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me up the parking spot we found everything led up to me being at that exact spot at the exact moment when she happened to peer out of her window only later as i signed the lease and had a beer with her did i find out that fabie s partner had broken up with her in march hence why she was escaping as far north as she possibly could for a year her and i were in the same boat les atomes crochus i spent that year sipping a lot of coffee at the café across the street and drinking wine on my rooftop watching the sun set behind mosques and church steeples and then the moon rise over mount royal i lived on a street lined with fruiteries and boulangeries terraces filled with happy people enjoying happy hour the ymca and library a few blocks away in the fall k dropped off some of my boxes we had a moment of weakness loneliness can make you do regrettable things but the thing is i thought it would be this amazing thing i thought maybe it would be the end of the end and the start of something new but it wasn t turns out i was over him the idea of him all those months had been far more appealing than the real thing and i knew it from the second he arrived on my doorstep but i followed through anyways and then i found out that he had a girlfriend back home let s just say what s on everyone s mind shall we what a douche move eh some things never change any shadow of a doubt that might have remained had now officially vanished after saying good bye to that last glimmer of hope that i had held onto for so long i finally felt free and to celebrate my newfound freedom i booked tickets to europe i took six weeks off work to backpack across england spain and italy it was scary as hell but also the most exhilarating thing i ve ever done that decision and those six weeks would change the course of my entire life i unleashed a whole lotta jeanine on that trip and i kept unleashing when i got home i was like a high school kid jacked up on hormones i went out i had fun i wasn t a harlot but i made up for some serious lost time montreal was my playground good old universe sure did come through for me in the end i couldn t have asked for a better spot or a better city to help me through that chapter of my life casgrain avenue montreal quebec july 2009 june 2011 soundtrack future islands tin man the walkmen in the new year arcade fire the suburbs tv on the radio love dog calvin harris disco heat fabie came home and i was once again on the lookout for an apartment i found my flat on casgrain through a friend of a friend of a friend the place needed some serious work every single wall was painted blood red even inside the cupboards or dark turquoise it felt oppressive like maybe someone had sacrificed chickens in there but the location was fantastic and the rent was reasonable and my postal code sounded like something out of star wars h2t 1x2 and it was right by the tracks i do love a good train track and there was nothing a bit of paint couldn t fix it took weeks a ton of help quite a few cases of beer and many yard sales and garbage finds to get that place in tip top shape but i got there in the end i loved my apartment on casgrain it was the first time i d ever lived anywhere that was my own not me and a roommate friend boyfriend it was all me which is why it s strange that i hardly have any photos of the place either before or after the only ones i managed to find were taken with my friend s fisheye lens when she came to visit one december evening and we drank waayyyyy too much wine and maybe even had an impromptu dance party life on casgrain was good i took writing courses at concordia university had my first ever article published went to squam bought a film camera spent a lot of time on skype with my main squeeze saw my favourite band play a surprise free concert in a parking lot outside of montreal snuck up on countless rooftops went to osheaga and the jazz festival and a hundred gigs in between and cycled everywhere on my beat up bike with the milk crate on it and i developed a friendship with a coworker that made my time in montreal the special time that it was roma was a bit of a stray cat mistrusting of other humans ours was a long and slow road to what is now a life long friendship when i think of montreal i think of roma and i on rooftops drinking jameson s listening to music or wading ass deep in alligators at work and stopping at our favourite dive bar la petite idée fix e after a day of wading ass deep in alligators popcorn and weird g chats and too many cigarettes i can t imagine montreal without her in it and that s why even if i went back it would never be the same and i wouldn t be who i am today without those two years on casgrain they were two of the best years of my life it took a while but in the end i found my way back to myself and i liked that girl but i was also madly in love with a man who lived across the pond 5 218km away dilemma in april i made a decision in may i quit my job in june i sold most of my belongings on june 21st i waved good bye to roma from a taxi cab took a massive leap of faith across an entire ocean and moved to london for the next crazy chapter of my life if you want to read about other places i ve lived check it here 3 comments from nablopomo places i ve lived the single montreal years november 29 2016 rue fullum montreal quebec february 2008 july 2008 soundtrack sia some people have real problems entire album i left nova scotia on valentine s day with a broken heart and a suitcase it was a battered brown suitcase the same one my mom gave to me when i left home a decade earlier the suitcase she most likely traveled with when she landed in canada in 1975 the rest of my meagre belongings were packed in boxes and stored in the house k and i had bought and renovated together our first and last house i had been a serial monogamist for most of my life four years with my high school boyfriend and then only a brief hiatus before diving into the next relationship that would take me through my twenties and into my thirties twelve years k and i were together when i boarded the plane that valentine s day in hindsight the departure date was probably a massive subconscious fuck you to the man who broke my heart i didn t have a clue who i was without him i was like one of those dogs that s tethered for so long that even when you unclip the chain he stays close to the peg the peg had become over the years something that made me feel safe and the idea of venturing out past the threshold was daunting untethered i didn t quite know what to do or where to go i landed at my friend kat s place a sanctuary from the storm she fed me wholesome food she looked after me she helped me get back on my feet i wanted to stay with her forever but i couldn t delay the inevitable i hopped on a train to montreal my cousin amy picked me up at the station in her beat up car i think she had to hold the car door shut while she drove because it kept opening it made me laugh she made me laugh everything was going to be ok then not ok then ok again over and over for months to come i moved in with amy who s boyfriend was training for the beijing olympics and was away for most days of most months she had a spare room i set my bags down i didn t cry but i wanted to i reckon she opened a bottle of wine it may have been before noon within a month of moving back i found a temp job at pwc it was the first time in a loooooong time that i got paid a decent wage i got my head down i worked hard once in a while i d call k from a phone booth at the corner of our street there were affairs to settle mostly house stuff but i think it was habit that kept me calling he said he missed me and i told him that he didn t have the right to say such things even though i missed him too i don t know what i would have done without my cousin amy s constant support sense of humour and unwavering enthusiasm when i emailed her with the news of our breakup she promised to try to make me smile and she did everyday we joined a yoga studio together we went climbing she introduced me to her friends she took me out dancing we got completely hooked on lost and watched the montreal canadians play all the way through to the stanley cup semifinals until they lost to philadelphia we ate a lot of hummus drank a lot of wine my family took me in whenever steph was in town friends took me out all the time there was so much goodness and kindness and generosity still it was a tough winter never have i been so happy to see crocuses poking through the snow a thawing a new life i turned 33 in that apartment on fullum i treated myself to my dream dslr i started to take photos i started this blog photography and writing got me through the tough days august rolled around the olympics were about to start soon steph would be home for good it was time for me to flap my fledgling wings jump from the nest and fly into singlehood proper the search for an apartment triggered all the feelings that i d managed to keep at bay for those first five months it made the end of my relationship feel more final than the day i had left perhaps i had fooled myself into believing that my stay at amy s was a layover on my long flight back home after all i had no strings tying me here a temp job and no place to call my own but with the offer of a permanent position and the search for a one bedroom apartment my stay no longer felt temporary it felt very real very permanent and no matter how much i tried to sugar coat it with images of freshly painted walls and vintage pyrex dishes it was still me sitting on my couch me eating leftovers me watching a movie me lying in my single bed me sipping a glass of wine me alone there was no us in this reality and that was a tough pill to swallow note going down memory lane is making my brain hurt you guys so i m gonna have to leave part two for tomorrow 1 comment from montreal nablopomo places i ve lived dear wren 17 mo november 28 2016 dear wren it seems like it was just yesterday that i sat down to write your 16 month letter where has the time gone and where have i been and how have you changed so much in the past 30 days you re certainly not the same little girl you were last month or even last week or even yesterday for that matter it s all so fleeting and i wish i had a giant pause button some days your new addiction this month hats your milliner uncle would be proud you point at every single hat you see whether it be a flat cap or fedora or bike helmet on people in books on billboards and hooks and then tap the top of your head to let me know that there is a hat over there mama a hat isn t it the most exciting thing you ve ever seen you do the same with the moon and the stars you spot stars in every card and magazine and shop front no matter how small and trust me with christmas right around the corner there are stars everywhere you open and close your hands to make the gesture of a twinkling star keen for me to sing the song again for the 15th time that day i tell you when you get hooked on something you ride it to an inch of its life you finally finally say mama in its proper context you pointed at me the other day and said mama so enthusiastically that i nearly burst into tears this does come with its drawbacks however case in point whenever daddy toots you now say mamaaaa disapprovingly much to your father s amusement he says this is undeniable proof that i m the farter in the family i m not sure that s a title i wish to hold i don t think you have any favourite foods this month as in nothing much satisfies you you did however taste your very first pb j in the car on the way to grand dad s last weekend and you devoured it i grew up on pb j so you d think i d have an aversion to the stuff but every time i eat one which is once in a blue moon it feels like i m taking a bite out of a hot summer s day it s the sandwich of holidays and road trips and days at the beach the month of november is the month of fireworks here in the uk they start way before guy fawke s night and continue well after it weeks after it night after night after night of feeling like i m in a war zone or a gigantic popcorn machine i like fireworks i really do i just like to go to them not have them come to me when i least expect it from every which way for hours on end still i wasn t about to be a guy fawkes scrooge and stop you from enjoying these little colourful explosions in the sky and so one night i rushed you to the window and pointed them out to you and you my dear did not appreciate the gesture they completely petrified you i had to step away from the window far away from the window and for the next 30 minutes you wrapped your legs tight like a vice grip around my waist and kept one watchful eye on that window and said byebye that repeatedly until you were satisfied that your mantra had worked and that the pow pow pow had stopped you haven t evolved much on the language front it s all dish and dash but you love to make sounds you make monkey sounds o ooh ooh ahhh ahhh when we call you a monkey which happens a lot and you do the same with owls hooo hooo although the words aren t quite there yet you understand pretty much everything in both languages eyes ears mouth nose chin your own mine daddy s friends and i m sure strangers if i d let you dog cat lady bird pig hen owl star shoes cheese pretty much anything in the house and in your books and from here to the park you love to lay all of your bunnies on the floor like they re sleeping and then i sing the bunny song and we make all the bunnies hop hop little bunnies hop hop hop and then you lie them down again and again and again as you may have noticed from this letter everything these days is done over and over again you imitate everything but my very favourite is the way you go around the house tapping your nose saying hmmmmm inquisitively when you re trying to find something or solve a problem as if in deep thought it s insanely adorable i also love the way you hand over your lovey monsieur lapin when you have a difficult task at hand a chair to climb stairs to descend a snack to eat here hold this mama so bossy i m sure i m missing stuff seems like so much has happened this month stomach bugs interviews the death and funeral of a dear friend and now a lovely sleep rebellion to kick off this new month a regression that has you fighting your naps and suddenly not being able to fall asleep unless we are in the room with you and all of us awake from 11pm to 1am when you decide that it s time for a wide eyed wren rave it s not cool kid but i get it you have a lot of stuff going on up there so we re doing our best to help you transition to give you the tools and the cuddles you need so much of the happiness that i have in this world is thanks to you you crazy haired crumpet the joy you bring to us is immeasurable unquestionable it makes up for the worry the exhaustion the dinners left untouched the tantrums i m going back to 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