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er person is being an idiot and unwilling to participate in civil and impartial discussion 5 back up planning in the sense of if x fails i will do y if x does indeed fail in reality i will most probably completely ignore y and proceed to z which i hadn t thought about initially 6 if i am invested in a project or task i will be more process focused what is the best way to proceed what is the best way to present this where can i get the perfect data for the task how can i fill all the information i can find into this project and make it look good if i do not want to do it it is hastily clobbered together with paragraphs taken straight from wikipedia and i think that s all i missed or glossed over in the previous ask hope this clarifies things thanks the specific thing i was curious about was argument style and this to me sounds more like ti i think the desire to see all perspectives and a belief in impartiality as a possibility comes from there which would make you an estp 9 30am url https tmblr co zbay8jfj_6thmy00 notes 4 filed under answered eheu vae mihi mbti estp march 4 2024 hi all i am closing my inbox for the time being i am going to answer what is already there but in case it wasn t clear this is no longer something i focus on and i have received multiple typing requests today i can keep up if i get one typing request every few weeks or months as i have been but this is already a busy week for me and i don t like things to pile up 8 29pm url https tmblr co zbay8jfjulhd8y00 notes 5 march 4 2024 anonymous asked hi em hoping you can help me figure out my mbti and or enneagram type or at least point me towards the right direction as a writer i do a detailed sentence by sentence outline for a specific chapter i m writing and overall rough outline for the book in life and in writing i can veer off the plan but as long as i have that end goal in mind i m good it s like seeing a train light in the fog you know it s coming even if you can t see it clearly yet writing for me is all about enemies to lovers witty banter power struggles and internal monologue just like my life lol i write best when it s episodic or shorter segments at a time i also need feedback the interactivity from fans to keep me engaged with routine i need some external push like deadlines from work classes or events to get me going if you say by the end of the week it will done early or on time if you say by the 15th i procrastinate or it s late it s weird how that works i also need actionable tangible steps to things otherwise i m lost cleanliness and organization are my jam not because i love order but because i love beauty i trust my gut and intuition for the final say with my heart making most of the decisions it has to feel right or i get physically ill aesthetics are huge for me i m all about beauty art culture and hedonism i love nature animals children reading solitude the supernatural the dark the taboo the mythical spiritual touch excitement and adventure good sex good convo beautiful clothes good food 100 me i m into enjoying life s pleasures and i spend a lot of time making sure my appearance reflects who i am it s not about others liking me it s about them knowing what kind of person i am upfront and they can do what that what they will i believe in fate but sometimes i get too passive waiting for things to happen instead of making them happen i prefer alone or with my partner vs others i don t like venting without having some sort of solution at the end some sort of action i get frustrated and i m like ok but what are you going to try to do about it doing can be crying talking or just giving yourself some time to think it just has to have an action i m quietly ambitious and if i want it i get it i hate complaining or sharing my problems preferring to work through things on my own but when i do reach out it s all about finding solutions getting that step by step guide to hitting my goals my emotions are private but i go nuclear if pushed too far i m not about revenge that s up to the universe and it takes too much patience and minute detail which just isn t me socially i m a bit of an enigma i ve faced bullying which makes me cautious in social settings despite being quite good with people one on one i m not into trends or networking it feels inauthentic though part of me wonders if it s because i feel like i have nothing to offer talking up my achievements feels awkward i d rather let them speak for themselves i m the person who sees the talent in others and isn t shy about pointing it out i have to know myself 100 i can t move forward without it once i hit a goal i m done and onto the next always striving for excellence competition motivates me but i m not cutthroat i work at my own pace based on my mood i m generally calm until i m not and then it s zero to a hundred i struggle to express anger healthily thanks to having to bottle it up when i was younger i m triggered by the following being called over emotional needy lack of personal space and control group projects noise for the sake of noise i worry about wasted potential and not living up to my gifts and talents hate being a second romantic choice option i am intense nicer than i look i m great at reading people in person because i can get a strong feel for their energy vibes and body language but online social media feels like a minefield where i m constantly misreading or attracting the wrong kind of attention i appreciate it em hi anon i am fairly confident you are a high fi user and i think with that in mind you are likely an se user the aesthetic focus is one part but also what you said about needing interactions to stay engaged with writing whereas i d expect an nfp to be sufficiently hooked on the conceptual aspect seems likely i personally think the topics that interest someone in writing are not really dictated by mbti but how one approaches writing definitely is high se is also generally the best in my opinion at reading people there s an attunement to body language my guess here is isfp the part about needing a routine to ground you procrastination without clear deadlines is more in line with perceiving though plenty of things eg adhd can complicate that and going through this in order it was that followed by the comment on inauthenticity that led me to high fi it sounds like you re an introvert in mbti but fairly comfortable with people which is not unusual for feelers i know a decent number of isfps and they tend to be quite personable but ultimately prefer to hang out with only a few people the ambition aspect is interesting though you see this in high se to be fair but much less so in the se auxes than with the se doms i m wondering if this is a relatively new thing especially if you re at a point where inf te would be starting to deepen 6 58pm url https tmblr co zbay8jfjt2wjee00 notes 4 filed under answered anonymous mbti march 3 2024 anonymous asked hi what do you mean by 800 characters is that 800 words for the ask trying to make sure i don t go over before submitting individual letters most word processing programs will count them for you here s an example from google docs alt i ll admit i probably haven t been doing a formal check on characters unless an ask is super long once the mbti community on tumblr got much smaller and i stopped posting actively this has not been a big time commitment the way it once was in general it s a reminder to keep from rambling it s easier and more pleasant for me to ask for more information about specific clarifications than to wade through pages and pages of irrelevant details thanks for checking 6 02pm url https tmblr co zbay8jfj7fk3iq00 notes 2 filed under answered anonymous description in alt text march 3 2024 eheu vae mihi asked hi em i hope you are doing well i wanted to submit an ask about what my type can be since i ve spent a year trying and failing to type myself and i need someone else s opinion 1 i do consider myself an extravert and will be the one who initiates conversation if it gets too awkward i like meeting up with friends it refreshes me though i only have one really close friend being alone and doing nothing for a long time makes me sulky and irritable the way conversations work with me is that i either get the other person started on a topic they like ask a few promoting questions and just listen to them or if they are introverted and do not like blabbing to someone they do not know i will talk enough to make them comfortable enough to contribute to the conversation sometimes just listening to someone talk to me make me feel better 2 i have been told i need to work on my social skills maybe because if i don t want to be friends with them or put someone at ease i usually won t be very nice just polite and maybe a bit curt my version of polite is different from what my mom s version is so i might come off as a bit standoffish i m not really sure about this one though 3 with my friends and close friends i will make a fool of myself say and do things i wouldn t if i were with someone else i don t know or if i were alone risky behaviour when with friends is common as a way to impress them maybe my close friend likes crafts but i do not have an affinity for them since they require alot of patience and i am impatient i would rather prefer to go outside and play sports with her but she does not enjoy sports compromises are necessary i do not like many team sports but prefer individual ones 4 i have also been told that i m argumentative and do not accept that i am in the wrong easily not a really positive trait and i will try to work on it if i think something is stupid i will state it as such but if it doesn t affect me in any way i will not speak up and let them decide for themselves i do not have an opinion on everything but if i do have an opinion on something i will defend it otherwise live and let live 5 when it comes to making friends i will not be close with those whose interests do not align with mine much recently i was part of a group who liked to talk about clothing choices of themselves and other and since i do not prefer such conversations i distanced myself but am still friendly with them not much but we still talk sometimes i have a few principles which govern my life which are also quite flexible i am nice to everyone since i believe that what goes around comes around i do not form immediate assumptions about the character of others but if they have some or the other characteristic that i dislike i will generally not try to be a friend of theirs 6 i prefer getting decision making out of the way and also make backup plans in case things do not go the way i thought they would i also prefer to remove things from my life that provide inconvenience many times people have been irritated when i suggested that if they are pondering too long about doing something or not they should just not do it if they wanted to do it they would have done it without much thought i am also trying to curb my tendency to do this as it is not very nice this has led to arguments in the family since some of them are overthinkers 7 i do not have a good memory and tend to make the same mistakes quite a few times before fixing my ways i can walk into a room to perform some task but sometimes forget what the task was i also have a bit of a laissez faire attitude towards things in general i think that i will not make a good boss or leader whenever i step up as a leader only under certain circumstances i will form an objective for the team distribute the work and tell them to have everything ready before the deadline i do not care how you do it when you do it as long as it is up to the mark and before time if i do not want to do something and think it is a waste of time but it is compulsory to do so the task will be completed last minute and will be somewhat on par with what is expected i will not plan much into the future but when i do it is usually a complex plan that collapses midway i have also been told that i am quite charming when i want to be whenever i overthink or overplan it is futile since my objectives will change midway through execution and i will deviate from the plan guaranteed lastly my close friend says that i am smart since i am able to tell her random facts that i had read once any insight you can provide will be wonderful and i hope you have a great day hi i am to be honest not sure there s a lot of evidence for thinking and sensing but while i definitely think you re a high se user i also am not sure if ti fits this doesn t quite fit the warmth of an esfp either though that feels more likely than estp breaking it down by individual points i think the key here is being alone doing nothing do you enjoy being alone if you re in a highly stimulating activity eg hiking individual athletic activities if so i wonder if you re an introvert in mbti with high se which would mean you still need a lot of external stimulation the main thing this tells me is that you re probably not someone with high fe i don t know your mother s type so i can t really make that comparison but this could fit high ti or the fi te axis generally this is fairly typical behavior generally in terms of being more open and willing to take more risks with friends than with strangers this again is strong evidence against high fe as high fe users often will be much more willing to engage with other people s interests and also tend to prefer team sports but i could see any of the other judging functions if you have some more specific examples especially how you would structure an argument that would help this is the point where i felt high se perceiver was the case so i don t think high te at this point since high te users are likely to come to a judgment more quickly this again feels very high se get out and do things se users are also fairly pragmatic you mention backup planning here and that gave me pause for a moment but the next section clarifies it a bit this is where i get a little stuck i am confident in high se especially in that your planning needs to be loose and allow for improvisation rather than tightly plotted and in that you tend to procrastinate uninteresting tasks the way you delegate feels very much like te vs ti that it gets done is far more important than the particular methods however i think it s also possible that if you are an se dom and don t care for leadership while you may have specific methods for yourself you don t want to spend the time imposing those on others socially it s interesting because it feels a bit more like fi but usually esfps tend to not be terribly curt they might be blunt but they tend to be fairly social and definitely team players i suppose the other possibility is that you re younger and your fe is still developing as an estp or that you are an istp who happens to be more outgoing hope this helps and feel free to follow up especially regarding what topics you tend to argue about and how you tend to...