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nubian pages home about this blog wednesday october 17 2018 words i remember this phrase sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you so well as we were taught it in elementary school a feel better phrase when you reported someone bullying you to your teacher a phrase that is a brush off because you re wasting their time and that is the best they could come up with growing up portuguese we were always a part of the joke hey nubian why does your brother have a mustache because he wants to look like your mother and the jokes went on i was made to feel less than and that it was somehow a privelege when i was invited to a friends house i was 17 when a friend s father told me i was nothing and would be nothing a man who beat his wife regularly and his children feared him a bully i have always tried to deflect people s unkind words they do hurt but i try and envision the water on a ducks back i take a few deep breaths and move on just a little thicker skinned i recently learned that someone i have known for a long time made a terribly derogatory comment about me it hurt the comment implied that i was of loose morals i cried i cannot think why this person would say something so hurtful and i guess i will never know what caused that venom to spout from their mouth i never understood the teachers who were cruel to us growing up the friends who snickered and made jokes the whispers in the village about those portuguese children i never understood why we were targeted what had we done wrong as i get older i have a better understanding as to why how miserable someone has to be that they tear anyone down in order to make their little chests puff out and strut around letting everyone know of their self importance i truly am blessed to have a mother one of the strongest women i know who is incredibly wise who has always kept the family bond tight and taught us to always hold our heads high my sisters and brother who are my rocks and are prepared to wrap me up in a blankie and take on my fight my husband and son who softly talk to me to calm me down as my portuguese blood starts to boil and my hands start moving as rapidly as my mouth as i sit here writing my blog and trying to think of why people are cruel i remembered something my mother always said to us growing up we don t have to keep up with the joneses because we are the joneses i told you my mother was wise 3 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest saturday may 26 2018 the insanity sea pink armeria maritima i have just finished reading an article in the news today about 1 500 immigrant children that were taken from their parents and that the us government has lost track of where they are the president recently stated that immigrant children are not so innocent and i cried when did the insanity begin i feel as though i am spiraling down a rabbit hole unable to grab hold of the slick oily sides i find myself crying more when i think about the children the children that come through the court system the children that are left behind the children that are taken from their parents crossing the us borders escaping for a better life i cannot even begin to imagine the fear that many people south of the border live knowing that the journey under darkness with only the clothes on their back may get them imprisioned but yet are willing to risk it all to provide a better life for their children i cannot fathom the pain the parents go through as they put their children onto trains to start the dangerous journey to cross the border because if they stay they are forced to join gangs and then when they finally reach the promised land they are handed back to their government and face death from the gangs they refused to join when i heard that the gop recently wanted to cut 23 billion from food assistance programs i cried how is that okay my head is having a really hard time in trying to wrap around the fact that so many in the gop who profess to be christians but yet their inhumanity to those in need is far from what christ preached how do people still justify voting for a person who showed his true colors but was the lesser of two evils i will read an article and then proceed to yell rant and cry to both bear and t and they just wait until i exhaust myself then we discuss dissect and figure out what we can do to make a change i am surrounded by amazing caring compassionate people and i know that i surround myself by people such as this because i was raised in a family who never turned anyone in need away my mother always instilled in us to find a little bit of jesus in everyone no matter how bad they were i have to admit though that i am still struggling to find jesus in the current president though last weekend bear and i went to harvest mussels at the beach and we came across flowers that were growing on the rocks i was in awe of these beautiful perfect pink blooms growing in a less than ideal environment and it made me realize that beauty and hope can bloom from adverse conditions and i cried no comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest sunday october 29 2017 letters to the court the most favorite part of my job is reading the letters people send to the court the office will be quiet and i will hiccup laugh out loud and my co workers know that i have found another gem all the letters are scanned into the system and are public information i sometimes have to wonder if people realize this this past week i was scanning in a file and came across this gem needless to say this person has multiple offenses so this made it even more funny to me your honor this letter is in hopes of a solution for both of our interests i am sure my continued presence has become very irritating for you as i know it has me sometimes one has to laugh at the littlest things in life otherwise we allow the ugliness of the world to weigh us down i hope my blog today brought a smile to your face 1 comment email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels laughter letters to the court your honor sunday september 17 2017 social media and communication some will get the point of this photo social media has brought the best and worst out of people and currently it seems as though the worst is prevailing i recently deleted my facebook page as i found that the personal connection between friends and family was being lost by likes and status updates i had also made the mistake of allowing people into my world that i had rarely any social contact with when someone posted something that i felt needed challenging i was told oh this doesn t refer to you or why does she always challenge what you say i am a huge proponent of free speech not stupid speech spewing garbage that isn t factual or has no basis for the argument but purely follows the leader mentality is stupid speech a few years ago i deleted my facebook account as i had become discouraged by the fake life that people were posting that decision came about as a dear friend of mine had passed away and from what he portrayed on facebook couldn t have been further from the truth it was devastating to me that i had been so naive into believing his life was as he played it out to be on facebook it was 5 years before i reactivated my facebook account it has now required more effort on my part to stay in contact with people to send texts cards or postcards to go back to the old school way of communication looking back on my childhood and teenage years we stayed in contact more with people and surrounded ourselves with the people we cared about it was easier back them to slowly phase people out of your life with social media an unfollow decision creates backlash and venomous texts as we grow older our circle becomes smaller because i have discovered i have less time or patience for people and their bull shit i will continue with my blog when i feel the need to vent or share and i will make a more conscious effort to stay connected with those i love and care about as far as the others are concerned well maybe i should send them the photo above 2 comments email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels communication face to face facebook life social media wednesday august 23 2017 she should smile more photo credit i am privileged to be surrounded by some very strong women in my life i have friends and family who are at corporate executive level positions some are doctors who are blazing trails in their research and a few who own their own companies these women are strong tenacious and when seated at the conference table they lean in i was recently having a conversation with a friend who was lamenting how her boss who is female is so unapproachable and when pressed more her response made me think she stated that her boss would listen to employees ideas but then tell them why they couldn t be done her emails were straight forward and to the point which came across curt and she made changes to improve work flow and the adage if it is not broken why fix it was expressed i listened to her as her words flowed and it is when she stated that her boss was a bitch did i decide to interject with my thoughts i asked my friend what she thought of her other boss who was at the same level as her female boss but happened to be a man she stated that her male boss was very direct but got things done and when he made suggestions to changing the work flow it worked and his emails were to the point as he was a very busy person i felt that i should point out the similarities between both her bosses but somehow the female was made out to be the bitch while the male was an executive who got things done her response was well she should smile more i had to smirk as i had a vision of a dear friend who lives in belgium and who is quite formidable in the corporate world look at my friend and say what a load of rubbish in her very proper english accent i have been in high level corporate positions where i would be at the conference table and many a time was asked questions that would not be asked of my male counterparts at one conference i was asked why i wasn t home raising my child and taking care of my husband a male counterpart told me to smile more and not be such a bitch i think he may still be sitting in some corner rocking back and forth because of my response and gesture i am tired of people referring to women in power as bitches or unapproachable or whatever words fill the blank to justify their position as woman we fight hard enough to be at the corporate table to be treated as equals and to have the same wages regardless of sex i have watched men denigrate women and only because that person was a threat to their ego as i pointed out the similarities to my friend the light bulb did turn on sometimes when we have conversations we should listen make a list if needed and be open to what people are saying i learned from her that the thought of women being more motherly is what would be more acceptable in the workplace i am hoping she took away from our conversation to start viewing executive women in a different light we need to separate the corporate executive from the maternal image we have somehow embedded in our dna so to the dynamic strong females in my life when you re next seated at a conference table with men and start to feel the testosterone level rise go ahead lean in and say you really should smile more 1 comment email this blogthis share to x share to facebook share to pinterest labels executive lean in powerful women strong women older posts home subscribe to posts atom search this blog blog archive 2018 2 october 1 words may 1 2017 6 october 1 september 1 august 3 january 1 2016 6 november 1 july 3 june 1 february 1 2015 9 december 1 october 2 september 1 july 1 may 2 april 1 january 1 2014 12 july 2 june 1 march 3 february 2 january 4 2013 35 december 4 november 5 october 3 september 2 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