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lopers who didn t quite get the user experience figured out or the user who needs real help if blab thinks it s the user then here s my message to blab as that user go screw yourselves you arrogant nerds i remember such arrogance from 1999 and 2000 right before the internet 1 0 bubble burst and you nerds found yourselves unemployed by the hundreds of thousands rant over i understand that blab is still in a beta release stage this is a poor excuse for the lack of solid support other than live blabs with blab support people that live support by the way is very cool but i question if that s sustainable with growth the other type of support is users helping other users this is also unsustainable in the long run business users in particular won t be adopting blab for internal business purposes unless the platform doesn t require such hand holding regardless of who s hand is being held or who is doing the hand holding 2 small user base blab has been available since may of last year that s an epoch in internet time but the user base is still too small for the platform to be compelling with solid and diverse content there are rarely more than a few dozen or so available blabs to join most with under a dozen participants blab the company is not releasing its user statistics sure the current users are very enthusiastic but that applies to all early adopters of a product that hasn t yet crossed the chasm for blab that chasm currently looks like a vast gulf 3 user created content is inconsistent some blabs are well structured and compelling these discussions are usually focused around nerd talk or marketing talk that s understandable and serve to set a solid bar for future blabs that don t focus on these two topics the rest of the blabs are usually of folks simply talking idle chit chat about the minutiae of their personal lives this is understandable except that new users don t know the other blabbers and so don t understand the backstory behind the personalities think of those blabs like sitting down at a high school cafeteria table where everyone else is happily gabbing about stuff that the newcomer knows nothing about that s hardly a good way to get new users engaged with the platform 4 technical glitches still remain because the platform is still in beta for eight months the streaming video audio burps and farts way too much this requires the user to refresh restart clear the browser cache or a combination of all three in order to use the video feature the hot seat or even just watch as a lurker as well first time users who want to participate via video don t always get things to work right away these issues may not be because of real technical problems but without clear step by step instructions to guide newbies through the blab process such difficulties might as well be the result of technical glitches such glitches might also be the result of poor connection speeds or inadequate hardware but the user doesn t know that without explanation of some sort i don t know what s going with blab today is a too oft heard comment frankly blab doesn t yet know if it s a platform for real time discussions or a community of users who simply happen to be using the blab platform for such discussions if it s a platform there is much room for technical improvements if it s a community the users need to up their game seriously with better on topic blabs and less of the we re the cool early adopters and you re just barely welcome as a newbie while we gossip about other blab users you don t know mentality as a blogger and tweeter with a community of readers twitter followers and blog commenters i m keen to have discussions within my community and invite others to join in right now i don t think blab is the platform for that yet i m going to keep trying with blab however i will also be trying other platforms that seem less like a boot strap endeavor and more like an effort with clear progress towards maturity and milestones of good software development if you liked this post click the donate button or support me through patreon many thanks posted in good links here uncategorized 08 jan 2016 15 comments racism in dating not this crap again start here read the article do some research on the author then come back to this blog post here s a quote from the piece in 2014 the data obsessed okcupid calculated the odds of a user liking a profile on its tinder like service quickmatch when it comes to straight daters they discovered that women expressed a strong preference for men of their own race but one group of males fared particularly well outside of their race asian and latina women showed above average odds of liking profiles featuring white men note i m ignoring the part about the online dating website about white folks seeking white folks i ve written about this before and each time this accusation of racism in dating preferences erupts like an infected cultural cyst it must be cleaned up with alacrity first of all data obsessed is a great thing data shows patterns of human behavior data shows generalizations a good thing for helping to understand human nature don t like it tough shit sociologists and psychologists need such data okcupid has some of the best research of real honest human behavior based on real actions not some bullshit surveys rife with sample bias hey tracy clark flory how about my body my choice be applied to attraction preferences between the sexes imposing still more social expectations on attraction and dating won t make the process any easier such expectations only serve to increase personal frustration if a woman prefers one type of man where do you get the vile conceit that you can apply some sort of pressure for her to change her perfectly natural preferences dating preferences are private attraction happens between our ears away from the prying eyes of politically correct busy bodies anxious to transform dating into a delusional utopia wait there s more in a blog post okcupid s christian rudder refrained from labeling these preferences as racist on an individual level a person can t really control who turns them on and almost everyone has a type one way or another he wrote but i do think the trend that fact that race is a sexual factor for so many individuals and in such a consistent way says something about race s role in our society good for rudder he s a data guy not a politically correct guy he s also clearly aware of the perils of collecting such data ever hear of the term hate facts rudder certainly has so he selects his words carefully private human behavior is not politically correct what happens between our ears is the zenith of privacy if it s not spoken or acted upon until the thought police becomes real attraction can t be enforced by social justice warriors or even shamed by that same group of cultural miscreants tracy clark flory is attempting to play the race card in a game where she and her unpleasant ilk are unwelcome think of a party crasher with bad manners and poor hygiene attraction is not a choice it can t be shamed it can t be negotiated anyone who falls for such nonsense is clearly not ready for dating the ugly stink of political correctness must be washed off before attempting to start using online dating websites as well dating is not about achieving cultural ideals it s about fulfilling personal relationship goals let s wrap up with a last quote from the article in other words swiping right on a white guy seems more innocuous than navigating over to where white people meet but on a societal level it just might be a smaller expression of everyday racism everyday racism no everyday social shaming from you you horrible person i recommend that every online dating user swipe how he or she decides based on his or her own personal preferences this applies to everyone straight or not as someone who provides attraction and dating information based on reality i will never shame a woman into desiring a short guy i won t shame a guy into desiring an overweight woman something else i haven t mentioned in this blog post my own individual dating experiences and preferences why because it s none of anyone s fucking business if you liked this blog post click the donate button or support me through patreon many thanks posted in dating online dating good links here relationships the collective wisdom of men 21 dec 2015 50 comments a woman responds to a recent blog post i sometimes get some great comments the one that i received today is mid range it s worth commenting on but not worth letting through moderation the commenter a woman was motivated by this relatively recent blog post on feminine pleasantness the original comment is in italics my responses are in boldface wow that post was really unkind and unreflective of reality and by unkind i mean misogynistic and lacking in human compassion women are human just like men misogynistic i get that often enough this is because i violate the 11th commandment thou shalt not criticize women women are indeed human they also have patterns of bad behavior and character flaws that cause huge problems when it comes time for them to find an intimate relationship with a man we also do not want to hang out with men who cannot control their moods and who are grumpy and sullen day after day it is also not our job to make a man happy when he cannot find his own happiness i agree with this any adult man or women who doesn t have at least some control over their negative moods is nothing more than a child men in particular must control those moods women are cut way too much slack in this area also why is he grumpy and sullen bad day at work we also are attracted to men who can remain calm and smile through adversity replace the female pronouns etc in your post with male pronouns and vice versa and your post would be equally true again i agree men must be stoic in the face of adversity this is true strength and shows serious backbone catnip to women your idea that women are naturally one way and men naturally another way is false and silly this statement is idiotic common and predictable behaviors based on one s sex are well studied and well known of course you have an exception to those common behaviors which you mean to prove my assertions incorrect guess what cupcake you re using the logical fallacy of the example of one brilliant facepalm look beyond the solipsistic confines of your own experiences my husband had that attitude and that is why he s now single he believed he could stomp around the house and pout take me for granted and treat me however he wished and my job was to smile bake cookies and give him a bj his biggest mistake was stomping around and pouting but you said yes when he proposed but was he always like that or did you encourage him to be more in touch with his feelings guess what that stomping and pouting are expressions of his feelings ummm no not going to happen now he gets to smile at himself bake his own cookies and make friends with his right hand all while being a single parent 50 of the time and cleaning his own house and living off 50 less salary see how that worked out granted he is now working on finding the doormat of his dreams but thankfully it won t be me why 50 less salary oh right alimony and child support wait no child support 50 custody you re still getting child support with only 50 custody oh my regardless since you re getting alimony in the form of 50 of his salary that means he was the primary breadwinner congrats you won the divorce game there s a lesson here guys additionally women would not be required to be so strong and independent if they could actually rely on men but the biggest complaint i hear from women my age early 40s is that having their husband is like having another child men of a certain age have been taught by women to let the women be more strong and independent you think men want to be hopelessly dependent i agree that s awful but here s a solution to all you strong and independent women disgusted with the state of men today date other women as for men being like kids in the house how are they at work oh right those women have no clue but i m sure they reap the benefits of those men s salaries you know what s a huge turn off for a women being incapable emotionally psychologically verbally around the house with the kids etc if your wife has to take care of you like a child she doesn t want to sleep with you too because that s gross she doesn t want to service you at night after doing all the stuff you were incapable of doing all day in addition to her own tasks um back to his salary he seems to be capable of that and please don t spew that it s all about his money crap you re taking alimony remember that s his money however in the scenario you described perhaps he s getting alimony from you if that s the case you go guy she doesn t want to have to help you identify your feelings and use your words in conversation and then do you later not sexy guys and if you don t want to hear a women speak her mind get a prostitute i think it was billy idol who said i don t pay to sleep with them i pay for them to go away that was charlie sheen by the way ok you re contradicting yourself here on one hand you want the man to be stoic in the face of adversity and now you re talking about helping him with identifying and expressing no doubt his feelings pick one guys while she s trying to sort that out without her brain overheating let me help be stoic in the face of adversity also when a woman speaks her mind is it valuable to him does it really add to the conversation and even the relationship if not women must activate that ol verbal filter far too often speaking her mind is code for i m gonna bitch and moan and inject verbal drama in your life but don t stop making a salary if you want your wife to sleep with you and then pretend she doesn t have thoughts feelings and concerns in life marry a prostitute and pay her day rate every day there are more than a few guys who think that s the current state of marriage of course they re still not getting the sex they paid for doh this whole comment is nothing more than men do it too yeah some do but i don t write like that i also stand by my assertion in the original blog post that kindness pleasantness and caring are wonderfully feminine traits and men must screen for those type of women during the dating process keep those comments coming if you liked the blog post click the donate button at the top of the page or support my patreon efforts many thanks posted in good links here rationalization hamster the collective wisdom of men the eternal solipsism of the female mind 19 dec 2015 6 comments frame three quick personal stories it is both a blessing and a curse to live in a town where all the locals know or know of everyone it s a unique place because it s surrounded by a large metropolitan area fort lauderdale but once across the bridge over the intracoastal waterway the 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