragement like liked by 1 person reply kranti says april 2 2018 at 09 54 true no problem i think we all should encourage each other to grow like liked by 1 person kranti says april 14 2018 at 22 50 hi nholie i have nominated you for a challenge 3 day quote challenge please see here https sparkklingthoughts wordpress com 2018 04 14 3 day quote challenge day 1life is precious i hope you are ok with it like liked by 1 person reply nholie says april 15 2018 at 07 03 oh wow what is that okay i m not yet familiar with this but anyway i ll give it a try i ll check it out thank you kranti for the challenge it will surely help me grow while brooding inside my cocoon like liked by 1 person reply kranti says april 15 2018 at 10 05 nholie just go to the shared link and you will know everything about this challenge still if you need any help let me know like like that_crazy_gal says april 18 2018 at 09 11 i never thought of it that way i guess i underappreciate my dad thanks so much for this post like liked by 1 person reply nholie says april 18 2018 at 09 12 you are welcome like like reply leave a comment cancel reply δ search 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