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and accepted posts of leadership in the church he paid his bills never smoked or drank and to my knowledge was never unfaithful to his wife that s a lot to say about a father so he was flawed but i could have done far worse in the luck of the draw but on father s day when we re celebrating fathers i don t hear enough celebration of the privileges of being a father and the terror i m a father times five three genetic offspring and two step kids who have most generously and marvelously adopted me as an additional father and i wouldn t take anything for the privilege i didn t have much of a hand in rearing them but i was smart enough to marry their mother and they have open heartedly let me into their family not every man gets to be a father but we who do learn things and find joys that we could never experience in any other way during president kennedy s time in office he and jackie lost a baby to hyaline membrane disease i was blessedly unaware later when our third child was born with respiratory distress syndrome that that was essentially the same thing we did not lose her but my memory is that at the press conference after the baby died the president said apparently paraphrasing francis bacon having children is giving hostages to fate the chilling reality of that quote has struck me many times through the years becoming a parent means putting out there into the world people who are part of our very selves flesh of our flesh bone of our bones and we are finally powerless no matter how hard we try to protect them from the dangers of the world and sometimes even from ourselves what happens to them happens to us and nothing can stop that but oh the joys of being a proud parent about which so many volumes have been written all three of my children finished college degrees one of them with high honors three of my five children are parents and i ve told them both that they are better parents than i was how gratifying is that and all seven of their children are people i m proud to know and to claim as kin it s often been said that children don t come with a manual and we don t have to have a license so far to become a parent we have less formal training for parenthood than we do for driving a car it s a gigantic undertaking and nobody gets it completely right it s always a dizzying blend of euphoria and worry pride and terror fun and guilt in the picture of dorian gray oscar wilde said children begin by loving their parents as they grow older they judge them sometimes they forgive them every parent needs forgiveness from their children for the things we did wrong for the things we failed to do for the things we failed to understand for the times when we put ourselves ahead of our sacred duties as parents the lucky ones among us get that forgiveness so on this father s day i want to say a huge thanks to all five of my kids for the joys and the privileges of being their father i want to ask them once more for forgiveness for my shortcomings and i want to tell them how proud i am of every one of them without them i would never have known the rich joys of fatherhood posted by ralph milligan at 8 43 am 3 comments tuesday june 12 2012 the dogs of war a cherished old friend recently sent me the following e mail us navy carrier no wonder the iranians want this vessel out of the persian gulf this is a great example of technology teamwork and strength in action this is impressive go for the ride just click here http www dump com 2011 04 16 one us aircraft carrier has a more powerful air force than 70 of all countries video if you don t want to watch the video right now it s enough to know that it s a ten minute discovery channel video showing an american aircraft carrier in action it s a very impressive display of hardware and skill and as the captain says during the video that one aircraft carrier has a larger and more powerful air force than 70 of the countries in the world it brought back memories for three years i lived within a few hundred yards of what was then lakehurst naval air station in new jersey also incidentally the site of the famed von hindenberg disaster in 1937 one of the benefits of having the nas nearby was that we merited a yearly visit from the famed navy stunt flying team the blue angels they put on a performance every year that was breathtaking and i always looked forward to it it was not just grandstanding having such powerful machines moving at such speeds so close together and so close to the ground posed real risks and once in a while one of the pilots died in what was clearly a noncombat situation so the navy had obviously calculated that the risks involved were justified by the positive visibility they gave to the u s navy before the civilian population and i assume the base personnel as well but as i watched with awe and admiration the beauty of these huge and powerful warplanes i couldn t help being aware that this display was not why they were designed built and purchased these were war planes designed both to kill and destroy and also to make clear to the world that they were ready and able to kill and destroy and i wondered over and over at the irony that some of the most beautiful machines built in the history of the world were built for purpose of killing and destruction missiles drones helicopters there is a great deal of military hardware that carries the same paradox esthetically beautiful but designed primarily to be deadly to human life and property what i thought many times as i watched the blue angels perform was that i would have liked to have seen an additional show after the first one i wished just one of the blue angels fully armed could designate a nearby hillside as its target and allow us to see what a single plane and a single pilot could do to a small town or village i imagine that it would have been terrifying not the sort of impression the navy might want to leave with the civilian population though perhaps far more accurate as a representation of what those planes were americans are incredibly good at building and operating gadgets especially big military gadgets among the best in the world it s a skill in which we can justifiably take pride and that ability has had a significant impact on the history of the world the aircraft carrier astonishing as it is is just one facet of american military power and we civilians never even quite know all the dimensions of the power that has been built and is being operated in our name but it s also quite clear that we tend to be far better at designing and building the gadgets than we are at dealing with the ethical dilemmas posed by having them the possession of power always always always changes things and the decisions regarding whether to do the things we are capable of doing is for all of us full of pitfalls and temptations if we are unhappy with a small country or even a larger one somewhere and we know that one of the solutions is simply to bomb it into submission that inevitably raises the question of whether that is the wisest solution to the problem and the decision never rests and should not with the american citizenry it rests with our leaders military and civilian who bring their particular information wisdom and ethics to the table my point is a simple one having this much power at our disposal means almost inevitably that at some points it will be used in ways that are less than wise there will be times when wiser voices would point to the actual and lasting costs of using military power as the solution to the problem and to the wisdom of working harder to find other solutions before resorting to that one those voices are not always listened to so when we re confronted with a video hymn of praise for american military technology or a bumper sticker appealing to me to support our troops it s appropriate to remain aware of the dangers posed to us by our very possession of this much power and it s appropriate always to support our troops by doing all we can to ensure that they are never sent into harm s way unless it s as clear as possible that no less destructive an option can be acceptable the availability of a military solution to international attention must never cause us to forget the price to us of using that power we must always be cautious careful and when we unleash the dogs of war do so with foreboding and regret not just punitive rage to do less means that we have forgotten what war really is posted by ralph milligan at 12 11 pm 4 comments monday march 12 2012 magic 3 12 12 my second entry is a day late apologies if someone was paying attention since i m just beginning this work and have much to learn about how to do it well i want to note that this will probably not be the place to come for facts in a way that s a pity because facts are much harder to come by and opinions are a dime a dozen nonetheless not all opinions are created equal and not all opinions are labeled as such what i will pledge is to keep my opinions 1 honestly labeled as what they are 2 as sweet spirited as possible not nasty or attacking 3 based on available facts as much as possible and 4 the best insight i have to offer my experience suggests that there are those who will value these contributions even with my limitations a note i have no interest in hosting an open debate in which every angry attack or uninformed knee jerk rant is granted equal space there are places where you can do that i do want to be welcoming to all who want to discuss these subjects especially those who disagree with me if you want to contribute but find it difficult please let me know that s why i set up milliganblog gmail com to ensure that anyone who wants to get in touch on one of these subjects is able to do so if it seems to be wise to change the way access is set up here i ll do that a place to start i want to start with magic i suspect that a significant majority of americans would say they don t believe in magic but that a significant minority would admit that they do my central concern here there are far more americans who believe in magic than would readily admit it it seems to be a very difficult addiction to kick follow me for a moment i don t know what percentage of american newspapers remember them still print a horoscope it looks to me to be very high i don t know how many american buildings still don t have a 13 th story for fear that renters won t want space there presto chango the 13 th floor has now become the 14 th the market for lucky numbers for lotto games and for the numbers that previous winners played may be small but it s always visible to those who look as i drive across america the billboards advertising the service of psychic readers or some variation on the theme continue to flourish so apparently some people are making money offering that service obviously i could go on at some length i think that s enough i once got a wake up call on this subject in a workshop on gambling addiction presented by a specialist for a group of united way executives during the meeting she suddenly said how many of you are feeling lucky today i thought it a bafflingly dumb question till i looked around and at least a third of my fellow executive directors had their hands in the air i was astonished and as she played out the exercise it became clear that no surprise she knew her audience far better than i did she managed to whip up a small frenzy around who would be lucky enough to win the small prize she was offering and these were not uneducated people i won t forget my point is that there are many many people who walk around earn a living and vote who trust their decisions and some portion of their substance to magical forces around them for which there is not the slightest evidence and who don t see that as irrational my point is further that i think that s important if i m lucky i ll write next about some of the influences that help to create that situation posted by ralph milligan at 11 35 am 3 comments wednesday march 07 2012 hello one of my real pleasures has been the steady urgings of some family and friends that i do some serious writing either for publication or for friends one of my real frustrations has been how difficult it s been for me to make that happen here s a start i don t like writing letters to the editor or large pieces for facebook i want to offer my thoughts to people who want to read them and a blog is one logical way to do that i don t inflict my writings on you you come to read them if and when you wish after many efforts to get blogspot to work for me my friend diane in louisiana has helped me get the bugs worked out and to get this up and running so i ll wait a few days after this initial post before posting again to give friends time to check in then i hope to be posting at least several times each week i ve built up a huge backlog of topics i m interested in and i ll be dusting those off and offering some for what they re worth here s a hint of the kind of thing you re likely to see dealt with here if you come back i m not much interested in preaching in the sense of offering advice and supposed wisdom into a marketplace already full of self appointed gurus what i think i do better and what i believe to be more useful is to offer thoughts into which i invite people to thoughtful conversation and discussion i like to draw comparisons point out distinctions raise points often neglected and in general participate in efforts to understand my friends know of me that i m a man who hates repression and injustice and those are issues that will get my attention often and quickly but i m also one who has spent much of my life as a psychotherapist dealing with feelings and relationships so social issues are for me never just macrocosmic or theoretical legal or judicial they are rooted in our hopes and fears our awareness our ignorance our learned and inherited ways of understanding and our yearning to grow in liberty and justice for all but i don t want just to deal with unpleasantness and conflict i also often see wonderful things going on around me and i want to celebrate those by no means all the good things in my life are connected with judaism but i m astonished by such things as the fact that charlotte s woman of the year is drum roll please a rabbi or the fact that a rabbi e friend of mine does stand up comedy often with a muslim friend or my vivid memory of a local imam delivering a thanksgiving prayer last november in arabic in a synagogue my world is full of much more than just bad news so check back from time to time share the url with people you think might want to think about the things you find here i m aware that anyone who puts their thoughts into the public realm raises the possibility of some very rough sometimes even unfair treatment i hope i m ready for that if it comes but much more i look forward to corresponding with friends as we look together for ways to help our country our people our world 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