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sibility knot this is something a person a thing a dream my faith sense of purpose or anything that i can focus my mind on in times of difficulty in order for me to not to give up hang on this is the part when i have done everything else but still refuse to give up it means hope just wait a little longer have faith they said that men can survive 40 days without food 4 days without water 4 minutes without oxygen but only 4 seconds without hope that s how important hope is difficulty is part of life there are times when we feel that everything else fails and that we ve done everything we could every solution possible yet still nothing seems to work anymore we feel tired frustrated and hopeless but let s not give up not yet let s just make a little more effort of picking up on something dear to us something we can hold on to like a knot at the end of a rope and hope for a miracle my second set of nominees kelseyywritess https kelseyywritess wordpress com loveurownlife https loveurownlife wordpress com danny https dreambigdreamoften co save save categories my belief tags inspire nominations quotes self worth 3 day quote challenge day 1 published on april 15 2018 may 4 2018 by nholie 10 comments day one because i was taken by surprise let me just follow my nominator s path on my first day my quote will also be about life being precious thank you kranti for this sweet friendly challenge i appreciate it a lot rules thank the person who nominated you post a quote for three consecutive days 1 quote for each day share why this quote appeals so much to you nominate 3 different bloggers for each day my first quote you never lose your worth no matter what life throws at you one day a young lady came to me crying she said she humiliated me in front of my classmates throwing baseless accusations after accusations now i m losing respect in myself it happened about seven years ago while i was still working in a state owned academy the young lady was a second year college student then she was talking about her lady professor this professor was one of those who have completed two master degrees and a phd and a numerous high profile trainings so by looking at her credentials she is supposed to be a highly respectable person but people just like this young lady student who came to me weeping in shame anger and emotional pain in the academy believed or experienced the exact opposite of respect follow me i said to her after listening intensely to some details of her story then she followed me as i walked out of my office toward an open space just outside the building when we reached a shaded place i pulled out my wallet took a 100 peso bill and asked her if i gave this p100 bill to anybody do you think they will accept it yes sir of course no one will reject it replied the young lady then i crumpled it with my right hand in front of her and asked a follow up question how about now that it s crumpled will people still accept it yes sir of course they will this time i threw the p100 bill on the ground then stepped on it with my shoes as if grinding it with force then asked another question after picking it from the ground now that its totally crumpled and dirty in your eyes do you still believe people will accept it of course sir it is still p100 that s it that s exactly it i exclaimed she looked at me with confused eyes still with some tears welling up then i smiled at her and told her slowly with a soft reassuring voice you are precious just like this bill your value won t change just because they crumpled you in the outside you are still the same you charming always smiling happy student actually i followed through it is your response to those kind of experiences that will determine your worth to cry for such a painful experience is okay that s part of a normal person with normal emotions you have already cried that s good now it s time to get up i am reminding you of your worth and i hope that you will go back to your lady professor with a stronger heart knowing that no matter what she throws at you your value as a person doesn t change you are still precious she burst into more tears after i said those words not knowing what to do i just stood there watching her as she cried silently praying that my words would at least give her inner strength after a minute or two she rose her head looked at me with a sweet smile as she was wiping all the tears in her face and said thank you very much sir thank you thank you thank you i smiled back at her with a relieved heart then she followed up with a rather unexpected request sir can i have this bill as a souvenir well that s it that s my quote with a short personal story i was still in high school when i encountered a story similar to that decades later i was in the position to relive that story with me as one of the characters the one who was giving the strength to a damaged person i m glad i was given a chance to share the experience to that young lady student when she graduated from the academy years later she came back to me and thanked me again for that p100 bill encounter maybe she still has my money now maybe she doesn t anymore it doesn t matter what important is that she remembered how precious she was and stayed that way again thank you kranti for this opportunity now my nominees yen https yenscreativecorner wordpress com jeff https jeffrab com kj smith https acoupleofstarsandahappyface wordpress com save save categories my belief tags inspire nominations quotes self worth fatherhood response ability published on march 29 2018 march 29 2018 by nholie 8 comments dear son my last letter to you was about fatherhood s two faces responsibility and opportunity to grow i told you that responsibility is about the ability to respond to what s expected of you and then you asked me how in the world are you going to meet the super high unbelievable and most of the time unreasonable expectations of people around you who claim to be your family but actually don t care for you and hannah and your incoming baby two images of fatherhood well my quick answer is a resounding no you don t have to meet their unreasonable uncaring expectations at all but that would be another topic to discuss just ignore them for now what i was talking about was god s expectations from all fathers now that you are going to be a father you need to be aware of these things because after reading this letter you will jump from theory to practice let s begin father s have many responsibilities we will not talk about all of them instead we ll focus on just four basic duties expected of a father protection you are expected to protect your family from all kinds of harm in order to do that you need to assess your environment are they safe from physical emotional mental and spiritual harm physical harm is easy is your house safe from diseases thieves physical pains and unnecessary accidents due to poor household arrangements check it out do a general cleaning if necessary emotional harm how close is your family you and hannah from people who constantly criticise condemn insult and belittle other people including you and hannah if in case you are living among them how do you prevent or at least neutralize those emotional harm that may cause your family unecesasry emotional pain figure it out but don t engage in war mental harm attitude is very crucial to success but it has two characteristics that may cause you problem first it is very contagious second it is difficult to change now if you are surrounded by people with very negative attitude how do you secure your family from being infected because remember once you and your family is infected by the negativity of those around you it would be very difficult to change and go back to your original mental state spiritual harm attitude are just outward manifestation of an inner belief if the people around you do not believe in god or do not believe that there are universal timeless principles that govern us all that may pose problems if they believe that they can control the universe and that they can control you that would be dangerous if your surrounding dont believe in the virtues i taught you virtues like honesty discipline forgiveness patience faith that may create conflict but if their belief is far different from ours don t engage in arguments that won t help at all arguments dont convince people behavior does provision again as humans we have four dimensions body mind heart spirit those four dimensions have different needs the body needs food clothing and shelter the mind needs to learn and satisfy its curiosity the heart needs love and acceptance and the opportunity to love in return the spirit needs meaning that comes from a higher being in our belief system it s god not money and the priveledge to serve other people now as a father to be you need to start thinking how are you going to provide those things directly or inderectly food clothing and a decent shelter is the easiest part but this one requires money mind comes next providing education requires financial sources too but teaching your son the right attitude doesn t require money and that s even more important than any bachelor degrees ms and phds this world can to offer many fail in the heart part have you ever heard of fathers who cant forgive their sons or daughters they failed in the heart part of providing for the family let s continue this in number three below the spiritual dimension is probably the greatest dillema in our society now very very few fathers provide spiritual guidance to their children the world has become too busy that its fathers choose to prioritize money and status above all else when i was younger i also made that mistake to you i prioritized everything else in my life and forgotten what is expected of me as a father now i m catching up i hope i can love encouragement and forgiveness all these three have already become very very rare now in our modern dog eat dog survival of the fittest matira matibay society but these three are essential if your own family cannot find these three in your own home where else can they find them nobody offers them anymore for free well of course there are few exceptions out there but when i say it s very very rare its really very very rare i seee people everyday whose parents cannot offer them love encouragements and forgiveness so these poor people demand those essentials from false friends strangers drugs and alcohol the result chaos pain regret belief foundation did you know that our first image of god comes from our first image of our earthly father yes that s why when you told me few years ago about your doubt on god s existence it almost crashed me because i knew that i failed on this part of my responsibility as a father i was not able to provide you a clear image of god first we fathers do that by setting examples by our behaviors by the choices we make second we reinforce those behaviors with words of explanation if we fail on our examples no amount of explanation will compensate so prepare yourself on how are you going to give david the best image of the invisible god another things is your overall belief system in my 13 years of working with so called leaders i observed that most of them don t have an intact belief system they don t know whether or not to believe that integrity is an imperative in leadership because of that they compromise everytime they are not consistent in their decision making and because they dont know what they believe they don t know how to respond to difficult situations the result people stop trusting them as a father one of your responsibilities is to establish that belief system in your family that is intact a belief system that cannot be esily shattered by arguments and cannot be swayed by painful experiences there are many more responsibilities waitng for you as a father we haven t talked yet about discipline and specific instructions and training and about how to treat your wife we ll get there later for now i want you to begin thinking about these four basic expectations you need to meet if you have noticed i began from the easiest protection part to the most difficult one belief foundation to make it easier for you to apply them the last two responsibilites are just an expansion of the heart and spirit issues in both the protection and provision responsibilities i pray that you find this helpful may god bless you and comfort you and give you streght as you put these teaching into specific observable actions i love you always son pa categories father to be fatherhood open letters parenting to my son tags fatherhood parenting responsibility what matters most 31st week creatively pregnant published on march 26 2018 march 31 2020 by nholie 5 comments dear hannah have a great day today last time we talked about being intentional in your every move knowing that the baby in your womb has already started picking up and responding to most activities you take and that by being intentional you are showing your care to him deliberately instead of just relying on the automatic systems of your body i also promised you that on my next letter we d talk about why doing creative activities will prepare you better for the future of your mother child caring interactions so let s jump forward to that near future flash forward when david comes out 9 weeks from now he will begin his journey to discovery and growth he will do it in stages every stage is different as his mother you will join him in this journey one step at a time as he learns new things you will learn with him as he grows so are you here are the first three stages of his life newborn the first 3 months will pass by very fast or very slow depending on whether you are enjoying your son or you are frustrated because you can no longer do the things you ve been doing before you became pregnant here david s life will be plain and simple eat poop pee cry and sleep you will observe him and learn his cycle and timing here cry is his only language infant months 4 to 6 are his infant days many things have already changed by this time both for you and your little one you are now accustomed to it or more frustrated here david will be interacting with you through smiles coos and laughs not just cry anymore he will have learned a lot of movements too he will be crawling slow sit by his own and begin learning how to use his hands baby after his sixth month birthday he will be officially called a baby this will be his journey from 7 months old up to his first year birthday here you will find yourself running around the house chasing your little david as he crawls in the bed and at the floor climbs everywhere and picks everything in sight in order to put it in his mouth another approach is needed here have you noticed david will make significant changes every three months so your approach in caring for him will also change and in order for you to cope up with that constant 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