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bedtime stories and good intentions wouldn t be enough to protect their family from irrevocable harm the crash july 29 seemed like a perfect day for sunday brunch after church chip suggested that the family visit the old depot a popular spot for lunch in johannesburg 10 miles from their home in gaylord at the restaurant the family ordered their meals unaware that in minutes their lives would change forever as teagan and brock dug into their pancakes jody tried to soothe wyndham strapped in her infant seat but before jody could pick up the baby a car came barelling through the front door and wall of the restaurant in an instant unimaginable devastation surrounded them the gaylord herald times called the incident a mass casualty that set in motion a massive multi county emergency response that filled the air with sirens for much of the afternoon ambulances rushed 11 injured victims including six children from the scene of a one vehicle crash into the landmark johannesburg restaurant to the hospital and then to otsego county regional airport where waiting medivac helicopters whisked the critically injured people to downstate trauma centers the crash prompted otsego memorial hospital to institute its code white mass casualty plan summoning all available medical staff to the hospital the entire ferlaak family was wounded chip who was knocked unconscious suffered eight broken ribs and injuries that required 80 stitches in his head later fluid in his lungs would become infected requiring a chest tube and a three week stint in the intensive care unit brock had three skull fractures published reports revealed that for a time wyndham was pinned between the wall and the grill of the car the force of this impact produced brain injuries that required a permanent shunt from the baby s head to her stomach jody was struck from behind and thrown into the air hitting a counter and tables before she landed despite extensive nerve tissue and muscle damage to her legs and heels injuries that would require a month in a wheelchair and heavy medication she was able to reach teagan s side horrifying images are etched in the young mother s mind i picked teagan up at the scene she was lying where her chair should ve been at the end of the table with a big gash in the back of her head based on what the doctors have told us most likely she was killed instantly as a mother when i picked her up i could just tell by her face and the blueness of her lips that there was no hope for her although the emergency workers performed cpr and brought teagan s heartbeat back she never regained consciousness a fact that brings her parents a measure of comfort basically in our minds chip said she s eating chocolate chip pancakes and then boom the next minute she s in heaven so she never knew anything in between that teagan was taken off life support the next day a criminal investigation after the accident revealed that the 38 year old woman driving the car had plunged into the building in an alleged suicide attempt although the driver walked away from the scene many of her victims were denied that opportunity besides the ferlaaks injuries a 29 year old mother of two lost her life and members of her family and a restaurant worker were also hurt final toll two killed nine injured picking up the pieces the ferlaaks pastor and family members quickly arrived at the hospital to offer support from the start the couple trusted that the lord was in control of the situation from the moment it happened we knew that christ was in control and we accepted whatever his will for us was at the time said chip i think that gave us such a sense of peace right away there have been plenty of days where we ve struggled but right off the bat we had such a peace that god was in control of our lives what was going to happen would happen but it was for god s reason we may not understand it now but somewhere down the line we re going to have our answers to why all this had to happen however circumstances at the hospital offered extreme challenges teagan was gone and their other children were listed in critical condition and flown to another facility furthermore chip s condition had deteriorated from serious to critical at one point i thought that i was going to lose everyone recalled jody amidst all of this there was a need to hold things together plans were made for a private family service after teagan s body was released from life support and her organs transplanted chip had to listen to the service in his hospital room via phone due to his condition it was tough not being there for that but you know at that point my whole train of thought was to get through this because my family needed me chip recalls chip and jody found immense comfort in the fact that on the day before she was killed teagan put her trust in christ in a memorial service held three weeks after the crash which was attended by more than 350 people 400 people attended a second service in minnesota jody remembered the simple prayers of her child it was just the day before teagan died i served her a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with the crust cut off of course for lunch she started to say her usual prayer this is what she said god is great god is good let s thank him for our food and i ask jesus in my heart and into brockie s as i turned back to where teagan was sitting she had a big grin on her face and she exclaimed mommy i just asked jesus into my heart and into brockie s too so in my heart i know for a fact that teagan is in heaven and that makes my heartache bearable a quiet homecoming days later an eerie quietness greeted the parents when they returned home from the hospital teagan was a spitfire very energetic said jody being the first child she kind of ran the household so it was a big empty feeling when we came home after spending all that time in the hospital chip agrees the house was just so silent i just wanted something to come crashing down i wanted to rub some cheerios into the carpet just crush em in there what would life be like without teagan their firstborn the little girl with the remarkable memory the child who loved barbie dolls the color purple and singing and dancing to her favorite cds how would they cope without the child who exclaimed after noting the changing leaves of autumn god must have gotten new paints last night jody explains what i missed were the things like washing her days of the week underwear and i would i d end up in a puddle of tears just trying to work through those daily routines there was such a void in my life losing teagan has been difficult for the other children too the statement that his sister was an angel who currently resides in heaven became an issue for brock during bedtime prayers he angrily pointed out that god took his sister away and insisted that god bring her back jody says that her son kept asking how can i get her down while brock talks about his sister and demands to hear stories about her the accident has touched wyndham in much more physical ways wyndham s prognosis was that she ll never walk or talk jody reports we re really working with her in therapy she s made a lot of progress and we re very hopeful that she may end up leading a fairly normal life as a couple chip and jody realize that the death of a child often puts strain on a relationship there are statistics about people who lose focus spring 2003 children and how marriages fail although this tragedy has been horrible we realize that it is not driving us apart we re keeping our marriage solid jody declares although there have been moments chip adds with a chuckle jody joins his laughter there have been moments it s given us new eyes and you realize why marriages end because some days he s having a good day and i m having a bad day or he s having a bad day you don t always feel the same or you just want to be angry and the other person feels differently about it we just look at it and say god s been with us every step of the way for a couple who has been through so much the ferlaaks are remarkably upbeat coming to terms with why the couple s faith in christ has provided them with comfort and hope jody who graduated from bethel with a degree in media communications was a believer when she met chip early in their relationship she invited chip to attend services at woodland hills church where one of jody s professors greg boyd serves as pastor i just knew that they might have a lot in common because greg also came from a catholic background and for chip letters from a skeptic boyd s best selling apologetic helped answer a lot of questions he was kicking around at the time three weeks later he was serving coffee and doughnuts with me we kind of went from there the couple s spiritual growth has been evident as they ve dealt with the tragedy jody observed as a mother if teagan would have run out in the front yard and been hit by a car i would be feeling guilty or wondering what i could have done differently but just the randomness of it and the fact that we had never eaten there the old depot was almost too coincidental why did we happen to be there at that moment you think god has to use it somehow that he has a big plan that we can t see yet but something good is going to come out of it we re just looking at it on the flip side of that coin in the months since the accident chip and photo by tara c patty jody have discovered that their story has touched others over the last year and a half many people have said that we re an encouragement or an inspiration even when we feel like we re falling apart said jody chip gives an example a close friend and his wife were considering divorce but teagan s death made them reconsider their plans we look at things like that and wonder how many people will come to the lord because teagan died it s hard now but a hundred years from now when we re in heaven we ll probably say it was worth it because families and people were saved sometimes that isn t a comfort in the here and now but i think in the future that thought will bring some comfort the trial god sent to us an angel by jody ferlaak we hope to dwell on memories how his angel blessed our lives with the way she smiled the way she laughed the blueness of her eyes we ll fondly think of nightly prayers and be glad we were a part of all the times she asked her god to come into her heart we know she rests with god today and oh what joy that brings yes god sent to us an angel we just never saw her wings in celebration of the life of teagan mackenzie ferlaak born on march 18 1997 went to heaven to be with jesus on july 30 2001 jesus said let the little children come to me and do not hinder them for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these matthew 19 14 the ferlaaks continued to lean upon their faith in the days that followed the woman who had been behind the wheel on that fateful day faced criminal prosecution for her actions although she had not contacted the ferlaaks or expressed remorse for the accident aside from comments made by her attorney chip and jody wanted to make a statement to the woman whose actions claimed their little girl s life obviously there is anger but both of us came to the realization fairly early on that there s a greater cause out there explained chip one of the basic tenets of the christian faith is that we re all sinners this woman didn t have christ in her life and perhaps because of that this event happened i felt we needed to send a message of christ s forgiveness to her some kind of hope as believers the ferlaaks knew that medications and doctors could not prescribe the peace that only the lord can give chip and jody wanted to tell the driver that in 10 years upon her release from prison they wanted to help her avoid repeating what happened we wanted her to get better to not be a miserable person for the rest of her life to us that would be justice for teagan said chip however reaching such a conclusion did not come easily jody remembers the emotional turbulence in the weeks and months leading up to that day in court i spent a lot of nights awake or awakened from nightmares as the sentencing came closer i had a lot of dreams i felt like jonah like god was saying go to that city and tell this woman to repent said jody i kept seeing her face in those dreams the inner conflict brought more pain because i felt so cheated out of teagan s life there was a part of me that wanted to see this woman get what she deserved jody continued but it was almost like god said i can t and won t let you do it i want you to give her a different message i couldn t shake the feeling that he wanted me to pray for her instead the ferlaaks had occasions to see the woman at preliminary hearings and court dates before the sentencing jody s changed attitude prompted her to view the woman differently every time i ve seen her i ve felt sorry for her and i feel like i ve been the fortunate one i was raised in a christian family i grew up with a dad who was a pastor and have known the love of jesus my whole life i could have been her raised in a family where there s abuse and alcohol a place where you know no love or hope court officials gave the ferlaaks the opportunity to stand behind the microphone and have their say at the court sentencing their remarks caught many in the court room off guard when we were speaking her the driver s family looked surprised recalled jody we laid out how she had affected our family what we went through physically what we ve dealt with and what we will deal with to paint a picture for her and then we left her with the sentiments that we hoped she would come out of this a better person she had ruined a lot of lives already but she shouldn t ruin her own she still had a chance at life the ferlaaks made it clear however that they were pushing for maximum civil penalties the driver s family members weren t the only ones astonished by the ferlaaks words and offer of forgiveness a lot of family and friends couldn t believe it said chip many said that they couldn t have done that in some ways that reaction has been good because it gives you a good avenue to share your faith the oprah winfrey show a few months later on april 22 2002 the ferlaaks told their story on national television the oprah winfrey show planned to do a segment dealing with forgiveness and was seeking viewers who had forgiven someone of a horrible crime with the statements made in court fresh in her mind from just weeks before jody e mailed details of their story three hours later the ferlaaks received a call from one of the show s producers since the program aired in two days oprah staff members were on the ferlaaks doorstep the next day they filmed two hours of interviews in our home said jody they work with really tight time frames so that night we flew with the producers to chicago and did the show the next morning they wanted us to recap our stories talk about what happened and how we re moving on with our li...