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nsion noted so why didn t they ever hook up two reasonably attractive people who clearly prefer being with one another under any circumstance even ditching dates at the flimsiest opportunities to work together regularly expressing their concern for one another but yet never actually expressing interest wow that doesn t sound at all familiar please read in sarcasm font when mulder refers to scully as a beautiful woman it surprised me and when scully laughs off mulder s attempts to be charming i m no longer puzzled he s described often as a genius brilliant ambitious passionate and what s not necessary to state is that he s hot funny and likes to smolder so why doesn t scully tap that when he s so frequently okay with implying he d be interested it s because mulder is the ultimate manboy while he may be ahead in his career and intensely focused on his work he glibly makes common manboy blunders that keep him from being in the it s possible category he makes light over the amount of videos read porn being in his work vcr or passing it on to his basement dwelling misfit friends the lone gunmen he flirts shamelessly with random women that give even a hint of promise as one night stands often in front of scully at times putting her on hold literally in order to talk with said random woman while scully is doing research on his behalf on her nights at home alone eating ice cream and washing her dog war of the coprohages season 3 episode 12 even in his most desperate need for her brilliant help and assistance while she s in the middle of bending over backward to assist his current quest he stops to make passes at women he knows will be meaningless sigh what an idiot what keeps the undercurrent of romantic possibility is scully s reasonable acknowledgment that he s not looking for anything romantically meaningful in their professional relationship scully recognizes mulder s clear lack of appreciation for her devotion to his cause and she s not falling for his game while their mutual connection is clear on the deeper levels of intellectual understanding mutual admiration and genuine concern for one another s well being she s not about to chase after a man who s not busy chasing her therefore he s happy to continue flattering her allowing her to hold the reins of their partnership while neither expects to take him seriously it s the epitome of masculine drive mulder proves that men can pursue what they want in this case aliens and unexplained phenomenon when only given the slightest hint of a possibility that s all he needs to go all out to get what he wants as great as they could be as a team romantically speaking because he continues to play in the puddles of immaturity and getting all kinds of dirty rather than flat out pursuing a woman he so clearly cares for which let s face it really is laughable at 9 20 2010 5 comments topics manboys tuesday september 14 2010 gleeking out jimmy fallon a musical number glee costume changes and an awards show the gay man inside of me is freaking out at 9 14 2010 no comments topics entertainment video monday september 13 2010 talking out loud sometimes having a blog to discuss relationship anecdotes isn t enough sometimes you have to talk out loud and with other people about it especially with other people who are funny so i m doing it i m starting my own show and i want your help send me your dating predicaments relationship conundrums questions on social propriety the best songs to break up to why shoulder pads are being found in fashion or how the hell there s a saw vii in theaters this year in short it is a talk show with the sassy bold flippant voice and face you ve been reading right here i ll be inviting celebrity guests to co host and offer advice alongside me and since this will be on my youtube channel i m specifically seeking youtube stars start finding your favourite youtube celebrities now and i ll be glad to invite them on to answer your most entertaining questions first things first i need a name please vote for or suggest in the opinions section your favourite title for my show what should i name my new talk show online survey remember if you have a great title for a talk show that offers real advice through humor entertainment news and youtube stars please post your suggestions in the comments below i need a name before the end of the week so totally pass this survey along and forward it to friends you know i love opinions at 9 13 2010 9 comments topics real life wednesday september 1 2010 i m your most popular virgin i ve been on planes all my life but never flown virgin and while i ve traveled all over the world i ve never been to toronto looks like i finally have no reason to save myself for either the time is now virgin airlines is seeking a new ambassador a provocateur to represent their new toronto destination please vote for my video here and repost the link in your facebook twitter gchat etc so far i have an honest shot at winning this and what a great job it will be my marketing strategy is this create events experiencing all toronto has to offer for first timers in the community toronto is a destination city after all the new connections for toronto are los angeles and san francisco two of my native lands so naturally we ll be inspiring travel to and from these cities and toronto to experience yet more of what we ve never done before i ll have one year to come up with as many events and experiences as possible for these cities and hopefully it will inspire our worlds to come together a little more often through virgin at 9 01 2010 no comments topics real life travel tuesday august 10 2010 there is no competition in ladyland there is a disturbing phenomenon going on in the public dating world you ve been there before you re going to dinner holding hands snuggling around town finding excuses to whisper in each other s ear and it s nice nice to be around someone you find attractive and who clearly enjoys holding you as much as you letting them when this happens for me i m not always immediately sold on whether or not we re compatible beyond any of the above but there is a certain delight in being open to finding out if there s anything more to it but recently i had the oddest experience of getting third wheeled by my ladyfriends everywhere we went women aggressively flirted fussed and fawned over my companion when i was right beside him at one point a girl actually followed us and then sat in between us during church i was stunned at the lack of civility and blatantly assertive behavior by women i considered to be friends make no mistake i didn t feel i had claim on the guy who was taking me out and who was continually by my side with his arm s around me everywhere we went but i did feel like his outward actions made some sort of statement to the public world perhaps not what we were defined as but that we most certainly had something going on while i didn t expect either of us to be exclusive i was certainly not prepared for the lack of civility that occurred day after day when we were amongst friends i hear women complain all the time that they hate feeling like they need to compete for attention from men that women universally dislike being or feeling catty or threatened by other women even though no one enjoys this experience somehow it continues to be perpetuated i ve considered myself unusually lucky in being surrounded by women i know i can trust and who support me but this latest experience threw me for a loop suddenly having women friends interrupt as i was planning a date with someone being bumped out of my own conversation and ending up a third wheel it was all very strange at one point deep in conversation with a man i was connecting with a friend interrupted citing a great desire to catch up with me i gently informed her that i was in the middle of a discussion and i d love to find her in a few minutes to catch up as well she glibly acknowledged interrupting and then continued to stand between us until i walked away since it was not actually me she had wanted to catch up with it was like being on the bachelor and nearly just as awful here s the thing ladies there is no such thing as another woman being your competition no such thing you may think you need to make yourself known to a man you may fear you need to draw attention to yourself in order to be noticed you may feel that the presence of another woman intrinsically draws attention away from you i m here to tell you she does not and here s why men know what they want i m not saying they re always smooth i m not saying they always approach relationships in an ideal way i m not saying men are graceful suave or that their plans are always executed well or in a timely fashion i am simply saying that men know when they want to approach a woman and when they do not and no amount of thrusting yourself in their face is going to affect their intrinsic interest in knowing you as a person sure you ll get his attention momentarily sure you ll get maybe five minutes of face time he ll also be looking over your shoulder at every other person who walks by and you ll be pissed then you ll spend the next four days creating excuses for his cagey behaviour and when he still doesn t call you ll start saying derogatory things about his character and doubting his masculinity before your girlfriends amongst other such stereotypically petty slanders sorry boys it s true this is how the social aftershock works the problem is not that he doesn t have the courage to ask you out the problem is not that he disrespects you or that he s mistreated or mislead you the problem is that you forced yourself into the path of a man who would have otherwise not pursued you and then as he continues on his natural orbit of not noticing you you are disappointed in having an expectation borne of your own efforts alone you have worked yourself into a frenzy and wasted time and energy over someone who would have never gone out of his way for you to begin with on the other hand there are men who will go out of their way to know you i m not saying they re the men you want going out of their way for you but i am saying that they do exist you know this is true because you know you have been approached by them before we have all been pursued at some point or another and while we cannot always choose who puts forth the effort we can know with absolute confidence the difference between a relationship that is created because a man is interested enough to pursue something with you versus a relationship forced because you re continually creating reasons to interact with a man who otherwise has not put forth any personal effort to forge a connection with you the reality is that no amount of you putting yourself in front of another woman is going to make you automatically more attractive interesting better than her nor does it mean you are not attractive interesting or someone else s better while men may find the attention flattering all you are doing is feeding an ego his and ultimately feeding someone else s ego when it s unwarranted and he s done nothing to demand your attention or respect simply leaves you going out of your way for someone who otherwise would have not taken notice of you and really who wants someone like that in their life anyway so here s the lesson ladies we are not the enemy we are not in competition if anything we are your best ally every one of us can name easily five men we respect admire and appreciate but aren t interested in dating ever think that you could help a sister out and send him in the direction of one of your lady friends who may be able to return an affection for him it s more likely to happen than him sending you one of his bro s that s for sure what about introducing your girlfriend to someone at a party that you ve met who s attractive but you re not interested how much do you think both of them will appreciate the introduction and attention the reality is that attraction exists we gravitate toward certain people for a reason forcing a relationship by jumping your natural gravitational pull is less likely to create a new solar system than it is to place undue strain and pressure around your surrounding atmosphere so please don t hit on my boyfriend if you re the one he s interested in i m sure he ll find a way to call you at 8 10 2010 3 comments topics dating women wednesday august 4 2010 ponies husbands and other fun wishes when someone says i really want to get married it sounds a lot to me like when i say i really want a pony of course i want a pony i have wanted a pony my entire life i know the colour the pattrern the name of my pony i have dreamt of this magnificent creature since the time i was five years old i want that pony and then i think farrah if you really wanted that pony so bad you d get it and i say self you outsmart me again it s true if i really wanted that pony right now i d get it i d take out a loan i d buy it i d find a way i could rent borrow i could even volunteer at a stable there are a number of ways i could have my pony but i have yet to do so because you see the truth is i do want that pony when i want something to play with to dream about to fawn over to pamper to love so really how much do i really want that pony and how much of wanting it is really just what i like to tell myself when i have too much time on my hands when i hear people say i really want to get married i believe them it s not the sincerity of the dream it s the reality of the desire if i say i really want to get married i stop and think am i really doing everything to show that this is the desire of my heart or is it simply a desire now and then in my heart if this were truly my desire i believe i d be doing more just like getting myself that pony so before you let out that lonely thought of i just really want to be married ask yourself have you asked out your own dates have you gone online have you looked outside your own faith have you asked to be set up by friends are you willing to go outside your own comfort zone put down your pride accept different expectations and fully pursue the desire of your heart or are you simply whimsically repeating a phrase you ve known to be true since your childhood i m not suggesting that the statement i want to get married is insincere my desire for a pony is very real as well i know relationships require two hearts to be prepared and open to one another and that does take time and it may also take kissing a number of frogs to get there all i m suggesting is that we not throw around the desire of our hearts as though it is a mere wish or whim or something that we dream of simply to fulfill our own romantic fantasies that when we speak the desire of our hearts we speak it with the intent toward action that when we finally utter the words i want to get married we do so with a sacredness in which we are prepared to do whatever it takes to pursue at all costs and are prepared for...