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years ago books long post korrasera nonbinarypastels image description screenshots of a series of tweets by a user named valeriehalla that read ok i m scared to exist online right now even in what we should be able to consider safe spaces for queer folks i m scared because we are all watching continually as more and more of us are violently picked off and destroyed by other queer folks and by people who claim to be sympathetic to us utilizing the same rhetoric that should be helping and empowering us the word discourse at this point is only ever used sarcastically and with a kind of quiet dread by my friends we joke about being problematic but me my peers and maybe you too live in a state of constant low anxiety over the fact that we don t get second chances to make mistakes if you re a queer person of any kind of visibility it s one and done the well of patience and compassion runs deep for our cis straight allies and we reserve nothing for ourselves this is assuming you even make a mistake we target each other for complete bullshit just as often weeks ago i was chased off twitter for using the word queer before that i was getting death threats over fabricated purity politics friends of mine have been targeted with callout posts over things they didn t do or for weird fandom drama with zero material impact i m not trying to absolve any of us of guilt we ve all done and will do wrong things we ll hurt each other again and again it s easy because we re all a little bit fucked up over here we re carrying wounds we re weird we re not always presentable but that s exactly why we need patience and compassion for each other more than anything else because those wounds make it so easy for us to destroy eachother and some of y all may be tempted it s easier when it s some 20 something queer artist struggling to meet half the poverty line it s easy to run them off for hurting you i get why it s tempting for some folks because this is power that you can exert a situation you can change when we re all so tired and so used to being powerless but please understand that the folks you re targeting may not come back from it they may not ever come back it s happened it will happen when you mark someone as unsaveable and irredeemable in the only space they have to exist in they can t exist anymore end of tweets just to make something about this crystal clear and this is something that i think many people will recognize about these tweets the situations that valeriehalla is describing aren t just the result of people punishing honest mistakes some of these things are straight up authoritarian bullshit perpetrated by people who are trying to create power structures in the lgbtq community this is what it means to be a terf a transmedicalist truscum or an ace exclusionist this is the environment they re trying to build one where other people in the lgbtq community have to live with fear and anxiety of the kind of authoritarian bullying that these people try to create it s really important to push back on this stuff anytime we see it because authoritarians actively work to spread their malfeasant ideology they lie and manipulate in order to spread their message because they honestly believe that anything no matter how immoral is justified in pursuit of their core goals and their core goals always involve hurting us all of us they only see three types of people those that agree with them and are allies those that don t agree with them and are enemies and those people who they hate and will only ever attack we fight them by not letting them get away with it we fight them by educating people about their tactics and their evil we fight them by protecting those of us who are young enough or immature enough to still be vulnerable to their recruitment tactics and we win by never giving them an inch ever in a fight where one side believes only in the oppression and eventual destruction of the other there s no middle ground to be found they are wholly wrong in their beliefs and they re willing to hurt people in service to them 7 years ago authoritarianism queerphobia long post bullying suicide mention tw blooming wilting what i hate about callout culture it leads to mass reporting and false reporting this then leads to staff either by acting on false reports without looking or by employing bots to act on their behalf to terminate innocent blogs due to staff being overworked and possibly understaffed it also means that appeals get overlooked and delayed i wouldn t mind this so much if reasons could be given for why terminations took place beyond standard copy paste emails what examples of rule breaking what posts which blog it leads then to a climate of fear as people who have been terminated based only on false mass reports can t speak out as they fear their appeals will be overlooked many appeals are and i have friends who months or years later still haven t been given reasons for their terminations it also means people are afraid to use the site in general as no one knows what will lead to a termination as no reasons are given for existing terminations amidst all this the harassers get off scott free one today i saw was labelled something like youarenotamapyouareapredator which is encouraging people to mass report with false reports and has created a campaign to false report even aesthetic blogs these people along with porn bots hate speech blogs and illegal blogs are allowed to remain while people engaging in debate or discourse and abiding site rules are banned people need evidence for any accusations laid against them people need examples of any alleged violations it s unethical to terminate without proof you have created a system in which people can start campaigns as that user has started to erase any dissenting voices that they dislike while innocent people are afraid to speak up lest they be terminated too i broke no rules but i was terminated i was not given reasons or examples or evidence meanwhile my harassers continue with their campaign to target other innocent users why are tos being selectively applied added to that why is the entire account deleted not just the accused blog why is a person forced to lose contact to friends their follow and followed lists and all their content without proof or evidence simply based on mass and unfounded accusations why not just suspend the accused blog until evidence can be ascertained without terminating the entire account 7 years ago callout culture tumblr vaspider pangodillo vaspider kirbylovesyou replied to your post impuretale socialjusticeichigo thefriendsinmyheadthatilove if ur ace just date someone who also doesnt want sex there r non ace ppl out there like that if ur ace obvs dont date someone whos non ace n loves sex like u gotta date ppl who want the same thing in a relationship romanticly or sexually wtf is this post there is way too much to unpack here maybe someone else can explain why ace doesn t mean never wants to have sex i am a allosexual and b too fucking tired i m pretty fucking tired too but you know what let s have at this wrt aces having sex asexual does not mean has no libido asexual dos not mean celibate asexual means does not experience sexual attraction if you need help understanding this let me use myself as an example i get horny sometimes it has nothing to do with the people i see around me or whether i think they re pretty so yes i m an ace with a libido because libido is not the same as attraction wrt aces and allos being compatible or not incompatibility is a mutual state it s never you are incompatible with me and that s your fault it s always we are incompatible with each other and that s nobody s fault incompatibility is also based on a hell of a lot more than ace or allo identity or libido or celibacy there are aces who can be and are happy in highly sexual relationships there are allos who can be and are happy in entirely sexless relationships don t assume that i m not ace and this is how i feel about sex so this is how everyone who isn t ace feels about sex once you ve made that assumption you re automatically wrong if you personally are not going to be happy in a sexless relationship by all means don t be in one nobody s asking you to but that s a negotiation that needs to happen between you and your partner s not between you and the entire concept of people who don t want to have sex dang this is some good shit 7 years ago asexual relationships metradell vyorei don t mind me i m just screaming about all the empty neighbourhoods in my country that no one can move into because private builders want to charge hundreds of thousands of euros for them and no one can pay so they sit empty while children and adults sleep on the streets here in the cold and dumbfucks blame refugees instead of the government who should fix this by seizing the properties and publicising them also i don t care how much was spent on them it s evil to create homes and deny them to people because you re n...