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vism gender politics sex work sexuality embrace june 18 2011 tags ben sollee cello embrace inclusions by ben sollee from inclusions released 5 10 11 leave a comment from music video yes i am an introvert june 17 2011 tags introvert top ten myths about introverts by jerry brito myth 1 introverts don t like to talk this is not true introverts just don t talk unless they have something to say they hate small talk get an introvert talking about something they are interested in and they won t shut up for days myth 2 introverts are shy shyness has nothing to do with being an introvert introverts are not necessarily afraid of people what they need is a reason to interact they don t interact for the sake of interacting if you want to talk to an introvert just start talking don t worry about being polite myth 3 introverts are rude introverts often don t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries they want everyone to just be real and honest unfortunately this is not acceptable in most settings so introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in which they find exhausting myth 4 introverts don t like people on the contrary introverts intensely value the few friends they have they can count their close friends on one hand if you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend you probably have a loyal ally for life once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance you re in myth 5 introverts don t like to go out in public nonsense introverts just don t like to go out in public for as long they also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities they take in data and experiences very quickly and as a result don t need to be there for long to get it they re ready to go home recharge and process it all in fact recharging is absolutely crucial for introverts myth 6 introverts always want to be alone introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts they think a lot they daydream they like to have problems to work on puzzles to solve but they can also get incredibly lonely if they don t have anyone to share their discoveries with they crave an authentic and sincere connection with one person at a time myth 7 introverts are weird introverts are often individualists they don t follow the crowd they d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living they think for themselves and because of that they often challenge the norm they don t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy myth 8 introverts are aloof nerds introverts are people who primarily look inward paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions it s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them it s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them myth 9 introverts don t know how to relax and have fun introverts typically relax at home or in nature not in busy public places introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies if there is too much talking and noise going on they shut down their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called dopamine introverts and extroverts have different dominant neuro pathways just look it up myth 10 introverts can fix themselves and become extroverts introverts cannot fix themselves and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race in fact one study silverman 1986 showed that the percentage of introverts increases with iq 4 comments from random birthday books may 26 2011 tags amazon birthday books fiction presents writing i was lucky to get a great number of books given to me for my birthday well i got the huge amazon gift card and did all the choosing myself the first book rape a love story by joyce carol oates arrived yesterday since i used about ten different sellers via amazon this gift receiving thing will likely stretch on for another week maybe longer below is the list of books i ordered on monday alphabetical by author the art of war for writers fiction writing strategies tactics and exercises james scott bell the write great fiction collection bundle james scott bell nancy kress 2011 writer s market deluxe edition robert lee brewer mr wrong real life stories about the men we used to love harriet brown ed sex slaves and discourse masters the construction of trafficking jo doezema a visit from the goon squad jennifer egan on writers and writing john gardner charles johnson the living of charlotte perkins gilman an autobiography wisconsin studies in autobiography charlotte perkins gilman et al the crux charlotte perkins gilman sugarbabe the controversial real story of a woman in search of a sugar daddy holly hill on writing 10th anniversary edition a memoir of the craft stephen king the lover s dictionary a novel david levithan mystery and manners occasional prose flannery o connor et al blonde a novel joyce carol oates rape a love story joyce carol oates edit a couple of books now crossed out on the list couldn t be shipped leave a comment from books for writers belated birthday presents may 23 2011 tags amazon birthday books presents though my birthday was last week last night a lovely friend sent me notice of a belated gift including many books from my amazon wish list i ve been in a state of pure elation ever since in the event there are one or two of you who would also like to give me with a belated birthday present info about my amazon wish list is below i no longer include a link to the list on the sidebar and i ve actually organized it into multiple lists priority buy first sex work writer s politics activism entertainment art for home non amazon wishes for my home both the priority and the entertainment list include entries relevant to sex work but i thought it best to keep each item limited to one list i also gave priority to the items i want most from each list marked either highest or high on the right hand side of the screen when viewing a specific list i also believe in getting the cheapest item so check for third party sellers with books in good condition no writing or highlighting please gifts or not i still love you but i do get a special tingle when i receive a package in the mail 1 comment from random new addiction may 20 2011 tags tumblr i am full on addicted to my tumblr that is where i ve been the past couple of weeks and that is likely where i ll remain for the time being at least until i get bored 1 comment from blog talk the condom with teeth may 18 2011 tags africa cnn condom female condom military rape sonnet ehlers south africa south african doctor invents female condoms with teeth to fight rape this is the condom with teeth it is a condom specifically made to protect women from rape it is inserted like a tampon and won t hurt the girl only her attacker when the man thrusts into her the condom clasps down and can only be removed surgically it was invented by south african doctor dr sonnet ehlers and it was inspired when the dr treated a rape victim who said sadly if only i had teeth down there the condom is being given out in south africa and to women in the military i can t help but wonder if this won t lead to greater physical injury to the woman perhaps death as a result of retaliation from the attacker 2 comments from gender hiv aids sexuality dancing with the ms fairy may 12 2011 tags solumedrol steroid infusion unc that is what i am doing this week in north carolina hopefully i ll get back to my country home this weekend such is life at least mine my friends are taking great care of me though and i couldn t ask for much more on that front leave a comment from multiple sclerosis minor update april 21 2011 the conference on southern literature was splendid and i am sorry i have not provided an acceptable update i have pages full of quotes and thoughts i also left the conference with pages full of story ideas as well as a list of books to read i ve been working on those things instead of tending to the blog each time i sit down to write about the conference i get stuck on another idea and off i go in a different direction i updated my good reads profile with a few books but for now the blog gets very little love leave a comment from blog talk books conference on southern literature april 12 2011 tags authors chapel hill chattanooga clyde edgerton conference on southern literature conferences dorothy allison durham elizabeth spencer fellowship of southern writers midtown dickens north carolina southern literature tennessee tivoli theatre the 16th biennial conference on southern literature organized in conjunction with the fellowship of southern writers takes place april 14 16 in chattanooga tn and i will be there being able to count one s self as a southern writer puts one among impressive company william faulkner harper lee flannery o connor mark twain dorothy allison tennessee williams eudora welty and zora neale hurston just to name a few i ll have the pleasure of hearing dorothy allison speak twice on friday on thursday morning they re showing landscapes of the heart the elizabeth spencer story a documentary film named after spencer s own memoir spencer lives in chapel hill north carolina and will speak before the film i m also interested to hear clyde edgerton speak and i must admit it s because i am friends with his daughter catherine who is one half of the durham duo midtown dickens this weekend i ll be sure to report on what an amazing time i had 1 comment from events for writers music book for writers april 11 2011 tags writing advice 75 books every writer should read the site linked above features an excellent list of books for writers i ve read a few of them and a few more were already on my to read list before i saw the post for a look at what i have read lately visit my tumblr blog leave a comment from books for writers ten rules for writing fiction april 11 2011 tags guardian uk margaret atwood writing advice by margaret atwood 1 take a pencil to write with on aeroplanes pens leak but if the pencil breaks you can t sharpen it on the plane because you can t take knives with you therefore take two pencils 2 if both pencils break you can do a rough sharpening job with a nail file of the metal or glass type 3 take something to write on paper is good in a pinch pieces of wood or your arm will do 4 if you re using a computer always safeguard new text with a memory stick 5 do back exercises pain is distracting 6 hold the reader s attention this is likely to work better if you can hold your own but you don t know who the reader is so it s like shooting fish with a slingshot in the dark what fascinates a will bore the pants off b 7 you most likely need a thesaurus a rudimentary grammar book and a grip on reality this latter means there s no free lunch writing is work it s also gambling you don t get a pension plan other people can help you a bit but essentially you re on your own nobody is making you do this you chose it so don t whine 8 you can never read your own book with the innocent anticipation that comes with that first delicious page of a new book because you wrote the thing you ve been backstage you ve seen how the rabbits were smuggled into the hat therefore ask a reading friend or two to look at it before you give it to anyone in the publishing business this friend should not be someone with whom you have a romantic relationship unless you want to break up 9 don t sit down in the middle of the woods if you re lost in the plot or blocked retrace your steps to where you went wrong then take the other road and or change the person change the tense change the opening page 10 prayer might work or reading something else or a constant visual isation of the holy grail that is the finished published version of your resplendent book source features lists by many well known fiction writers guardian uk leave a comment from fiction for writers ten steps to publication april 10 2011 tags jennifer weiner novelist writing advice this evening i thoroughly enjoyed jennifer weiner s blog post so you want to be a novelist the first step is perhaps my favorite 1 the unhappy childhood the big joke in the publishing community is that smart editors shouldn t waste their time at lunches or conferences but should instead proceed directly to the local elementary schools there they will carefully note the boys picked last in gym class the girls sitting alone in the cafeteria all of the outcasts misfits geeks dweebs and weirdos and give them some kind of small identifying tag much like wildlife services will tag animals to follow their progress through the years twenty years later the editors should track down the kids they ve tagged now hopefully grown to more successful adulthood and say okay where s the book i am ready for step six get a dog i was already aware of that need she does put read at step ten possibly out of convenience and i would place it at two or three i think it s no less important as a foundation than the unhappy childhood and the miserable love life leave a comment from for writers funny reading writer s notebook april 6 2011 tags epistolary notebook writing advice i have dozens of writing notebooks from the small ones that i keep in purses to the standard college ruled variety that litter my home there is always a notebook within arm s reach the principal object in the epistolary novel i m working on is a notebook wherein the protagonist organizes her thoughts before writing overly long overly personal letters to a select group of loved ones needless to say i found this blog post fascinating and i think it s definitely worth a read through by every aspiring writer leave a comment from for writers update april 6 2011 tags compartmentalization tumblr for now most of the earlier posts are still hidden and i haven t activated the new archive site yet truthfully i m not quite sure where to go from here i m sure i ll bring at least a bit of the old stuff back i just need to get the new part of the changes straightened out first reading my blog is sometimes a bit too much like being inside my head as for new i m finally making use of my tumblr as a place to discuss whatever books i m reading interesting book related tidbits from other tumblr users will also find their way in i was surprised to find out i had a jessicaland tumblr i have at least a half dozen other tumblr blogs most of them being completely random names no one would connect to me apparently at some point during my frequent yet inconsistent episodes of screwing around on tumblr these past few years i was smart enough to secure the one name that really matters go me leave a comment from blog talk books ben weasel broke my heart march 21 2011 tags ben foster ben weasel first world manifesto screeching weasel south by southwest sxsw after watching of video of this i feel nauseous heartbroken and embarrassed to be a fan leave a comment from gender music punk video changing things march 18 2011 around here it 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