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don t let s talk skip to content don t let s talk home book list wish list have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful january 27 2013 after all this time and all the things that have happened i m going to come back with the most boring post on earth i have been working on decluttering our house and i feel the need to document i think that means i am beginning to feel overwhelmed again i have been working on working on purging our crap for ages but now i am really doing it i mean we have been getting rid of things but it never seemed to make an impact overall and now i am doing it systematically which either works better or is more obvious and makes me feel better i think the big difference is that i just became unafraid of the trash i have a deep fear of throwing things away i am terribly offended by wastefulness my breakthrough has been along the lines of sunk costs that it is just as wasteful to leave crap unused as to throw it in the trash in the same vein the crap is already here so i just have to let go of my guilt over having things that are waste better trash in the trash than trash in the house and in the future we can try to create less of it but what s done is done this is the category of stuff that has always frozen my cleaning efforts the stuff that can t be donated shouldn t be kept but isn t really trash it s not food wrappers and dust bunnies it s underwear and socks that no one wears things that are only a little broken that pillow the dogs started sleeping on that really is beyond cleaning the other major improvement is that i think i ve finally found a filing system that we will actually use i think this entire process is actually about admitting your weaknesses recording them in great detail and tricking yourself into functioning despite them at least i ve tried the admitting your weaknesses and fixing them route and it has always been an utter failure anyhow filing the main point of interest here is that i finally realized that having a filing system in your office is for organized people it is not for people who create mountains of paper inside their door so we have taken the filing to the mail because clearly we do not take the mail to the filing so we have a file box and a recycle box directly inside the front door i have also realized that file folders that tell you what is in them are also for organized people mine need to tell me what the hell i m supposed to do with all that paper as well so everything is labelled not only dogs or house but also scan replace or keep it s a bit embarrassing to get direction from inanimate objects but it seems to be working oh and anything that we need to deal with stays on top of the table because really how else are we going to remember that it exists other than that it s just a matter of doing it i ve been taking the house piece by piece with a pile of boxes and bags donate trash recycle and then stuff that has a place and needs to be put away and stuff that i don t even know where it goes the first four categories are easy to deal with the last so far just serves the purpose of getting all the place less stuff in one place instead of all over the house well that and not sidetracking me trying to figure out what to do with xyz doodad at some point though we will have to deal with it overall i am really pleased with how it s going noting that i am terrified to deal with our craft supplies and i have resigned myself somewhat to the kid shit as foster kids everything of theirs goes home with them an important rule to keep shitty foster parents in line but a bit excessive also that and we are storing things like outgrown clothes and toys they re too young for for future kids and we have a lot of kid stuff just sitting in boxes lady brett don t know where this is from but it feels true it s a good thing our kids are cute 3 comments from domesticity things i do thoughts and ideas vote november 6 2012 i love election day it has an energy about it i am also of course dreading it but mostly on a local scale so here s to voting you did vote yes and here s to turning on our television again and to seeing if i still have the energy to stay up for the results am i aging oh dear lady brett 2 comments from politics things i do yabba dabba doo october 31 2012 happy halloween wilma fred bambam and pebbles and dino saur leave a comment from crafting life in general fat unicorn is fly as fuck october 18 2012 fat unicorn is fly as fuck fat unicorn does not need your validation fat unicorn knows she is beautiful lady brett jamie found this a few days ago it makes me giddy still 2 comments from life in general love politics queer i must live with my quiet rage october 1 2012 i have to brag on my boys this story is secondhand as jamie does most of the carting the kids about to various appointments in this particular case they were there with their sister who is in another foster home and her current foster sister and foster mom clear as mud so the score is two parents two two year old girls and our boys two and three after a few hours in a waiting room and a number of other interesting forms of entertainment such as making 9 year olds cry the girls decided to entertain themselves by pouring their chips on the floor and jumping on them at which point meathead marched over with his best angry face and really no one does angry face better and yelled no mowgli followed up with make mess go timeout i m so proud being a hardass has it s merits man sometimes i feel like an asshole though of course the only other person we know raising toddlers is also the only person who doesn t think we are too hard on them coincidence lady brett lovers eyes mumford sons jamie loves me you can see this by my new cd leave a comment from domesticity life in general vignettes meathead and mowgli september 6 2012 in light of a bit more time to get to know the kids and a new and truly awful haircut i would like to properly introduce our boys meathead the younger the name is entirely the fault of the unfortunate haircut we have been considering a leather helmet for him of course his toddler pudge angry face bow legged toddler swagger slightly outgrown clothing and grunt point form of communication all play beautifully into the stereotype and mowgli the elder name coming from propensity to careen through muddy yard in a diaper or less waving sticks also because the above may cross the line about no photos and check that facial expression lady brett 2 comments from domesticity life in general neener neener august 23 2012 so what i really wanted to do right now was post a 10 second video that i find perhaps unreasonably hysterical but since wordpress is extraordinarily picky about embedding video i am instead going to direct you to the whole damn thing which while politically curious is kind of a pain in the ass because what you really need to do is watch the last ten seconds of this rachel maddow clip curse you wordpress oh it just makes my day lady brett leave a comment from politics please don t shit your dozer august 20 2012 and other thoughts on foster care i m going to skip for now the parts about how kids are gross and loud and don t ever let you fucking sleep as well as the finer political and social aspects of the system in order to focus on the part where kids are hilarious and cute the little one almost immediately started calling jamie mama as he only knows about three words also stop and popop which depending on the context means either grandad or puppy i suppose the latter is probably pupup but he doesn t enunciate the difference well anyhow as his vocabulary is limited he doesn t refer to me at all but we generally assume that in his head i am referred to as that bitch that lives with mama judging by how he shrieks at the top of his lungs if i pick him up and sometimes simply if i touch him or deign to be in his general vicinity oh yeah and especially if i am getting snuggles that he wants which is any of them the three year old simply referred to jamie as her for the first week or two despite that he does know her name but has begun calling her mama as well i on the other hand am exclusively referred to by name or as him a source of endless amusement he has also been terribly confused by the fact that my place of work is a converted house leading him to ask him s going home every time we got in the car for the first week as well as the doubly cute him s going to home to work now that he has half a grasp on what s going on in other news kids clothes are adorable but inefficient in that skin is so easy to clean and cloth fairly difficult hence the title situation in which the child decided that a diaper was so totally overdressed for the ride on bulldozer while simultaneously announcing i need to poop fortunately for the bulldozer but unfortunately for the potty training efforts that hasn t the least to do with his actual need to poop but rather has to do with his love of talking about poop real or imagined lady brett 1 comment from domesticity gender life in general vignettes how come things never go smooth august 7 2012 step 1 approved to foster possibly this is step 301 but we ll start here for simplicity step 2 miss placement call because we use crappy go phones panic because it seems a lot more real panic that they called like two days after we re certified panic that we missed the call don t hear anything else for a few weeks step 3 get call from panicked little sister type person who thinks she is pregnant because she is work through options with her step 4 decide to adopt an infant in about 8 months turns out that you don t actually have to be the one growing a baby to be nauseous during pregnancy step 5 get placement call from the agency who clearly understood one kid between 3 and 5 to mean two kids how about barely three and twenty months say yes step 6 puke in shoes which may feel less and less like a figure of speech as time goes on so how has your week been lady brett that d be a firefly reference not a song leave a comment from life in general things i do make sure you run to something and not away from july 26 2012 points of note i chopped my hair off last night not all of it but it s about chin length it needs a bit of cleaning up but i m pretty happy about it i decided to just cut off the ponytail when i realized that basically no matter how it turned out i couldn t dislike it any more than i had grown to dislike my long hair we are officially certified as foster parents we don t have a placement now but it s all set up i m so tired of how dragged out the process has been that i m almost not terrified nor excited about it at this point i was thinking about our money recently and i realized that once jamie is working full time again we can probably pay off the house in three years it s not exactly a short term plan but it s not long term either assuming the best that is jobs that puts us about six years away it s funny i ve read so much financial advice and the wisdom is that paying off your mortgage early is unreasonable because you can make more interest investing your money than you pay interest on your mortgage but as jamie pointed out that assumes that the point is to make the most money whereas the real point is to have the most freedom and i am boggled by the freedom that owning our house would give we will have to wait and see how feasible this is in the end but it s an appealing idea lady brett the weight of lies the avett brothers 2 comments from thoughts and ideas older entries hello you chaps can i help you sir g a consuming desire buddhistfemme aeroveracity dylan ariel ariel ariel butch girlcat leo maccool button street ella femme fluff laurynx just like jesse james my mister mrjamie sexuality happens essin em sugarbutch chronicles sinclair sexsmith what is it with dykes and guitars vic when or if frowzyboy alphafemme bird on the wire cody the coquet em the 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