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ested after all i learnt after marriage that she kept her phone in her purse and would not look at it for many hours finally she did reply with a confirmation we decided to meet 6 30 at dadar the day passed like that with more office issues than thoughts about her with so many rejections i had stopped being excited about these things i started around 5 00 from the office at around 6 00 she messaged me i left i smiled my devil mind and my eager fingers was tempted to reply i right but the question was about impressing the girl and a message like this would put the odds against me and my sane mind decided against messaging her i was as usual on time and surprisingly she did not keep me waiting much dadar is a pretty crowded station with lots of restaurants and place to sit it was not my first trip to dadar to meet a girl and i had a good idea where to go but then she stumped me she did not want to sit in a restaurant and she would prefer sitting somewhere and talking without the waiters disturbing us with bills only place where waiters would not disturb was cafe coffee day but she did not want to sit in a restaurant at all we decided to walk to shivaji park and talk there shivaji park a big public ground and a very famous landmark is almost around 15 minutes walk from dadar station i suggested we can also talk while walking so we started walking and talking as we walked i told her about me and she told me about her we talked about our expectation regarding our partners and we talked about everything that we could think of and can help the other to make decision we walked along the busy dadar streets talking sharing and discussing our life shivaji park still eluded us neither of us were aware of the road to shivaji park nor we felt the need to ask somebody we were just engrossed in our talk that it didn t matter that we were walking for a long time when the light finally started fading we decided to come back to dadar station failing to find shivaji park shivaji park was the destination but the journey was more interesting walking back i had made my decision but then it was always a one sided affair but i needed her to confirm too it was a good thing that the decision was based on us rather than the complete family she had also made a decision when we finally parted way in dadar station i asked for 2 days time to revert with my decision later she told me that when i told her about two days she was pretty sure my answer was no i bid her good bye and asked her to message me when she reached home as i took my train to borivali i almost knew that my search was over posted in close to my heart experiences friends family musings personal wife 4 comments jab hum met 3 september 6 2012 by full2faltu the meet the girl boy meetings for marriage are really the odd meetings the idea is to have people talk and understand each other in a very very short amount of time in indian context it becomes even more difficult when the parents and relatives get involved everybody is looking at the boy and girl and expects them to know each other and talk about their future in front of everybody not only its difficult but rather embarrassing i for one always insisted that i meet the girl at a neutral venue however my mother did not approve of it and said that no parent would approve their girl to meet a boy alone i found it rather amusing i wasn t calling them in some shady secluded space but in a public place i was being the best of gentleman or what i knew of being the best of gentleman i talked to them politely i tried to get most from the discussion and told them everything they asked or did not ask about me especially what matter for a girl to choose her husband i even paid for the hotel bill during the last 2 3 searches she insisted that we meet like many others searching individuals i did not argue but the results were the same denial as a matter of fact i found that girls preferred to talk without their family they were more forthcoming about the type of husband they were looking for without being judged by others the indian family structure prefers to give less rights to their girls although this is changing fast we still like to be stuck when the family want to take decision for the girls so when amu s family wanted to meet i did not have high hopes as usual my sister in law and mother made the house neat and tidy its amazing that our house could be transformed from clutter to highly organized for such special occasions the time was fixed at 4 00 pm sunday 16 january 2011 as always i was always the same person without preparation or special clothes for the occasion they came a little after 4 00 pm she came with her mother her elder sister and her brother in law i had already seen her on facebook i had sent her my photo in the mail she was in the same white dress with the green dupatta as in her facebook photo we had some snacks specially brought for the occasion as expected it was odd my mother and brother talked to their family understanding their family line up it seem my mom s cousin brother was once their neighbour i meanwhile was stealing a glance at her it would not been appropriate to stare at her especially in front of her family they asked me about my job and salary i asked her what were her expectations she wanted a man with good heart and stable financially in his life i satisfied one condition completely and one somewhat 1 out of 2 is not bad at all my mother wanted to seal the deal and asked me to go in my room and talk i said a firm no it did not look like a good idea with both of us talking in my room with my and her family waiting outside i told them i wanted to meet her alone maybe in a day or two after the usual discussion on the families and village and the ancestors and our jobs and current bad state of public transport there came an awkward moment when there was nothing to discuss a long silence with people looking at each other anybody who must have attended this kind of meetings knows this silence finally relief arrived when her mother said that they better get going i told them if they decide to go ahead we will meet in a day or two sometime in the evening i took her number they went away that day with the promise of meeting again i decided to meet her on tuesday as mondays are always busy 2 days from that day life was going for a big change posted in close to my heart experiences friends family musings personal wife 3 comments detour september 1 2012 by full2faltu as i alight on the churchgate station for a new day at work i take a right instead of the subway i have been doing this since the last few days the road from the station to my office goes through the business district with building around the route from the right is longer but takes me along the sea while coming to office one station prior to my destination i look out of the window to find a cloudy sky over a somewhat raging ocean the weather seems pleasant than the usual humid mumbai climate i walk toward the sea from the station the shops don t open that early and the road is much quite at this side of the town the bustling business district is just maybe a kilometer away the buildings at the side of the road still have the old world charm they have not been taken over by builders who build ugly glass building called offices with limited colours like blue and grey i cross the hotel ambassador everybody tells me that there was a revolving restaurant at the top of the building i am not so sure of the rumors a quick search on the internet reveals that there indeed a revolving restaurant offering a breathtaking view of the queen s neck lace called the pearl of the orient on the left is the renamed pizza by the bay it was earlier known as jazz by the bay where live jazz was performed by upcoming artist every night i am not sure jazz is still played there mumbai is a fast city the concept of sitting relaxed eating and listening to music is probably alien to the metropolis these buildings were built when mumbai was just starting to grow into a metropolis when it did not matter if it was called mumbai bombay or bambai debatable issues which i have no wish to fall into i cross the road they to reach the marine drive promenade the sea beyond the walls is not as raging as i imagined it to be but still the waves splash the wall with little fury people on the promenade are a relaxed lot no office rushing people here i want to sit there and enjoy the sea and its breeze amu and i would sit here in the evening before marriage we haven t come here in a long time maybe we should again and maybe on a morning the mornings are much quieter here the occasional joggers with the whole music and pedometer and all that fancy gadgets and shoes and the whole attire the health conscious wear shoes i see a middle aged man with bright green t shirt and brighter green shoes thankfully he is not wearing any green shorts another jogger lady experiments with bright blue pair of shoes another jogger ahead is comfortable with mellowed down blue shoes a middle aged woman in salwar tries to run through her weight an aged man walks with a brisk pace they all try their own version of something called exercise a man in fifties is making a strange gesture of clutching his both hands and making a movement as calling everybody to him a closer look reveals that it his his version of exercise the young couples facing the sea oblivious of the surrounding there is more privacy in the morning a girl in a burkha comes along with her boyfriend love still find a way in a conservative society then there are those loners who sit by themselves watching the sea and there are the college kids who come in dozen admiring the early morning sea and sky servants of affluent families are there to walk the dogs i think walking with the dog is the best way to connecting with your pet i guess a dog has become more of a status symbol now a boat with two fisherman wobbles in the sea early morning catch it seems as i turn toward my office the clouds are just clearing up the sun shines through the clouds and the first bead of sweat breaks from my forehead an indication of the day to come maybe an extra 10 minutes than my normal way but mind recharged for the day posted in experiences life mumbai musings personal 4 comments amu and i may 29 2012 by full2faltu same time last year our house was in a major frenzy guest had arrived and i was getting ready for the big day it was strange being the centre of attraction me as a back bencher was suddenly on the stage with all eyes on me but then it went rather smoothly and now its been exactly a year since amu and i have been married wife has been asking me how does it feel the truth is i still don t know the happiness feeling is there but how does one have to feel after that completeness maybe probably certainly i wonder how i lived before her i was not unhappy before her i took life as it came and more or less it was a contended life even though it lacked that special someone besides me i think people who are never happy without certain someone or something are rarely happy after the someone or something in their life and now a year later does it really needs to be analysed on how it all went i would say no marriage has brought big changes in me and in my life i think i have become more responsible i have become more rooted marriage is about being responsible taking things as they come and adjusting to the other person s needs i ts about taking a step toward each other instead of expecting the other person to walk the distance seems like i have become more preachy too so the last year as the question was asked has been really good that it scares me i have been happy and with amu at my side more happier we both wondered how the first year would be and its finally here there is no celebration and nothing special we usher the anniversary quietly celebration are not needed as the whole year has been one big celebration hoping for the best and preparing for the worst wishing you a very happy anniversary amu posted in close to my heart events experiences friends family personal wife 3 comments the ugly truth may 6 2012 by full2faltu aamir khan made his debut on television today as expected the debut was different the show titled satyamev jayate plans to take up hard hitting realities of the indian society he hopes to involve the average indians in the issue to change the way we think and act against the social issues in india hope he succeeds but this is not about satyamev jayate the next few days people will debate how the show worked or did not its expected and a debate might or might not change anything the thing that got me writing was a post on fb where the person wanted to have a sense of positivity in the show as we already have many issues in the country i wanted to reply but did not how does making the show positive would change our thoughts toward the issue its like things are bad but somebody would be working on it but not me unfortunately i am too part of the same crowd who shout and do nothing couple of days back i hired a vehicle to take some guest around mumbai while dropping the guest at their hotel and returning back i got talking with the driver the driver originally from madhya pradesh was asking me about engineering and mbas the driver told me about his cousin who got married in his teens to have children reach colleges when he himself was studying his masters in medicine he explained how education was becoming a business educated individuals were more lucrative in the marriage markets an ias or an mba or a ph d was worth more in the marriage market father would want to get their girls married to highly qualified individual and would go to any price to secure the marriage in short grooms could be bought for a price the more educated the more pricey he was especially people working in government jobs he told me that an honest district collector can earn rs 10 lakhs and above knowing that government jobs do not offer that much salary i was curious to know how he told me that by honest he means that where the person does not make use of his position to earn money but where he automatically gets a share of all contracts in the district i may be old school but i guess that was not what honesty meant the definitions do change with changing times i know a person who s sister who is a professional herself got married and her family spent a fortune just getting her married the amount of money spent would get me a house in a small town the point is the truth is out there its ugly its real the world changing faster and the values changing even faster not something we can brush under the carpet its not going to change even if we sugar coat it maybe we will change it and maybe we won t but the first step in changing it accept it the rest will follow posted in experiences india personal thoughts leave a comment older posts search for august 2026 m t 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