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nton travelling witch midwives nurse doctor herbalist gravedigger dr lillian travelling in time fortune teller mystery of the hansom cab mother guttersnipe traveling through space aviatrix astronaut bushranger pirate phryne fisher 1st female australian astronaut write your own australian fairy tale choose a witch character cauldron brewer herbalist poisoner cannibal cook traveller where choose location in australia when era ie an imagined contemporary setting who choose a witch type character and choose a main character wants home position love fortune to be elevated from where they are thwarted by power person or organisation journey through the dark woods but witch character activates plot will be the one who turns things around what will they do to make things happen make something prevent something so main character reaction fulfil requirements asked of them then fairy godmother or true love helps intervenes or a magical animal optional 3 challenges or 1 but never 2 escalate in levels of difficulty optional magical helper optional witch imprisons or kills main character rescue by fairy godmother true love or main character rescues themself optional as escaping do you want to have magical flight transformation flight or do you hppen to have 3 magical objects that can be used as obstacles in the way of the witch ending happily ever after what does your main character see as a happy ending satyapriya fairy tales 2 comments august 17 2026 2 minutes the book finishers summit the audacious author method talk by ainsley james book coach mentor finishing isn t the goal goals are about your identity willpower is the worst tool we have planning for small outcome doesn t make you a realist it makes you a woman whose nervous system has decided wanting is dangerous you know you re meant for more humility is for disney princesses when the goal you say out loud doesn t match what you actually want you get burnout frustration and the gnawing sense you re on the wrong path the fix isn t to want less it s to tell the truth about what you want what do i really want big goal small identity small result every time permission slip to want whatever you want in your heart i plenty to be my most audacious self how do i set goals that work for me same input same output same thoughts same feelings same actions same results feel it before you see it believe that this book is already written is a best seller feel the feeling of it already being done i ll se it because i already feel it the how isn t your responsibility your job is these three things on repeat believe the goal is possible for you with your face your circumstances your story feel the feelings you ll feel when you ve already done it before any proof shows up take the next aligned action aka the milestones in service of the bigger dream act the psychology of becoming her know who you are becoming in order to set goals that you feel in your soul continuing to stay committed believe it long term milestones aren t goals they are practical steps you take in service of the goal what is your destination who are you becoming the strongest identities are tied to service ainsley s identity i am a lighthouse for women with stories to tell i write my own books and demystify the writing process so that women everywhere realise her book is possible too my visibility is permission slip for memoirists i turn my deepest wound into medicine every reader who recognises herself in my story gets a little less lonely tie what you are writing to service who is the woman who has already finished this book what does her morning look like what does her inbox look like how does she talk about her work what is she no longer tolerating what does her bank account look like what does she let herself want out loud what s her next big goal your book is a vehicle not the destination if this book did everything you secretly hope it will what does your life look like three years from now what did the book change for the people who read it and about you present tense first person to answer this question thinking small shame it s a self fulfilling prophecy what goal feels too embarrassing to say out loud who am i afraid will be mad if i succeed at this level where did i learn that wanting big things makes me a bad woman if shame had nothing to do with it what would i be writing what would i let myself receive if i trusted i deserved it the four moves of the audacious writer method name your ridiculous dream choose your identity feel like her first tactical serves identity lame vague goals are the best way to live a lame vague life program becoming the heroine talk by ainsley james for the book finishers summit satyapriya books bucket list memoir mentor soul led life writing 1 comment august 11 2026 2 minutes modern magic realism tabitha bird 9 4 2022 notes tabitha began writing 14 years ago a lifetime of possibilities 11 years to write what does the pain look like if you could describe it as a person being entity asked by a therapist the emporium of imagination dare to ask yourself what you wnat to get out of writing what do you write what are your goals there is always space on the bookshelf for your own book and story how to create safe space using magical realism any time we re forcing anything including word is abusive to self stop wording for a while play with play doh to create something that represents you kinaesthetic experience what do you think when i say magic spell sparkle shift swift wings consciousness lightning tingle sap water snake wordless play smoke cauldron shade environment influences our collection of words the words would be different in a garden on the floor beside a river where do i collect words and they flow and where do i collect words and they do not flow 3 things that define magic realism what it is what it isn t why do you think authors use it in their books everyday magic not removed from normal world not fantasy to give a hint of a whole other world or consciousness to lift a book out of the ordinary what is it happens in the real world a bit of magic as humans we don t believe anything that does not have a seed of truth the author takes that seed and expands on it think about times in your life that you believed a lie what was it that hooked you in and you bought the whole thing what do authors use it in their books ordinary magic exists in the world love grandmas transformative human connection rain rainbows to get around difficult and sensitive topics to put the reader in a familiar world but with unfamiliar happenings not just using storytelling to explore but an element of magic to open it up story must be set in a realistic environment include one or more fantastical elements takes the normal and twists it magic or impossible has rules that stay consistent presents the impossible as part of everyday life an otherness the colour of after birds show up and become magic modern magic realism takes those normal elements and twists them what if play what s for dinner what can i make with what s in the pantry that s playing what if not every element of the magic needs to be explained but enough needs to be you need to explain where the reader will engage with the magical world you cannot change your magical sysgtem to solve a plot problem present the impossible as a part of everyday life even if for your characters it s new and shocking writers toolbox begin accessing your imagination exercise impossible bubbles blow bubbles what else could they be besides bubbles fairy brains shiny worlds engine for an impossible machine transport butterflies moons satellites fly eyes magic storage round potions for inhaling storage for incense smoke wishes air elemental laughter thoughts of crystals domes habitats stripper bubbles foam the air released from cracking knuckles santa beard fairy children spit use that magic to explode truth about humanity what do you find fascinating overwhelming scared of do something where you get through that first round of ordinary the 8th 16th 22nd thing you say will be powerful more interesting as you dive furhter into association pixar writers spend 3 days brain dumping every way the story could go scrub first 2 days expand capacity to hold play when you come across the magic interesting idea stop asking and run with it write until you understand that magic mmr often doesn t include folklore and fairy tales or myth mmr is accessible it s character and plot driven not heavily literary flick through a magazine write 5 words you like write down interesting words you see everywhere satyapriya workshop notes writing leave a comment may 4 2026 3 minutes writing mash up game carina bissett mash up game to generate ideas column a what is your favourite book from childhood what is your favourite movie name a beloved myth or legend or fairy tale what is your favourite true story memoir lore news what mystery intrigues you it can be scientific historical true crime book or what is he building in there what is your favourite book or if you have many the best book you read in the past 3 years column b what monster intrigues you animal human or supernatural what do you love the most what do you fear the most what is the funniest thing that has ever happened to you what is the best premise from the worst movie or book that didn t fulfil its potential what is the title of your favourite song roll 2 dice use one die to select from column a and the second from column b mash them up alternate question if you eschew any of the above questions here are some you can substitute what is your favourite musical or play what is the strangest thing that has ever happened to you what is your favourite comic book character what is today s headline from your newspaper of choice what scares you the most satyapriya writing leave a comment may 4 2026 1 minute pamela anderson talk second acts plant a new garden who am i what did i want to do when i was a little girl garden as metaphor for life i ve nothing to lost i m nearly 60 i m at the beginning of my career i m at the beginning of my careeer the safest place i can be is dancing and singing do things you love you can always find a way to talk yourself out of them don t do that or do it before the voice starts i m going to make my life beautiful no matter what start with not criticising ourselves i reserve the right to fall in love with my co stars heartbreak is the first awakening freedom is nothing to be taken for granted be free but be smart when i was growing up i loved louise hay i m just a baby i have cracked the code i look like my instagram photos my sons are perfect gentlemen in spite of the gene pool i m not taking my foot off the gas i m going to see what i m made of keep filling your pocket with skills because you don t know what opportunity is around the corner hiding from love ellen burstyn poetry poetry communicates before it s understood people aren t judging us the way we judge ourselves i don t want to chase youth youth can chase me the fun part of life is being courageous happiness isa choice and a practice malignant narcissism in our leadership have empathy wanderlust get up early and write good skin care compassion is in fashion be yourself authentically remember what you love peel everything back that five year old is who you really are that s who you re working for satyapriya ageing gardening soul led life uncategorized workshop notes leave a comment april 28 2026 1 minute writing compelling true stories sian prior talk reality hunger ongoing interest in true stories consistent clear voice clear understanding of the story you want to tell about the situation you are describing life writing umbrella term if you have repeatedly tolde a story verbally it is worth writing about if a memory troubles you it s worth writing about what is in it for the reader we want our readers to relate to something we re writing about identify the situation and the story the situation and the story book by vivian gornick situation context plot circumstance story the insight wisdom the thing one came to say emotional experience that preoccupies the writer universal ingredients what s it about situation what s it really about story universals i m not shy so why should i care about your memoir i don t know you so why should i care fear weakness wanting to be someone you re never going to be loneliness shame coming to terms universals interrogate yourself what s it really about a snail s pace eleanor limprecht finding your voice or writing persona what kind of character we want to be in our own pieces of writing not limited to one style or one voice you are not a fixed thing you can choose the voice to suit the story you ve come to tell ingredients of voice tone mood language mood texture length of paragraphs sentences words attitude to self structure other formal elements such as lists and interviews satyapriya memoir writing leave a comment april 28 2026 1 minute sorrento writers festival 2026 notes how did i come up with that bri lee seed murray middleton you want it darker the blank page stare it down shoot off in any direction stolen moments because he has 2 young kids which makes him hanker after writing time and actual writing pre purchase writing time bri planner not pantser the ideas phase is the most exciting part who are these people and what am i going to put them through a lot of pre prep of planning plan as much as you can so that you re eager to get to the page seed most creative and satisfying of her books went to antarctica and the human stories were what became more important than the scenery the continent the history you have to be driven by a project to sustain it why does it vitally matter to you it has to matter to you to have blood in it writing from what s troubling you questions you have what material is yours to use and what isn t what s the most enjoyable to write play as the antidote to despair writing hot button topics what deeply matters to you what are you asking and don t necessarily have easy answers for a bit ugly problem if the issue is one each of us has to answer for ourselves fiction is the vehicle novels create an entire universe engage in the real world to find what impassions you what are you fertilising your mind with diverse imput from the real world different opinions variegated reading seed written by hand in the school exercise books with 3 lines and a particular pen me stripped bare why writers need to tell their story tara moss the italian secret the fictional woman sarah arachi sp brown female doctor fitting in women in medicine kate halfpenny ramshackle wander down midlife fuck ups the vulnerability of writing stripping bare vulnerability in the writing exposure people respond to the truth and vulnerability writing authentically using personal experiences as a jumping off point for bigger issues menopause is about entering a rich and empowering time of life 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