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s passing away and a new time will come as we pass out of this life there will be new sermons and new victories there will be new still nights of awe and some with new terror new arrows different from these today will fly by day yet we are kept and held and borne up as god i m not yet done bathing in and exhaling after much needed rest in peace and joy i needed to remember so that tomorrow i will not forget tweet posted by cynthia kunsman sunday june 18 2023 following bruce ware s primrose path to domestic abuse part iii cbmw and bruce ware are no different than shiny happy people we ve considered when gender role evangelist bruce ware relied on cruelty to win ideological debates all s fair in christian love and culture war these days right some of that i understand in light of the dominating milieu that cbmw created to help them win their war we ve also considered some possible negative progressions and consequences that stem from his definition of women as the indirect image of god tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman saturday june 17 2023 following bruce ware s primrose path to domestic abuse part ii turing violence against women into god s gender justice read part i here wife beating became the last straw issue that drove me out of the shinyhappypeople church shpc i d once attended i had no idea who gothard was when we joined but i knew when we left over time i would learn that the ideology demanded that wives obediently submit with a quiet and gentle spirit to any maltreatment their husbands dished out the same went for sex too whatever whenever he wanted all marital discord be assigned to the wife as the root cause twife beating always be considered a breach of duty or neglect on the part of the wife wives just let love cover her husband s sin against her so that her properly yielded submission could magically convict cure rehabilitate her husband that s the wonder working power of submission if you get it right if you didn t get results you weren t doing it right husbands were never held accountable because if a wife does her job right sex and submission and supper the bible per bill gothard guarantees the system to work tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman following bruce ware s primrose path to domestic abuse part i ideas that fed those shiny happy people when the reporter peter smith contacted me to ask questions about my relationships with bruce ware and russell moore and my thoughts about them i told him that i had no reason to believe that either of them had any clue about who i was earlier that year i d earned the badge of honor through a dishonest public denouncement for criticizing their teachings in a lecture earlier in 2008 he assured me that both men knew exactly who i was sharing deeply personal insults about me that were too derogatory for him to repeat he was sure that one of them knew me in real life because of the nature of his comments i assured him i d only ever reviewed their teachings and had never met either man tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels shinyhappypeople abuse domestic cbmw gothard thursday june 15 2023 concerning shiny happy people two weeks later i started watching the amazon docuseries about the duggar family entitled shiny happy people two weeks ago today i could not get through the second episode in one sitting wept and had to come bad to it the next day i then spent the better part of the next two days bursting into tears multiple times and i could barely function because of it tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels shinyhappypeople abuse domestic gothard second generation adults monday april 3 2023 mess with the bull and you ll get the horns the dominating behavioral context of cbmw complementarianism patriarchy is about power on the 15 th anniversary of my cancelling thirty years ago i joined a quiverfull movement church without even knowing that there was such a thing because it seemed like a regular evangelical church young evangelical women today face even more pressure to conform to quiverfull standards than i did and i get frustrated that people think it s all about babies the lifestyle undoubtedly involves children but it focuses on ways of controlling people and circumstances i grieve today because i d hoped to be a better agent of more potent meaningful change tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman complicated forgiveness colliding with organizations that cancel you on the fifteenth anniversary of my cancelling a companion post to mess with the bulls and you ll get the horns the dominating behavioral context of cbmw i remember my exit counselor talking to me after a month to consider that many of the leaders in cults like the one i d left are trapped and bound in the system more deeply than i ever was i bristled at the suggestion at the time but in time it would help me get past the trauma and see my former leaders with compassion read more on this much misunderstood topic here tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman thursday march 16 2023 might social justice look like this i believe that god gave me the most precious and powerful gifts of kindness life liberty and love because they were so freely given to me i want to share that bounty and blessing with others we are fallible creatures in an unfair world and i want to comfort others with the same comfort that god showed to me through so many people christian and otherwise there is plenty of god s great love to go around for all of us tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels social justice monday march 13 2023 another non theobro christian scholar on social justice when i read the new 2022 frankfurt declaration last week i could not help but think back to this essay i read almost three years ago as i noted in an earlier post i am not a student of the areas of study that concern themselves with critical race theory so i am grateful that kelly hamren agreed to allow me to repost her commentary here she was homeschooled and went on to eventually become a graduate student at liberty university after completing her studies she served for eleven years in the english department at liberty moving from instructor to assistant professor she later earned a phd in literature and criticism from indiana university of pennsylvania tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels frankfurt declaration social justice theobros sunday march 12 2023 the piety of the theobros and the bully pulpit of 2022 frankfurt declaration a few days ago i took notice of a new term used to describe today s alpha males of calvinism theobros they re a special breed of new calvinist who spends a lot of time on twitter telling women men and the rest of us lesser life forms that we aren t the right kind of christian as if they are the new gnostics sometimes i feel betrayed because the late rc sproul sr s work helped me profoundly on my thirty three year long journey out of the cruel madness of word of faith little did i know that he was a rare example of loving grace and compassion amongst the larger group of new calvinists in both the media and in churches tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels frankfurt declaration social justice theobros saturday march 11 2023 the equivocation problem with social justice that the theobros make worse featuring rosato s harriet tubman mural most regular people understand the term social justice in terms of common vernacular in the us through the simple meaning of the words themselves in society especially in america our government aspires to grant each citizen rights to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness we ve spent our whole history working to make those liberties equally available to all her citizens to most people most christians included social justice means just that it is the aspiration to see all people in society treated fairly and justly unless someone s taken particular classes in college or read specific literature that offers a different definition most people understand these simple words in only that context tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels frankfurt declaration social justice theobros friday march 10 2023 answering scot mcknight s question what made josh butler s tgc article different this week i listened to two podcasts about the controversy that ensued concerning josh butler s book excerpt that appeared on the gospel coalition tgc website on march 1 a friend gave me a link to the preventing grace podcast claiming that they expressed some of the same ideas that i did asking that people would extend mercy to the author while i did not find butler s material to be that difficult in light of other teachings i became quite triggered by the hosts straw man mischaracterizations of butler s critics along with their claims that his writing was beautiful apparently we prudish small minded people who cry misogyny at every turn only look for material to use to destroy those with a different view the following day i listened to a podcast that posed questions i d already been thinking about because of my thoughts from the previous day tweet click here to continue reading posted by cynthia kunsman labels evangelical smut gender theobros older posts home subscribe to posts atom watchman fellowship s spiritual abuse profile click on the graphic for more info search this blog the best way to find content on undermuchgrace com links to important topics concerning spiritual abuse defining spiritual abuse post index index to other important content how they hook you propaganda difficulty with bible study resisting influence con artists cult leaders journaling in recovery exit counseling choosing a counselor cognitive dissonance bounded choice childhood wounds and spiritual abuse understanding altered states 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