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bill encounter maybe she still has my money now maybe she doesn t anymore it doesn t matter what important is that she remembered how precious she was and stayed that way again thank you kranti for this opportunity now my nominees yen https yenscreativecorner wordpress com jeff https jeffrab com kj smith https acoupleofstarsandahappyface wordpress com save save categories my belief tags inspire nominations quotes self worth fatherhood response ability published on march 29 2018 march 29 2018 by nholie 8 comments dear son my last letter to you was about fatherhood s two faces responsibility and opportunity to grow i told you that responsibility is about the ability to respond to what s expected of you and then you asked me how in the world are you going to meet the super high unbelievable and most of the time unreasonable expectations of people around you who claim to be your family but actually don t care for you and hannah and your incoming baby two images of fatherhood well my quick answer is a resounding no you don t have to meet their unreasonable uncaring expectations at all but that would be another topic to discuss just ignore them for now what i was talking about was god s expectations from all fathers now that you are going to be a father you need to be aware of these things because after reading this letter you will jump from theory to practice let s begin father s have many responsibilities we will not talk about all of them instead we ll focus on just four basic duties expected of a father protection you are expected to protect your family from all kinds of harm in order to do that you need to assess your environment are they safe from physical emotional mental and spiritual harm physical harm is easy is your house safe from diseases thieves physical pains and unnecessary accidents due to poor household arrangements check it out do a general cleaning if necessary emotional harm how close is your family you and hannah from people who constantly criticise condemn insult and belittle other people including you and hannah if in case you are living among them how do you prevent or at least neutralize those emotional harm that may cause your family unecesasry emotional pain figure it out but don t engage in war mental harm attitude is very crucial to success but it has two characteristics that may cause you problem first it is very contagious second it is difficult to change now if you are surrounded by people with very negative attitude how do you secure your family from being infected because remember once you and your family is infected by the negativity of those around you it would be very difficult to change and go back to your original mental state spiritual harm attitude are just outward manifestation of an inner belief if the people around you do not believe in god or do not believe that there are universal timeless principles that govern us all that may pose problems if they believe that they can control the universe and that they can control you that would be dangerous if your surrounding dont believe in the virtues i taught you virtues like honesty discipline forgiveness patience faith that may create conflict but if their belief is far different from ours don t engage in arguments that won t help at all arguments dont convince people behavior does provision again as humans we have four dimensions body mind heart spirit those four dimensions have different needs the body needs food clothing and shelter the mind needs to learn and satisfy its curiosity the heart needs love and acceptance and the opportunity to love in return the spirit needs meaning that comes from a higher being in our belief system it s god not money and the priveledge to serve other people now as a father to be you need to start thinking how are you going to provide those things directly or inderectly food clothing and a decent shelter is the easiest part but this one requires money mind comes next providing education requires financial sources too but teaching your son the right attitude doesn t require money and that s even more important than any bachelor degrees ms and phds this world can to offer many fail in the heart part have you ever heard of fathers who cant forgive their sons or daughters they failed in the heart part of providing for the family let s continue this in number three below the spiritual dimension is probably the greatest dillema in our society now very very few fathers provide spiritual guidance to their children the world has become too busy that its fathers choose to prioritize money and status above all else when i was younger i also made that mistake to you i prioritized everything else in my life and forgotten what is expected of me as a father now i m catching up i hope i can love encouragement and forgiveness all these three have already become very very rare now in our modern dog eat dog survival of the fittest matira matibay society but these three are essential if your own family cannot find these three in your own home where else can they find them nobody offers them anymore for free well of course there are few exceptions out there but when i say it s very very rare its really very very rare i seee people everyday whose parents cannot offer them love encouragements and forgiveness so these poor people demand those essentials from false friends strangers drugs and alcohol the result chaos pain regret belief foundation did you know that our first image of god comes from our first image of our earthly father yes that s why when you told me few years ago about your doubt on god s existence it almost crashed me because i knew that i failed on this part of my responsibility as a father i was not able to provide you a clear image of god first we fathers do that by setting examples by our behaviors by the choices we make second we reinforce those behaviors with words of explanation if we fail on our examples no amount of explanation will compensate so prepare yourself on how are you going to give david the best image of the invisible god another things is your overall belief system in my 13 years of working with so called leaders i observed that most of them don t have an intact belief system they don t know whether or not to believe that integrity is an imperative in leadership because of that they compromise everytime they are not consistent in their decision making and because they dont know what they believe they don t know how to respond to difficult situations the result people stop trusting them as a father one of your responsibilities is to establish that belief system in your family that is intact a belief system that cannot be esily shattered by arguments and cannot be swayed by painful experiences there are many more responsibilities waitng for you as a father we haven t talked yet about discipline and specific instructions and training and about how to treat your wife we ll get there later for now i want you to begin thinking about these four basic expectations you need to meet if you have noticed i began from the easiest protection part to the most difficult one belief foundation to make it easier for you to apply them the last two responsibilites are just an expansion of the heart and spirit issues in both the protection and provision responsibilities i pray that you find this helpful may god bless you and comfort you and give you streght as you put these teaching into specific observable actions i love you always son pa categories father to be fatherhood open letters parenting to my son tags fatherhood parenting responsibility what matters most 31st week creatively pregnant published on march 26 2018 march 31 2020 by nholie 5 comments dear hannah have a great day today last time we talked about being intentional in your every move knowing that the baby in your womb has already started picking up and responding to most activities you take and that by being intentional you are showing your care to him deliberately instead of just relying on the automatic systems of your body i also promised you that on my next letter we d talk about why doing creative activities will prepare you better for the future of your mother child caring interactions so let s jump forward to that near future flash forward when david comes out 9 weeks from now he will begin his journey to discovery and growth he will do it in stages every stage is different as his mother you will join him in this journey one step at a time as he learns new things you will learn with him as he grows so are you here are the first three stages of his life newborn the first 3 months will pass by very fast or very slow depending on whether you are enjoying your son or you are frustrated because you can no longer do the things you ve been doing before you became pregnant here david s life will be plain and simple eat poop pee cry and sleep you will observe him and learn his cycle and timing here cry is his only language infant months 4 to 6 are his infant days many things have already changed by this time both for you and your little one you are now accustomed to it or more frustrated here david will be interacting with you through smiles coos and laughs not just cry anymore he will have learned a lot of movements too he will be crawling slow sit by his own and begin learning how to use his hands baby after his sixth month birthday he will be officially called a baby this will be his journey from 7 months old up to his first year birthday here you will find yourself running around the house chasing your little david as he crawls in the bed and at the floor climbs everywhere and picks everything in sight in order to put it in his mouth another approach is needed here have you noticed david will make significant changes every three months so your approach in caring for him will also change and in order for you to cope up with that constant change is to be creative in many things if you are fixed with your first learnings and not become flexible in changing your style you will easily get frustrated here are some specifics beginning on his birth he will ask for milk every two hours if you have breast milk you will feed him alone and you will get tired and will have sleepless nights if you don t have breast milk then that means you and jonathan will go alternately preparing bottled milks for david every two hours during night after 3 months though david might be asking milk every 3 hours now your creativity will help you adjust during these months bathing the baby will change dramatically as he grows from newborn to infant to baby on his newborn months you will bath him while he s lying flat on a nursing table you will do it very quickly so your baby won t get cold by being exposed to water and air for longer minutes during infancy that will change you will no longer be able to bath him lying on a flat surface because by that time he is already able to sit and crawl during bath time you will sit him comfortably inside a baby tub of course that will require another set of skills and timing if you are not flexible in learning you and david will struggle during bathing time when he reaches 7 months old david will be fast in his movements can crawl quickly and can grab a lot of little things in front of him it will be difficult for you to bath him alone again you need to be creative changing his diaper after he poop will also need creativity the first 3 months will be easy but to change the diaper of a crawling baby who doesn t understand the word stop yet requires creativity if your are not prepared for this you will get irritated annoyed or frustrated if you are prepared it will be fun as your baby grows he will change his needs therefore you will change his surroundings in order to cope up with his needs newborn is the easiest all he needs is a warm embrace milk and clean diaper but when he begins to crawl you need some soft barricades so he won t fall off the bed when he wakes up while you re still sleeping when he learns to pick objects small and big you need to rearrange your things within the house you will not deprive him of his desire to grab objects otherwise he won t learn to use his fingers and his hands but you also be careful on what objects he may pick to avoid any accident be creative in rearranging your things and everything in your house that will get in contact with the baby these are just a few examples to give you a glimpse of what s going to happen in your journey together it s going to be fun or frustrating depending on whether you are creatively prepared or not i m telling you this because i have observed a lot of first time mothers who were extremely frustrated because they never anticipated all these small things when they were still pregnant they forgot to prepare they thought everything will be automatic they were not deliberate on their care so they paid the price but what is worse is that their baby paid an even higher price i don t want that to happen to you and david and i m sure you don t want it to happen too so practice your creative mind now while you re still pregnant when you practice doing creative things now even if it s not yet related to the baby your mind will be equipped in using creativity to solve problems and when your little one arrives your creativity will help both of you as your baby journeys to discover life you will discover a lot of things too things about yourself about jonathan about your little baby himself and of course about life in general but believe me with a prepared mind and a ready heart this journey will be the most exciting and fulfilling journey of all til next time my dear daughter god bless you always kisses to my grandson to be grandpa categories open letters parenting pregnancy to my daughter tags parenting posts navigation older posts search for a letter for you recent posts your journey to wealth march 31 2020 getting old or growing old january 7 2019 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