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en have an inferiority complex when it comes to relationships they have a tendency to prop women of other races up on a pedestal while downgrading their own women a perfect example of this is when trick daddy went on a rant about white women being better than black women another example is the high number of black men in hollywood who start off dating black women then somehow all end up with white women no i don t believe this is a coincidence dating outside your race because of the stereotypes and stigmas associated with your race is shallow and vain and in the black community it can easily get you labeled an uncle tom this type of love is not pure nor is it honest it has no value because it is based solely on superficial constructs every person is different regardless of their ethnicity if your search for love is rooted in self hatred you re in for a rude awakening don t misunderstand me dating exclusively with your own race for reasons outside of love is no better there s nothing wrong with wanting to build within your own community it s not racist to want to see your people prosper take a look at the asian community for example in chicago they have become quite successful in establishing businesses and creating generational wealth for their people and they were able to accomplish this by dating exclusively with their own race in the asian community interracial dating is somewhat of a taboo black people as a whole still have a ways to go socio economically most of us have a loose understanding of the concept of building black wealth there is some truth in the idea that when you step outside of your ethnic group you re aiding another ethnic group in building their wealth for example when most black people enter into a relationship with a white person they tend to leave the black community if they re not already living outside the black community for the suburbs now if you read my last blog post and watched the video included with it you will understand why leaving the black community for the suburbs is not always a good idea if not i ll share the video with you again so when you leave the black community and move to the suburbs with your white significant other you re also taking your wealth and any resources you have along with you and giving them to another ethnic group now i know some people might be saying but what about the children biracial children are black too no biracial people are biracial and many biracial people don t like it when people try to label them as one race for instance taye diggs spoke about not calling his son black but of mixed race a lot of people ridiculed him for this but he was actually right in my opinion if you love who you are you should be able to love everything that makes you you we have to stop with this one drop rule nowadays it s too easy to be considered black that s part of the reason color ism has become so prevalent in modern society biracial people especially women have become the standard of black beauty this issue has been brought to light mainly due to the overexposure of biracial women as the face of black women in media advertising music videos movies etc i speak about this in depth in my blog post let s talk about color ism now keeping everything i just said in mind i have to acknowledge that love is not a financial transaction it is a natural occurrence the truth is you can t help who you love but being black and knowing our history it s very important that if you re in an interracial relationship that you take a good long look in the mirror and make sure that what you feel is pure because white supremacy and self hatred runs deep in all of us now everyone is welcome to their own opinion and i m open to hear yours but the truth is interracial dating is complex and people s motivations for doing it aren t always clear in an ideal world we would all love each other for who we are and not what we look like but the world is not ideal and what you look like can play a huge role in who you are and how you are seen in the world love peace posted on november 12 2017 and your self worth is ma te ri al ism a tendency to consider material possessions and physical comfort as more important than spiritual values oxford dictionary let s talk about self worth what determines it is it the amount of money you make the size of your house the location or could it be the type of car you drive what about the clothes and accessories you wear how do you calculate your self worth more money more problems i have come to find this statement very true the more money we make the more we spend the more taxes we have to pay the more troubles come our way in fact according to the huffpost once our basic needs are met wealth makes very little difference to one s overall well being and happiness and in fact extremely wealthy people actually suffer from higher rates of depression more money can be both good and bad but ultimately how much you make shouldn t determine how you feel about yourself what you drive and what you wear are also meaningless wearing a 200 pair of name brand shoes doesn t mean you re wealthy it just means that you spent 200 on a pair of shoes that cost less than 20 to make and as far as an expensive car the value of the car diminishes the minute you drive it off the lot so these things don t really say much about self worth either where you live is no better an indicator for self worth i partly understand the idea of making enough money to move into the suburbs i say partly because on one hand we all deserve better we all want to live in an area that makes us feel safe and secure we all want a better education for our children and nice neighbors sounds like the life but on the other hand its all just a facade just watch this video which explains why adamsknowsbest suburbs the fabled suburbs are just that a fable the property lines are a front and the mortar between the bricks is racism but many of us run from our communities to help these communities prosper there s nothing wrong with staying in the black community and revamping it think of it as an opportunity to build better because while what you can buy may not be an indicator of self worth what you can build is a start now i m not here to tell you what to do with your money that s not my place i m just asking what determines your self worth most of us put more into making our appearance stand out than we put into making our mentality stand out at the end of the day what s the point of trying to appeal to a bunch of people we don t know or care anything about it s not like other people determine our self worth do they posted on october 30 2017 family wealth in the black community why is the establishment of family wealth always overlooked in the black community many of us strive to provide for our children while we re here but forget that we can also provide for our children when we re gone meaning money wise we can leave our loved ones financially set for their future not only am i speaking of the importance of life insurance but also financial and non financial assets these three resources help to insure that your family can establish financial stability once you ve passed life insurance isn t something that you should want to push to the side no one s time on this earth is guaranteed so we shouldn t procrastinate on providing for our loved ones in the event of our death as stated by black enterprise life insurance can help blacks create multi generational wealth keep assets like homes and businesses and amplify their nest egg for retirement to name a few benefits it s already hard to lose a loved one financial burdens shouldn t be a part of the healing process not only can life insurance aid in your family s wealth but it could also benefit the community community outreach efforts such as charities churches and youth programs could benefit from your insurance financial assets in my opinion are the second key to establishing financial wealth assets like bank accounts stocks and bonds can be of great use to your loved ones after you pass in order to properly utilize these three resources you first have to educate your self about money and the stock market dr boyce watkins created a great program called the black stock market program just in case your interested invest in yourself another important aspect in the establishment of family wealth is non financial assets the difference between financial and non financial assets is that one you can physically see non financial and touch and the other is usually presented on a piece of paper financial non financial assets usually refer to real estate cars businesses equipment gold etc having non financial assets allows your loved ones to keep some of your items for their own usage or sell off your items for financial gain either way they can help your family accumulate wealth now i m no financial coach and i possess no degrees in business i m simply passing on some of the tips that i ve learned about establishing family wealth i encourage you to dig a little deeper and gain the knowledge you need to achieve financial stability because financial stability and family wealth give your loved ones a leg to stand on in the black community love and peace family posted on october 22 2017 let s talk about color ism color ism prejudice or discrimination against individuals with a dark skin tone typically among people of the same ethnic or racial group this word has been coming up a lot lately but many black people hate to admit that it exist as if dark skinned black women could make up the discrimination they face the disgusting things that are said about to them and let s not forget the feeling that you re not good enough those are just some of the obstacles dark skinned women and men face when combating color ism i m so tired of hearing but we re all black well we don t act like it i m pretty sure that you ve all heard or read about the hazel e situation and how she shamed dark skinned women well she said yea stupid right what s up with these celebrities and their disdain for darker women society already places lighter skinned people up on a pedestal and yet these celebrities still have the audacity to attack dark skinned women why must a person s skin tone be brought up during a disagreement or argument this reminds me of when tiffany new york pollard went off on laura govan for bringing up skin color when there was no need like new york said if you are black then why bring it up attention should also be cast on black men in hollywood you know the ones who start off with a dark skinned woman then start going lighter and lighter until they re with a white women then the next thing you know they ve become the black man disrespecting black women mostly darker women on social media must i again mention tyrese kodak black and gilbert arenas it s just funny how lighter skin is considered an upgrade if we as black people are going to work together we must first address the color ism that exist between us no one should be deemed better than anyone else based on their skin tone this is no different from what white people did to black people and are still doing til this day all black is beautiful why let something as small as the pigment of your skin separate us this is a conversation that must be had amongst our people til next time love and peace posted on october 15 2017 talking white listening to white music why you talk white why you listen to white people music two questions i was always asked as a child i never knew how to answer so i started to incorporate things into my life that i thought would make me seem more black i changed the music i listened to i changed the way i spoke but when i started to think about it both statements were dumb growing up in america the native language is english you re taught it the moment you start talking recently the school systems have started to teach spanish as a second language and chinese as a third but english is still number one so weren t we all taught to talk white english is a germanic language with heavy latin influences last i checked those were european languages we all talk white and yet for many of us we don t sound like white people what blacks have done unknowingly is create their own dialect we take words and sometimes create words and add our own unique meaning to them for example the word fleek which means extremely good attractive or stylish according to google this word was created by a black person and caught on very quickly its the story of many words and terms that are used in the black community black people are slowly creating a new language now about white music it s not a thing pay attention to the beat of some of these white songs sounds familiar right that s because almost all american music outside of the foxtrot was either derived from or influenced by black music most white music especially pop music is just white people singing over r b or hip hop beats for example christina aguilera gene in a bottle my all time favorite don t judge me all of nsync s music the majority of pink s catalog the list goes on you re basically listening to black music whenever you listen to music in general with living in this country you re either going to assimilate or go against the grain regardless of what you decide to do if you were born black you will forever be black no matter what your english sounds like so let s recap the english language was and still is forced on anyone who isn t white and there s really no such thing as white music except for techno and heavy metal y all can have that but rock pop and yes even country are still black music posted on october 8 2017 october 8 2017 the road to success suc cess the accomplishment of an aim or purpose the act of getting or achieving wealth respect or fame such a simple word it seems one doesn t know how complicated attaining success is until attempting to grasp a hold to its slippery hands depending on your background gaining success can be a challenge or a breeze we all want it but for many it will forever be a dream in the night i was always told go to college and you ll be successful college is a great path to success but its only one of many college is just a path it s not the path if you re going to college on hopes to come out making six figures you re setting yourself up for a disappointment as charted by the alantic african americans with bachelor degrees or higher have a 4 1 unemployment rate while whites with the same degree have a 2 4 unemployment rate 5 3 is the national unemployment rate among all americans now hopefully these numbers have changed because this article was written in december 2015 and this is not to discourage you or to sway you away from a higher education because education is a tool for success i just advise you to have a more long term plan i m seeing way too many people who possess college degrees but are working minimum wage jobs i m pretty sure ...