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unity a stronger thought of peace home about kat about the site a stronger thought of peace i charge you all that each one of you concentrate all the thoughts of your heart on love and unity when a thought of war comes oppose it by a stronger thought of peace a thought of hatred must be destroyed by a more powerful thought of love abdu l baha archives for posts with tag unity on reflection gatherings november 12 2017 0 reflection gatherings are one of the most useful tools i know of on this path of service i m on but i didn t always realize it even now i m pretty sure that i only have a tenuous grasp on what they are and have the potential to be since this isn t something that everyone has a lot of experience with i thought i would share what i know about organizing reflection gatherings that are meaningful and successful what is the purpose of a reflection gatherings reflection gatherings are intended to elevate clarify and unify a group s vision of their service they provide a space to think about the progress and challenges that they have experienced in the recent past understand what has been learned see next steps and plan ahead for the future they also provide context for what individuals have been experiencing and learning both through study and through consultation with others first thing to consider who should attend a reflection gathering there are many different types of reflection gatherings all of which draw on a different subset of people perhaps the best known example is the cluster reflection where all those participating in the community building process from a particular geographic area in the us this is usually either several neighboring counties or a metropolitan area gather along with those who are new to the process but would like to learn more about how to become engaged this could include tutors animators children s class teachers hosts of devotional gatherings study circle participants and junior youth local institutions such as assemblies committees and those serving in appointed roles and more some participants might even live outside of the cluster but travel to serve within it especially in early stages of development the main factor is their geographic focus but this isn t the only kind of reflection gathering next week i ll be hosting a children s class teacher reflection for my state participants include anyone teaching assisting with or learning to teach grade 1 2 or 3 of the children s class program of the training institute anywhere in the state of indiana sometimes folks from neighboring states also join and that s not a problem as we ve never run out of room this is a short gathering only three hours or so last week was a gathering for people all over our three state region who are focused on learning about engaging youth and young adults in the main sequence of courses while all of the participants were tutors they had different roles in this particular learning process some mainly tutor those study circles some primarily focus on visiting the families of youth especially those who are younger and are still under the care of their parents some are animators who are working on helping to accompany other youth on this particular path of service but all are committed to continuing the conversation in their own communities and widening the circle of people who are engaged in this area of learning this gathering was just over two days long so you can really have a reflection gathering at any level people who serve one particular neighborhood can benefit from a reflection gathering people who are currently tutoring book 10 of the sequence of courses people who have started a new junior youth group within the last three months second thing to consider what questions are being asked sometimes this is actually the first thing in that case the people coming are whoever is thinking about these questions having particular questions at the center of the gathering gives it purpose aside from just a recitation of recent events in the case of our group focused on youth in study circles we have several questions that we started with at our gathering in august what is the nature of a conversation that attracts young people to join a book 1 study circle what are ways and spaces in which study circles can be formed how can we accompany participants in book 1 immediately into the field of action how can a cadre of tutors support one another in action and learning in november we saw that we needed to focus more tightly for now on the first two questions with an added question of how animators can also serve a role in inspiring youth to become engaged the point here is to show that the questions a gathering is focused on should be few in number specific focused on immediate needs and steps answerable through action and reflection on action a question like how can we have lots of new study circles would be too broad a question like how can every cluster in our region have 50 100 new participants in study circles in the next three months while somewhat more specific doesn t make sense where most clusters in the region have yet to learn how to engage 10 new participants in study circles in a three month cycle how many study circles have taken place in our region over the last year is specific and easily answerable but is rooted in study rather than action and reflection you can see how choosing the right questions can easily make a gathering fruitful and productive or create confusion boredom or despair third thing to consider do you have something on which to reflect there is nothing sadder than a reflection gathering where asked about their experiences there is nothing to share because nobody has been engaged in the process in question more commonly is the situation where everyone has something to reflect on as an individual but the experiences are so scattershot and unrelated to each other that there is not enough experience with any one particular thing to answer any questions about it in this case it can sometimes help to include an experiential portion of the gathering just so that everyone has something pertinent to talk about for example if a children s class teacher gathering is focused on learning about how to effectively describe the nature of the program to parents in order to elicit their support for and reinforcement of the qualities being taught part of the gathering could involve all the participants going out to visit with the parents of children in a local class and speak with them about the program yes this takes a fair bit of organizing the organizer needs to consult with the teachers of the class reach out to the families organize times for them to be visited assemble information and addresses for each family put together pairs or teams arrange transportation for those who need it and then also help to coordinate the collection of information and the organizing of follow up but it s so much more effective than having a theoretical chat with a group of teachers about how they might go about talking with parents should the opportunity arise fourth thing to consider where are you strong if you have a lot of things you could reflect on and are not sure where to focus focus on your strengths where was there the most growth it might feel a little backwards i know my first instinct is always to shore up my weaknesses before anything else but strength builds on strength if your group is fantastic at starting new junior youth groups it s natural to build on that strength and focus on how to expand groups so that they have a sustainable number of participants over time those new and strengthening groups might very well inspire more adults to become engaged in study circles on the other hand to ignore those small new groups in favor of throwing all your effort behind bringing new adults into the process means that the groups continue to form meet for a while and die out within a few months the animators without support eventually become disheartened the adults seeing no long term value to the community fail to become engaged parents having noticed that activities don t last over the long term don t trust the teachers of children s classes to stick around yes i m making all this up but there s a real inertia involved in both growth and stagnation focus on what s already moving and then move on from there fifth thing to consider stop considering and start doing if you re not having reflection gatherings because you re not sure you could do them perfectly just try something truly some of the one s i ve put together over the years have been a mess but they ve always been a net positive experience i ll almost certainly look back over all this advice in a year and be so embarrassed by my lack of understanding that s one of the side effects of blogging i suppose we put things out there whether we re feeling totally prepared or not coordinating is a lot like that too whether you re serving in a formal role or just as one tutor in a group of friends who wants to help make things a little more organized maybe your first gathering is just about learning what you want to learn about and that s totally legitimate as long as you re focused on learning through service and moving forward you re doing it right tags coordination learning reflection service unity categories from life on unity june 24 2013 0 daisy and i walk down the road together there aren t any sidewalks here but people drive slowly knowing there are always children playing in or near the street where are you from daisy asks you mean where was i born yes it s a logical question in a neighborhood like vickery meadow many of the residents are refugees and immigrants from all over the world there are 28 languages spoken in just one square mile it s an amazing little microcosm of the world i was born in america my father and his parents were born in canada and their parents were born in romania where are you from africa how wonderful what country in africa i don t remember we walk a bit further it s 95 degrees outside and both of us are sweating daisy asks do you have a religion yes i m a baha i does that mean you pray to many gods no it means i believe people of all different religions pray to the same god her brother jumps in from behind us do you believe in muhammad i believe in moses and jesus and muhammad and also baha u llah that s what makes me a baha i i believe that people who pray different ways can still love one another like my family my mother is christian and my father is jewish and i m a baha i we re different religions but they are still my family just like you and me we re different religions but we re part of the human family so we still need to love each other and take care of each other daisy again is everybody here a ba who i glance back at the pack of boys and girls following at some distance behind nope just me and nabil there are lots of different religions here isn t that nice we keep walking past neighbors speaking spanish nepali french children chase each other and play basketball babies are fed laundry is hung the sun beats down daisy and i keep moving forward in the heat and the light what else is there to do tags community diversity junior youth group unity categories from life c is for community january 7 2013 0 coherence literally means the quality of sticking together when someone s speech is incoherent the words don t fit with one another in any sensible way in a coherent plan all the parts fit together like pieces of a puzzle nothing can be coherent in isolation there s nothing to stick to a junior youth group on its own is nice it can have tangential effects on the rest of the neighborhood it s a good start but just as it takes a village to raise a child it also take a village to raise well a village and if the junior youth group never talks to the block watch which never talks to the local business owners who never talk to the neighborhood children that ride their bikes up and down the street nice is all that s likely to be accomplished by any of their actions at the same time coherence doesn t mean diffusing your focus so much that you help no one start with small actions but avoid small thinking because the ultimate goal isn t nice it s change and for that to happen we all have to find new ways to stick together photo credit chrisinplymouth via photopin cc tags a is for animator community junior youth group service unity categories from life opting out june 5 2012 0 opting out is how i ve always dealt with stress worried that bully will be valedictorian don t bother doing your homework never going to measure up to your family s musical talent do something else professionally got frizzy hair and big teeth and weird chronic rashes all over your legs wear baggy jeans and shapeless t shirts throw a hissy fit anytime somebody wants to take you shopping for clothes this tactic of pre emptive sour grapes actually does work in a world of competition there s something coldly satisfying about showing a person who s determined to beat you that their efforts are so low on your radar that you couldn t even be bothered to try but what happens in the world of cooperation in a cooperative setting opting out means you fail it means the people who were trying to help you fail it means the cause you believed in together fails and it doesn t make you look too cool for school anymore it makes you look like a jerk developing a culture of cooperation isn t just about learning to work in a group of equals sometimes you re outnumbered and outclassed and you need to know how to move forward without shutting down figuring out how to make that work will help a lot on the road to true community because some of the coolest smartest most talented people in the world are working on this they have bigger audiences and better skills than you are you going to opt out and pretend you don t care about the world around you i hope not the rest of us who stink at this need you with us the grapes are tiny and misshapen but so sweet tags community empowerment habits service unity categories from life search for blog at wordpress com back to the top subscribe subscribed a stronger thought of peace join 59 other subscribers sign me up already have a wordpress com account log in now privacy a stronger thought of peace subscribe subscribed sign up log in report this content view site in reader manage subscriptions collapse this bar loading comments write a comment email required name required website design a site like this with wordpress com get started