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r may operate in saying this i m not making a judgment about this man s guilt or innocence but the actions described by the plaintiffs are ones i have seen many times before it is my hope that if anyone affected by this case should find this blog you can find some help and additional insight about dealing with the issue of alleged abuse in the church in the articles in the right sidebar of this site and under the church abuse tab filed under abuse and the church abusive leaders in the news abuse the church predators sex abuse tagged abuse of power church abuse clergy abuse clergy sex abuse molestation pastor abuse sexual abuse spiritual abuse leave a comment is your spouse or pastor a serial bully posted on september 30 2009 by dannimoss this information blew my mind it describes my ex husband so precisely it s just spooky i ve known quite a few pastors who fit this description as well please note this is not a gender specific problem the gender of a serial bully can be female or male this applies in marriage the bully could be a wife rather than a husband it also applies in church leadership the female serial bully may be a sunday school teacher pastor in some churches elder deacon board member women s leader etc the serial bully is a convincing practised liar and when called to account will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment has a jekyll and hyde nature is vile vicious and vindictive in private but innocent and charming in front of witnesses no one can or wants to believe this individual has a vindictive nature only the current target of the serial bully s aggression sees both sides whilst the jekyll side is described as charming and convincing enough to deceive personnel management and a tribunal the hyde side is frequently described as evil hyde is the real person jekyll is an act excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive uses excessive charm and is always plausible and convincing when peers superiors or others are present charm can be used to deceive as well as to cover for lack of empathy is glib shallow and superficial with plenty of fine words and lots of form but there s no substance is possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will outmanoeuvre most people in verbal interaction especially at times of conflict is often described as smooth slippery slimy ingratiating fawning toadying obsequious sycophantic relies on mimicry repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a normal human being and a tough dynamic manager as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly cannot be trusted or relied upon fails to fulfil commitments is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development whilst language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult the bully displays the emotional age of a five year old is emotionally immature and emotionally untrustworthy exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual matters sexual behaviour and bodily functions underneath the charming exterior there are often suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual harassment perhaps also sexual dysfunction sexual inadequacy sexual perversion sexual violence or sexual abuse in a relationship is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy holds deep prejudices eg against the opposite gender people of a different sexual orientation other cultures and religious beliefs foreigners etc prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret is self opinionated and displays arrogance audacity a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability has a deep seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her professed compassion is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say do think and believe for example will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence but aggressively maintains the right to talk usually unknowledgeably about anything they choose serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst simultaneously refusing to value praise and acknowledge others their achievements or their existence shows a lack of joined up thinking with conversation that doesn t flow and arguments that don t hold water flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you ve never had a proper conversation refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer is evasive and has a houdini like ability to escape accountability undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary a potential threat or who can see through the bully s mask is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise collate incriminating information about them is quick to discredit and neutralise anyone who can talk knowledgeably about antisocial or sociopathic behaviors may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to held them accountable perhaps using others resources and contemptuous of the damage caused to other people and organisations in pursuance of the vendetta is also quick to belittle undermine denigrate and discredit anyone who calls attempts to call or might call the bully to account gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to is highly manipulative especially of people s perceptions and emotions eg guilt poisons peoples minds by manipulating their perceptions when called upon to share or address the needs and concerns of others responds with impatience irritability and aggression is arrogant haughty high handed and a know all often has an overwhelming unhealthy and narcissistic attention seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful kind caring and compassionate person in contrast to their behaviour and treatment of others the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others is spiritually dead although may loudly profess some religious belief or affiliation is mean spirited officious and often unbelievably petty is mean stingy and financially untrustworthy is greedy selfish a parasite and an emotional vampire is always a taker and never a giver note from danni on this one i would say never a giver unless there is a hidden motive of manipulation to gain is convinced of their superiority and has an overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership but cannot distinguish between leadership maturity decisiveness assertiveness co operation trust integrity and bullying immaturity impulsiveness aggression manipulation distrust deceitfulness often fraudulently claims qualifications experience titles entitlements or affiliations which are ambiguous misleading or bogus often misses the semantic meaning of language misinterprets what is said sometimes wrongly thinking that comments of a satirical ironic or general negative nature apply to him or herself knows the words but not the song is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion and fabrication sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially when engaged in attention seeking activities or evasion of accountability and is often a committeeaholic or apparent workaholic filed under abuse and the church abusive leaders child abuse child sexual abuse domestic abuse family abuse relationships marriage relationships tagged bully domestic abuse domestic abuse and the church domestic violence marital abuse narcissist 2 comments pastor jose campoverde charged with child sex abuse posted on september 29 2009 by dannimoss pastor jose campoverde has been arrested on suspicion of molesting four girls in his church in anaheim ca according to the linked article campoverde is being held in lieu of 500 000 bail on suspicion of lewd conduct with a minor sexual battery child annoyance and false imprisonment it is my hope that if anyone affected by this case should find this blog you can find some help and additional insight about dealing with the issue of alleged sexual abuse in the church in the articles in the right sidebar of this site and under the church abuse tab filed under abuse and the church abusive leaders child abuse child sexual abuse in the news abuse the church pedophiles predators sex abuse tagged abuse and the church child abuse child sex abuse church abuse clergy abuse clergy sex abuse molestation pastor abuse pedophiles predators sexual abuse spiritual abuse 2 comments church volunteer angelo serrano charged with child sex abuse posted on september 28 2009 by dannimoss church volunteer angelo serrano was arrested for suspected sexual abuse against a 10 year old boy he has been charged with one count of first degree sexual abuse it is my hope that if anyone affected by this case should find this blog you can find some help and additional insight about dealing with the issue of alleged sexual abuse in the church in the articles in the right sidebar of this site and under the church abuse tab filed under abuse and the church abusive leaders child abuse child sexual abuse in the news abuse the church pedophiles predators sex abuse uncategorized tagged abuse and the church child abuse child sex abuse sexual abuse spiritual abuse leave a comment pastor jessica banks sentenced for child abuse posted on september 24 2009 by dannimoss southern california pastor jessica banks was sentenced to life in state prison last friday for abusing her five adopted daughters who were beaten daily fed spoiled food and hidden in a garage according to the linked article jessica banks 65 of moreno vally was sentenced to 36 years and 8 months in prison along with two consecutive terms of 15 years to life superior court judge richard hanscom in riverside described it as the worst abuse case he had seen however the moreno valley woman denied any wrongdoing and her attorney said an appeal was planned it is my hope that if anyone affected by this case should find this blog you can find some help and additional insight about dealing with the issue of clergy abuse in the articles in the right sidebar of this site and under the church abuse tab filed under abuse and the church abusive leaders child abuse in the news abuse the church tagged abuse and the church child abuse clergy abuse pastor abuse leave a comment former youth pastor john picard sentenced for sex abuse posted on september 24 2009 by dannimoss former youth pastor john picard was sentenced to 40 years in prison for sexual battery with no possibility of parole according to the linked article picard was convicted on all 42 counts of sexual battery at the end of a six day trial the former youth pastor used coercion to form sexual relationships with six female parishioners it is my hope that if anyone affected by this case should find this blog you can find some help and additional insight dealing with the issue of clergy sex abuse in the articles in the right sidebar of this site and under the church abuse tab filed under abuse and the church abusive leaders in the news abuse the church predators sex abuse tagged abuse and the church church abuse clergy abuse clergy sex abuse molestation pastor abuse sexual abuse spiritual abuse leave a comment next page subscribe by email because it matters top articles protestant clergy sex abuse when an accusation is made touch not god s anointed what the bible says about judging accused church leaders what to do when a pastor is accused of sex abuse when a pastor is accused is 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