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stance 2 flu 1 fontan 1 hlhs 10 how chd changes your life 25 how to help 6 hrhs 4 insurance 7 international 2 intervention 1 legislation 6 lobbying 4 long term care 9 new treatments 6 news 25 non invasive imaging techniqes 2 organ donation 2 organizations 4 parenting 21 pediatric 11 pediatrician 1 poems 6 ptsd 1 public awareness 20 pulmonary valve 1 research 25 school 1 screening 4 siblings 4 sick 2 statistics 7 stem cells 4 stent 1 stories 19 sudden cardiac arrest 1 support 10 survivors 16 ta 6 teens 1 tf 3 tga 11 transposition of the greater arteries 8 valves 2 vsd 5 winter 1 thursday january 12 2012 depression anxiety ptsd identifying the need for intervention the mental health disorders known as depression anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder ptsd affect approximately 1 in 10 people each year collectively these conditions produce a multitude of symptoms such as feelings of hopelessness sadness guilt pessimism fatigue loss of appetite and even thoughts of suicide so it stands to reason that this particular issue is extremely serious when considering most families who have experienced a congenital heart defect could possibly suffer from one of these mental health disorders and it s no wonder so many people who deal with a chd either their own or a family member s on a daily basis may end up suffering from these mental health conditions they must deal with the emotional stress of the chd diagnosis the treatments the medical procedures surgeries and the constant worry about the life long health of themselves or their family member that being said it becomes urgently important to be watchful of the family members who deal with a chd be on the lookout for signs that someone may be suffering from one of the above mentioned mental health conditions for example if you notice someone is avoiding others seems chronically sad or always tired expresses feelings of extreme guilt worry or if they seem overwhelmed or have ever mentioned harming themselves then you know it s time to intervene when you do suspect someone is indeed suffering from depression anxiety or ptsd here are some suggested things you can do do a little research it never hurts to have plenty of information and resources if you plan on having any sort of intervention for someone who you feel is suffering sit down with the person and talk ask them how they feel what they re thinking let them know you and others are worried about them share the researched information you found most importantly encourage the person to seek help from a mental health professional you can even offer to accompany them let them know you are there for them encourage daily phone calls or visits offer to help them with daily chores etc some resources that may be of help http www cdc gov features depression http www mayoclinic com health depression ds00175 http www nimh nih gov statistics index shtml http www webmd com anxiety panic guide post traumatic stress disorder http mayoresearch mayo edu mayo research whiteside_lab publications cfm http www mayoclinic com health teen depression ds01188 posted by it s my heart at 6 01 am 13 comments labels anxiety depression intervention ptsd wednesday december 21 2011 preparing your child s school for his or her special needs although the school year has already begun it s never too late or early to think about what your child s school needs to know regarding his or her special chd situation and any time is a good time to consider what information you should provide to your child s school so they can better care for and support your child for starters it s always a good first step to schedule a face to face meeting with important school faculty members nurse principal counselor classroom teacher etc this will help all individuals be able to put a face with a name and to get to know your personalities expectations and concerns in a personal yet professional setting printing off some general information facts about your child s specific chd to take to this meeting is always advised copies should be given to at least the nurse and classroom teacher if your child s condition is severe enough that it will require a special needs counselor then of course the counselor will benefit from the information sheet as well during your discussion you should inform all pertinent faculty members of several issues one issue being your child s possible learning developmental problems since some children with chds can develop learning delays or problems let the teacher know you d like to be made aware of any signs of concerns the teacher may have during the school year that way you can address the concern with your child s doctor and get his or her recommendations another issue to discuss deals with your child s general health since children with chds can be at a higher risk of contracting certain infections ask the teacher to notify you if other children are sick also regarding general health the teacher especially the physical education teacher should be made aware that your child may require more rest or may be prone to tiring more easily there s also the important issue of the medical care that your child may need throughout the day medications procedures etc in these cases the nurse and teacher should obviously be well informed about the specifics your child s doctor would undoubtedly supply you with information handouts explaining your child s medical needs that could be given to the nurse an important if not the most important issue that most parents want to impress upon their child s school is that their child is a regular kid they should be treated as such it s important to let your child s school know your desire to have your child feel normal and included like every other child overall it s important to remember that while some children s chds are relatively simple and may not require any special care at school other children may need regular intervention and attention from school faculty members so it s imperative that parents evaluate especially with their child s doctor what exactly the school needs to know posted by it s my heart at 8 25 am 9 comments labels advocacy chd chd awareness school wednesday december 7 2011 choosing a pediatric cardiologist it s one of the most if not the most important decisions you will make for your child once he or she is diagnosed with a chd choosing a pediatric cardiologist when a diagnosis is made parents go through so many emotional challenges that this overwhelming task can seem daunting or even impossible but giving serious thought to who will give your child medical care is so important and so many parents struggle with exactly what to look for when making their pediatric cardiologist selection for their child after researching the medical community opinions and receiving parental input we ve compiled a list of some of the most important factors to consider when making that choice 1 referrals at first many parents are referred to a pediatric cardiologist by their child s pediatrician or a hospital pediatrician if the chd is discovered at birth but don t feel you have to use the particular doctor who is referred to you it s your prerogative and right to be able to search and find the cardiologist that suits your family s needs 2 insurance coverage although we hate to have to factor this into our decision making process unfortunately for many families treating chds can be a long and costly journey so knowing that your insurance will be accepted by the doctor hospital you choose is definitely something to consider 3 location in some cases families claim they are willing to travel anywhere to seek medical treatment for their child however if it s simply not a possibility for you ex work responsibilities costly travel expenses frequency of your child s doctor visits etc then definitely consider the proximity of the doctor s office hospital to your home 4 basic credentials this is obviously one of the most important factors what kind of education and training did the doctor receive is the doctor board certified in pediatric cardiology what types of procedures do they have experience with 5 experience with specific chd for many it s simply not enough to know that a potential doctor has treated patients with chds they want to be assured that the potential doctor has treated patients with their child s specific type of chd 6 doctor family relationship after having a consultation with this doctor does he she seem to be willing to work with your family and not just the patient in other words are they interested in educating and keeping you all informed or are they merely interested in treating the chd also do you get along with this doctor this may seem insignificant but for many parents finding doctors whose personalities are compatible with their own makes their treatment journey that much easier having said that this may be one area that most parents would sacrifice if the doctor is exceptionally talented in their medical field of practice even though this can be quite a stressful time knowing what to look for when it comes to choosing your child s medical caregiver can provide some much needed peace of mind posted by it s my heart at 6 14 am 6 comments labels cardiologist chd chd awareness insurance pediatrician wednesday november 16 2011 caring for and empowering your child ultimately no one knows how to better care for your child than you do as a parent you have instincts passion and most of all love all these things mean that you are perfectly capable of giving your child the best care possible however when you learn that your child has been diagnosed with a chd most parents can t help but wonder how do i care for my child we all second guess our parenting abilities from time to time but when you have a child with extra needs we may find ourselves second guessing our actions even more here are some specific things that parents of children with a chd should consider when providing care for their children although many of the day to day tasks such as special feedings looking out for signs of problems or complications or administering medicines actually become like second nature and relatively easy over time other issues within the realm of caring for our children are what cause us to doubt ourselves one of these issues involves how to treat our children when it comes to addressing their illness whether your child is diagnosed with a chd in infancy or later in childhood you ll have to explain to him or her things such as why they have a surgical scar why they need to visit the doctor hospital more frequently than some other children why they must take medication every day etc many parents think they can t handle or shouldn t address these issues however it is by addressing these issues and having these types of discussions with your child that makes your care for them even that much better besides communicating with and educating your child the main advice that numerous child psychologists and doctors will give regarding this issue is to encourage your child to become involved in their own care when if they are emotionally and physically able of course this makes children feel much more confident and in control children will most likely think wow if mommy and daddy trust me to take care of myself i must be doing great it s a great tool to empower your child and yourself depending on the level of care your child requires the doctor or other members of the medical team can give you specific instructions regarding how to incorporate your child in the caretaking process and at the end of the day involving your child in their own caregiving is the best way you as their parent can care for them as well posted by it s my heart at 11 47 am 2 comments labels achd adults cardiologist chd chd awareness congenital heart defect detecting chd development diagnosis facts how chd changes your life how to help parenting friday october 28 2011 keeping the balance amongst siblings it s one of those challenges that all families affected by a congenital heart defects chd face how to keep the balance amongst siblings there are so many issues that come into play when considering how to treat your children who are not afflicted with a chd there s a fine line you don t want to burden them with too many responsibilities or make them feel less important yet you also don t want to spoil them to overcompensate for the fact that so much attention is paid to their ill sibling how do you handle it where do you turn for advice we ve compiled some tips and advice that was gathered from other parents online resources as well as publications by child psychologists while it is very important that all siblings be informed about your family s specific chd situation it s important to set an example that it s not something we have to dwell on every day all children want to live as normal a life as possible so by educating your children about chd rather than making it a daily focus you ll be off to a great start in establishing a balance amongst your children and your entire family as well allow your children who do not have a chd to choose a specific responsibility in order to empower them this will let them know that you value their help yet you won t be burdening them with too many expectations for example maybe a sibling can simply be a reading buddy for your child with a chd remember to let all your children know how much you appreciate their help if they happen to be too young to actually be of any significant help at the moment you can always tell them how much you appreciate their understanding and patience when you have to assist or focus on their sibling who is sick although it can be tempting for many parents avoid spoiling your other children in an effort to make up for the attention you feel you re giving your child with a chd spoiling them can include giving an abundance of material items too much attention or even treating them with kid gloves as though they re too fragile to handle your family s situation they will grow up with a sense of entitlement or even resentment kids are smart they will eventually realize why you re spoiling them and will in many cases feel like they didn t truly earn the things you gave them or the over attentiveness you showed them encourage your children to express their feelings talking can be such a powerful tool when it comes to children it doesn t matter their age you can always adjust y our conversations by using developmentally appropriate language to answer their questions or respond to their statements be truthful yet simple and to the point with your children one story we came across involved an older sibling who asked why his little brother was sick he thought he did something wrong in this situation it was suggested that the parents have a real conversation with explanations that were simple and truthful for example you might say you didn t do anything wrong your brother just 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