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the lost goat the lost goat ever seen a lost goat when a goat thinks it is lost it runs around in a panic screaming madly for the herd i ve seen goats step around the barn lose line of sight on the other goats and run around like this for fifteen minutes before figuring out the herd is only a few feet away the herd ignores the panicked goat entirely unless the lost goat is young enough for its mama to care as a lost goat where better to find other goats than on the seemingly endless plain of the blogosphere i breathlessly await the next post by bayou renaissance man brilliant 20 hours ago a gai shan life good things friday 391 and link love 1 day ago the lawdog files ugh 1 year ago the peripatetic engineer head count 4 years ago serendipity s guide to saving rustic country house bathrooms 6 years ago my 1 2 dozen daily good bye has come 7 years ago a girl and her gun do you even blog 9 years ago 20 year challenge year ten 10 years ago first gen american com babci s new kitchen and kitchen design tips 11 years ago she s a garand gal no one here 11 years ago the insomniac lab rat entitlement and unwanted attention 12 years ago festival of frugality festival of frugality 414 12 years ago hyperbole and a half menace 12 years ago small steps for big change is it easier to save 13 years ago the guild wars chef week 19 guest post drake kabob 13 years ago musings of a midlife mom formerly paid it down just for laughs and giggles 13 years ago journey to reunite two angels quick update 13 years ago catch baby food recipe 14 years ago the munchkin wrangler loading up the digital u haul 14 years ago me in millions i m a homeowner 14 years ago the tao of cow working with nature to make it easier to get where we re going won t go down without a fight 101 centavos cook and play followers blog archive 2012 52 november 1 tamara and also some sweet gear october 5 september 4 june 1 may 1 march 19 february 11 january 10 2011 64 december 4 november 8 july 5 june 7 may 2 april 2 march 1 february 19 january 16 2010 55 december 11 november 1 october 4 september 2 july 4 june 5 may 3 april 3 march 6 february 7 january 9 2009 111 december 16 november 15 october 15 september 18 august 13 july 7 june 11 may 5 april 4 march 4 february 3 2008 11 december 1 november 2 october 1 july 7 friday november 9 2012 tamara and also some sweet gear tamara of view from the porch among other blogs is facing basil cell carcinoma like most self employed people she self insured and this is going to make her come up a bit short the gun blogging community including a girl and bayou renaissance man are asking people to chip in a bit if they can via the tip jar on her website image stolen from brm i m going over now to throw in 5 even though i m unemployed i don t know tam personally but judging from her writing she does not have the safety net that i am lucky enough to have if you have a moment say a prayer for her and drop by her blog to let her know you did so also newbius and life in 3d are doing raffles for those who donate 5 or more click through the links to see the sweet gear that you could win later update up your donation to 5 56 and get a chance to win a viper holster from dragon leatherworks in time for christmas which is super awesome b c if you order one on the website today it won t get here until the middle of january i am very very tempted to donate again b c i would love to give mr goat this holster for christmas if only i had a job even later update for 25 you can enter to win a diamondback with its own holster details here posted by the lost goat at 9 27 am no comments labels philanthropy wednesday october 24 2012 i am worth defending a friends of mine posted this article on facebook yesterday entitled what it s like being a teen girl sic it describes a continuous and rampant pattern of sexual assault that continued through ms wolley s teenage years she says that this behavior was and is unacceptable and i agree but here s where she and i diverge strongly her take on the solution pretty much everything in north american culture tells men and boys that women and girls are there for them so please do us some favours stop telling us that we have to take self defence stop telling us we shouldn t drink or go out at night or on dates stop telling us that we need to be prepared for whatever boys be boys violations come our ways because it s bullshit we don t have to accept this or carry it around in silence start talking with men and boys about the messages they re getting about women and girls tell them that they are not entitled to our bodies no matter what talk to them honestly and comprehensively about sexualization and objectification stop being afraid to talk about boundaries sex and pleasure leaving that to schools the internet and peers is simply not cutting it show them what consent really looks like and this sounds basic but remind them that we re you know people we deserve at least that much in sum women shouldn t have to modify our behavior because the predatory men are in the wrong instead we should engage in dialogue with them to show them the right way to behave here s the problem with this approach predators don t give a shit that we re people too predators are here to take what they can get from you and they don t care how much they hurt you to get it in fact in cases of sexual assault hurting you is part of the enjoyment they derive from it so talking to them about our shared humanity isn t going to cut any ice with them however predators aren t into their own pain and they take great pains to ascertain whether you are a low risk target or not so to decrease your chances of attracting a predator s attention you want to make yourself into as high risk a target as possible additionally you want to keep out of places that predators like to hang out figuring out how to do this in the backbone of a good self defense curriculum is it fair that non predators men and women have to modify their behavior to reduce their chances of being preyed on absolutely not but i think i m more likely to deter a predator with a force equalizer the one i have chosen is a glock 36 than with an appeal to our shared humanity i never had to live with years of sexual assault and for that i am truly grateful i am glad that ms wolley has moved beyond her experiences to acknowledge her self worth i hope that she will someday be able to take the next step and see that self defense is a concrete expression of that worth i am worth it worth the time and the trouble to defend myself against those who take pleasure in my pain and those for whom my pain is merely a means to an end my daughter is worth it too both her time and mine her attention and thought and work my son will learn that women are people too and should be respected accordingly and he will be given the tools to enforce this with regards to himself as well i have important and worthy thins to do in this lifetime to prevent sexual assault i have better things to do with my time than talk to predators if you would like to learn more about self defense with firearms a good resource is http www corneredcat com posted by the lost goat at 8 41 am no comments labels guns self defense friday october 19 2012 resolved no more novels until i get a job so please help me with book suggestions i m having trouble using my time wisely part of the problem is that football continues to have trouble sleeping at night mr goat was staying with her at night and i was supervising during the day but that was leading to me getting nothing done so we ve changed the schedule and now i sleep next to her on the tatami all night rather than on my tempur pedic and try to nap during the day it s not yet a roaring success and my tiredness makes it easy for me to succumb to distraction i ve always had a thing for trashy novels when i was twelve or so my favorite series was mercedes lacey s valdemar series which starts with arrows of the queen and my taste in novels has not improved since then let s just say that if you want any advice on good paranormal erotica i can be your go to girl and with the rise of digital publishing amazon has a practically unending stream of authors writing fantasy sci fi paranormal pulp who will give you their first book free occasionally one is really good the emperor s edge is a good example but mostly i end up with stuff that s just entertaining enough that i don t put it down but not really a fun read however it is an excellent procrastination tool i need to get my life back on track my house is a wreck neither mr goat nor i is bringing in any income unless you count paid surveys and i m exhausted all the time i need to pare things out of my life that suck time and energy and novels look like low hanging fruit i ll miss them as i am in the habit of reading at least 100 pages of literature a day but in their place i hope to add more bible reading i am only about 75 through my bible choice for this year the holy bible english standard version and other inspiring literature i am thinking things like let it go how to stop running the show and start walking in faith which i have pre ordered so i am asking for help do you have any other reading suggestions they need not be religious but i am looking for non fiction that is either helpful with my specific current issues finding a job cleaning a house raising two toddlers one of which doesn t sleep or localvore or pf related posted by the lost goat at 10 32 pm 1 comment friday october 12 2012 bar exam results the bar exam results from the louisiana bar exam in july are up today and i passed not a big surprise but will be a big help in the job search tonight we go to msy to pick up our au pair crossing my fingers that she works out posted by the lost goat at 9 57 am 4 comments wednesday october 10 2012 spoke too soon about life returning to normal have had the most unproductive last couple of days ever and i have a funeral to go to tomorrow for the mother of a friend she was 94 and it wasn t unexpected but it is still hard also the funeral is two hours away so it will eat my entire day friday i don t have child care and i need to put the finishing touches on stuff for the au pair but i am going to sleep now so that i can at least try to do all this stuff with a decent amount of rest posted by the lost goat at 8 49 pm 2 comments tuesday october 9 2012 life beginning to return to normal life has been really boring here and this blog definitely reflects that my mother in law is still here but mr goat thinks we still need her and i trust his judgement mr goat gets better every day i m having trouble getting motivated to do anything even though i have started to have a bit more time my to do list for today is work out consign clothing purchase buttons for a coat which lost one drop coat and buttons off at the seamstress i could mend it myself but i need to actually get it done go to the grocery store doesn t sound like much but i am really having trouble getting started hopefully a workout will kick me into shape posted by the lost goat at 9 36 am no comments wednesday september 26 2012 back update and going forward mr goat s mri came back as well as could possibly be expected yay no surgery so he will probably be able to lift babies in about a month i m trying to figure out what we do in the interim right now my mother in law is in town she lives in college station tx about 6 hours away she has been sleeping on an air mattress in monkey s bedroom every other night and my parents are taking the babies the other nights mostly this weekend my parents are having a ginormous three day party so we ll be doing babies by ourselves all weekend she is a wonderful human being but she has spent her entire life in academia and she has no head whatsoever for efficiency also she has a tendency to mother mr goat like he is about 12 which can cause some friction especially since she is here on our request and she is really helping out a lot i need to think of some way to make this work that does not involve my mother in law living here for another month on october 12 we have an au pair arriving from france i hope that she will be a help but i expect that the first couple of weeks will be a difficult transition for her until then my brother s fiancee helps out where she can to the tune of 30 40 hours a week my parents also help out when they can which includes taking the babies all night 2 or 3 nights a week so i think i can make it work i just have to get through the weekend and get a schedule of assistance put together so i know when i can rest on a total tangent i stopped pumping for monkey and football last week and will be feeding them frozen breast milk for the next month until they reach the one year mark it is so nice to have my body completely back to myself posted by the lost goat at 10 13 pm 4 comments older posts home subscribe to posts atom i joined the 10 pound challenge hosted by newlyweds 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